Because he will lose interest without the challenge. I say yes, my mate says no. What says you?
2007-08-03 10:23:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anthony F 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, I like being pursued
2007-08-03 10:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by juggy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not true. There's always chance someone could lose interest, no matter who is doing the pursuing/initiating.
2007-08-03 10:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What if the man in question thinks the same in reverse? You could be missing some1 very special. Not all men are macho cavemen types and this is the 21st century. If he loses interest he couldn't have been that interested to begin with so what's to lose? Go for it girl!!!!
2007-08-03 10:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not true.
Any guy that loses interest that easily is just after the chase and isn't really interested in the girl. Instead he's just out to prove that he can get the girl.
2007-08-03 10:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i say if he is interested in you but is shy he'll like the thought that it was mutual and that you saved him from a possibly embarrassing moment so it really depends on the guy you cant just group us together if he's macho then he'll most likely lose interestso it is alll up to chance theres really no set answer
2007-08-03 10:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by shyguy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my experience guys DO lose interest after a woman pursue them, unfortunately, they think it was a piece of cake getting the woman.
2007-08-03 10:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by -Less- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no!
Women can do whatever they want to; and a woman can most definitely pursue a man.
2007-08-03 10:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what a bunch of crap. if a woman likes a man, how woud the man know, i actually like that type of thing, i like being the challange, but it gose both ways if u look at it. relationships should be 50/50, not a hunt, or a truggle for power.
2007-08-03 10:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by jt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a prize to be won I am a person to get to know. It makes no difference who initiates, in my humble opinion, what matters is the content of the relationship/partnership/dating etc etc etc.
Like women cannot also lose interest - harrumph
2007-08-03 12:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by goddess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a lot of guy friends who have all told me that they wish more women would take the initiative. I am not making excuses for them or for men in general, but being a guy is difficult when they are the ones who deal with rejection 2x more than women do.
Some guys say they "like a challenge" because they want to see if a woman is interested not by playing hard to get, but by showing him that she isn't desperate for a relationship and wouldn't NEED to be with a guy in order to be happy. What both sexes are attracted to is the idea of someone being happy just the way they are.
I don't think that women should shy away from wanting to pursue a relationship-- I've met people who are married now because the wife was the one to either ask her husband out, tell him she had feelings for him, or did something else to initiative interest.
And if a guy loses interest in a girl who does initiate, it was to simply prove to his inflated ego that he "could get the girl" easily and just wanted a superficial outcome from it-- and not a real relationship.
That's not to say women out there don't appreciate a chivalrous guy who wants him to pursue her, but by no means does that mean women expect guys to wait on them hand and foot for pursuit!
2007-08-03 10:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymousgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋