2007-08-03 09:24:04 · 35 answers · asked by hate mi kill mi nam mi raw !!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Answering your question, I think the number of dates doesn't matter. When somebody loves other, I think that the less important thing is the number of dates.
If you're in this problem, as a friend I would suggest you: first, take all world's time to know prefectly who's that guy. Then, listen at your feelings; are you sure he's the right one? or he is not? If yes, well, I would suggest you to ask him to use protection before the sex.
If he's not the right one, just say no!
Always take care of yourself and never do something you don't want to do.
The number of dates are not important, the fact that is important is to take the time to know perfectly who's your friend.
2007-08-04 08:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by Hugo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-03 09:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is any set time for having sex. It depends on when you make the connection with the other person that you feel is right time. It could be the first date, but probably not, more likely on some later date. Also I don't think you should or shouldn't have sex with someone. If you think you are obliged to have sex after some period of time you are on the wrong track. You have sex when the attraction and desire are there, not because some period of time has passed.
2007-08-03 09:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by K K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, keep in mind that sex is an act so if you are trying to be passionate or get close to someone--sex should not be a factor at this point. Keeping a guy guessing is the key. Why do you think Elizabeth Taylor(actress) had so many husbands? She never slept with them when they were dating nor engaged.
2007-08-03 09:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by anaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be an uncomfortable question but.....You have your own choice. Some people say on the first date while others prefer to go on several. Whenever you're ready. I would say go on a several dates (about 5 or more). If you feel that person is right then go for it. If you feel there is something wrong then you know what to do.
2007-08-03 11:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by Cupcak3101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put a number to the situation..cause that won't work...cause let's just say the rule is.... after 5 dates with someone I am going to have sex with them...well...how about if u are physically...like hell ya..and mentally...like nope not ready..so the best answer would be when u are ready...but everyone knows NEVER ON THE FIRST DATE....it shows that u are easy( and guys that are worth your time..usually don't like women like that)
2007-08-03 09:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by Alisha J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no set number of dates. It should be when both parties are comfortable enough and willing. Take time to get to know each other. Once you feel close enough to the person, and he with you, and you are both ready to take that step, it will happen. Remember: it's supposed to be something special; not just sex.
2007-08-03 09:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a funny question, my cousin and I were talking about the same thing the other day. Some men after the first date you go to sleep in a fever, ready to tear your own clothes off and some after a year you still feel like wearing a chastity belt. Do what feels right. Just be careful.
2007-08-03 09:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there really isnt a set limit on how many dates till you have sex. Its really up to u and how you feel about the person.
2007-08-03 09:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by divers_godeeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 dates is the rule
2007-08-03 09:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋