I'm thinking about the wedding night. Seeing how it takes help to get in and out of the gown, I'm not sure how to create romance / a sexy atmosphere in the hotel room with my groom on the wedding night.
Should I let him help me out of the gown?
Should I do it myself, and change in to something?
Should I have my mom or somebody help me?
Is it still traditional to buy nice white (maybe lacy / sexy) wedding wear to go to bed in?
I'm not sure how to work this out gracefully.
Any suggestion? What would you do?
Looking to have a memorable night :)
2007-08-03 10:06:44 · 20 answers · asked by lovespring 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Erica, we just married two months ago. Majority of the time the woman will change out of her dress sometime during the dance so she can be more comfortable. Yes it's still pretty normal practice to have a sexy outfit to put on during alone time at nights end. But also have to be 100% honest and come the end of the night you both may be too tired to get too romantic on wedding night and real romantic evening may not occur until following night. Best of luck and happy marriage.
2007-08-03 10:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well that is the thing when you have your reception and all that after toasts and things and are about to go on your honey moon. You change into a nice outfit to go on your honeymoon in. And you have some nice lingere on underneath that outfit. So once you get where you are going for your honeymoon, and after looking around and stuff and then come back for the honeymoon night, you just tell your new hubby you are going to change into something a bit more comfortable and just slip out the outfit you wore over the lingere and then you come out, but stand in the doorway of the bathroom with your heels still on and strike a sexy pose. Hopefully your new hubby has made arrangements for champagne and such to be brought up to the room. And I'm sure once he sees you, things will go from there. Good luck and congrats.
P.S. I personally think that having the new hubby undress you is sexy and all but it may be too rushed and not so romantic and memorable. Oh and I suggest a nice white lace teddy with garters and some stockings maybe. Depends on what you choose as the outfit you wear over it.
2007-08-03 10:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i'm not so sure what the question is here other than the "should I have my mom help me take off wedding dress"...that 1 is a no-no, but cute.
Trust me, when u 'n ur hubby get into the room, the wedding dress will come off just as naturally and as personally and gracefully as you two want it off...let nature and your care for each other take care of what needs taken care of and the most memorable night will take care of itself.
Tradition of wedding bed wear is out the window on the wedding night...save that for a few yrs down the road after honeymoon is over.
Congratulations.
2007-08-03 10:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2015-11-21 01:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you've picked a dress or had a dress fitting yet, but....my dress is a lace up back and there is no way for me to get myself into or out of it. Not to mention the undergarments for me will be more FOUNDATION garments and hardly sexy.
And I agree with the others, it is going to be a super long day and I don't know that you should have big expectations for anything other than collapsing that night.
Even if your dress zips up, I don't know how you are going to get in or out of it by yourself.
I wouldn't worry about being graceful. He's just married you, hopefully for all the right reasons, and will be happy to help you out of your gown and rub your feet. That's all I'm expecting when it's all over for us that night!
2007-08-03 11:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sistinas 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey... if you have a good time at the wedding and the reception, you will be too tired to think about anything other than crashing in the hotel room that night. And how hard can it be it to take off a dress, anyway? You can practice beforehand if you're that concerned.
2007-08-03 10:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My best suggestion is to have fun, relax and skip sex altogether that night. You will have had a stressful, exhausting day and putting pressure on yourselves to have perfect married sex may not result in a memorable night. Make just getting through the whole thing while having fun your goal. You've got the rest of your lives. Wait until the next day or night, then you're not so pressured and are much more relaxed. Be sure to talk to your Sweety about how you want the night to go (and your concerns) so that neither one of you has expectations that don't get met.
Congratulations!
2007-08-03 10:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by suz665 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2014-12-02 05:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We had a destination wedding with a reception after the honeymoon so I didn't experience all this stress and fatigue that so many others say they did. We left our adorable little chapel in our formal wear and went straight to our secluded cabin! We helped each other out of our clothes... it was perfect for us! Haha, and after well you know, we left our cabin and went on a 5 mile hike in the snow to see the most amazing waterfalls ever! When we returned back to the cabin, we soaked in our hot tub and watched the snow fall before going off to enjoy the rest of our night. Trust me, it will happen in it's own time... DON'T rush it.
2007-08-03 16:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by mrslang1976 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2015-12-05 13:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by Bell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋