I am a 33 year old female and i have a male friend with benefits. we share our thoughts and fun and mad moments together.. this past saturday i text him to be more considerate with something minor. (his wood floors) and he called me back and started cursing me out. I dont know where all that anger came from. My first reaction was that i starting cursing him back. it got really nasty. then he hung up and told me to lose his number. I called him back to apologize for disrespecting him by cursing. but i received no response. Will he call me back? Do u guys have a time limit to cool off and call a woman back.. this hurts like hell. Is there something i can do. Please mature men help me out on how men think. thanks
2007-08-03 10:11:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him some time to cool off, if your p*ssy is tight he won't want to give it up. ~truth~
2007-08-03 10:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Headhunter 6 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well yes a man needs some time to cool off before calling back and the best thing for him would be for you to give him some space if your crowding him it may be the reason for the anger and if the right space is giving you can talk it over with him when you see each other again I've also learned in life that sometimes people want to solve their own problems and try to fix things so you and him can feel the good things outta life and a man is a independent spirit remember that and keep things as smoothed out and in case it happens again don't show anger back.
2007-08-03 10:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by high_metamorph 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kindhearted I'm sorry but my personal belief is that friend with benefits relationships usually end up just as a real relationship does. They are often accompanied with jealousy, anger, turmoil and hurt feelings. As far as having a cool off time, you know this male better than any of us strangers you are seeking answers from, so it's up to you to decide. If you really want to continue with this make believe relationship then you two need to sit down and have a good open minded conversation and put out the ground rules, expectations and role you each play in one and others lives. Best ofl luck to you.
2007-08-03 10:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know for sure he will call you back. It seems he has a good thing going with you. You seem like a women i would not like to lose not just because of the sex but you seem to know what you want.
he will call when he gets horny thats when you have your leverage to find out what happened. I didnt understand what you wrote to him but it might have been more important than you think. or maybe he was in a bad mood. or maybe he was with another female friend and you caused some kind of problem for him.
in any case if i was the guy i know i would eventually call you back. it might take a while but i will. wait a while before thinking of calling him again
2007-08-03 10:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was probably upset with something if it WAS that minor - or the wood floors were much closer to him than you realized and you truly pissed off. Seemingly trivial things can make anyone, male or female, go over the edge.
Almost an entire week has gone by..I'd say the cooling off is done for sure. Don't try and focus on the incident if you talk about it, it's not going to get you far.
2007-08-03 10:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by Doc 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all he's wrong for acting that way and not letting you know why,he should be the one calling you back if you happen to talk both of you' ll should apologize to each other and if he's truly your friend as he said he'll accept it and move on if not you do the next best thing and move on cause he may cause you more pain in the long run.
2007-08-03 10:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by method 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably yelled at you because he was having the bad day and took it up on the first person that came up which was you.....or all his anger has been bottled up and realsed on you......o and as for the no response he hasnt answered because he would feel weak if he did that u apoligized before him...makes him feel emasculined......and/or he proabably does need some time to cool before answring you
2007-08-03 10:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Miss kindhearted, Dear a real man doesn't cuss any women out. But I too am kindhearted like you so I get your reaction ! Lose his number and find yourself a gentleman who loves Jesus !
2007-08-03 10:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ino you probally heard this before its not you its me well my dear its him he wants out and thats the way he knows how to end it let it go and move on you sound like a very carring and beautiful person go out with your friends and enjoy life i gaurantee you will meet mr right and this will be a distant memory remember always be your self and love your self michael d ps youre to good for him
2007-08-03 10:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by michael d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you texted him to be "considerate with his wooden floor'? I don't get it. What exactly did you say?
2007-08-03 10:16:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋