Please explain which is the best period for intercourse. It is always confusing which is the safe period ?

Question

Many young couples when they get married, they don't have enough information about intercourse. Most of the time first night and honey moon turns in to disasters.
It is sad even after 10 years of marriage many couples don't use lubrication like KY Jelly

Again the same issue, instead of learning or teaching, people fight with my question that KY is not required. It is needed to be with the couples on the first night. If you use it then you will understand the use of it. Many marriages break because of this. Instead of addressing this issue with ego, please do help people who read it. There is a safe period, if you know please explain, otherwise wait for the right answer, from me or others.

Answer 1

after you have sex sperm can live in your body for 8-10 days so that's not really the safest thing to be trying to do if you are worried about getting pregnant you should use birth control and even that's not100% so maybe you should concider not having sex until you are married and ready to take on that type of responsibiliy but here are some ways you can try if you are determined.....smile

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This interesting guide lists a number of birth control techniques that can be used instead of pills or patches. The article recommends practicing two or more natural birth control methods at the same time, and lists such methods as:

Withdrawal: The man withdraws his penis from the woman's vagina before he ejaculates. This doesn't always work; even before ejaculation, the penis releases small amounts of semen that can contain sperm, so this is only 60 to 80 percent successful at preventing pregnancy.

Calendar Method: Abstention from sex during the week the woman is ovulating. This technique works best when a woman's menstrual cycle is very regular. The calendar method doesn't work very well for couples who use it by itself (about a 75 percent success rate), but it can be effective when combined with the temperature and mucus methods described below.

The temperature method: This is a way to pinpoint the day of ovulation so that sex can be avoided for a few days before and after. It involves taking the basal body temperature (your temperature upon first waking) each morning with an accurate "basal" thermometer, and noting the rise in temperature that occurs after ovulation.

Illness or lack of sleep can change body temperature and make this method unreliable by itself, but when it is combined with the mucus method, it can be an accurate way of assessing fertility. The two methods combined can have a success rate as high as 98 percent.

The mucus method: This involves tracking changes in the amount and texture of vaginal discharge, which reflect rising levels of estrogen in the body. For the first few days after your period, there is often no discharge, but there will be a cloudy, tacky mucus as estrogen starts to rise. When the discharge starts to increase in volume and becomes clear and stringy, ovulation is near. A return to the tacky, cloudy mucus or no discharge means that ovulation has passed.

Lactational Amenorrhea Method (LAM): Some experts believe that exclusively breastfeeding protects a woman from pregnancy by curbing hormones that trigger ovulation. However, every woman's body responds differently to the hormonal influences of breastfeeding, so this is an unreliable method.

Pregnancy Guide November 2, 2006



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Dr. Mercola's Comment:


Although birth control pills are amazingly effective and highly convenient, there is simply no way you or the one you love should be using this dangerous form of birth control. There are clear risks that will invariably negatively affect the health of the woman using them.

My advice: Avoid birth control pills like the plague.

Considering recent news about mounting lawsuits against Johnson & Johnson for its dangerous and sometimes toxic Ortho Evra patch, it's important to remind you about the natural and more safer options, always at your disposal.

None of the methods listed in the article involve using a prophylactic or spermicide, but there are a number of safe birth control alternatives that do use such devices, including

Answer 2

Ok, Since nobody is taking this girls question seriously... I guess I will. I will give you realistic, non judgmental answers. 1. You do not show love through sex! You do not need sex to be in love just like you do not need love to have sex. Anybody that asks you to show them you love them by having sex is a douche bag. 2. Ask your mom about birth control if you are serious about this. Tell her you are trying to be responsible about this and you would appreciate her support. You do not want a baby! Your mom should understand. She may not like it, but she would dislike a grandchild more. 3. Don't let your first time be in a car or a friends basement or whatever. That sucks. Wait until you have an appropriate place. You will appreciate it more. I know you didn't ask for this but... Please don't be so naive as to think you are for sure going to end up with this guy. College, careers, and life in general are important and change your outlook on things considerably. Good luck

Answer 3

A woman needs to learn the natural family planning method, which involved taking her temp daily and paying attention to vaginal mucus (among other things). This will tell her when exactly she's ovulating; this is the time you don't have sex.
It's definitely not the whole "two weeks into your cycle you ovulate" rhythm method bit because all women don't ovulate in week two (my grandparents actually conceived 4 kids in 5 years using the rhythm method).

I agree with you that people really need education on sex and contraception though.

Answer 4

what? safe period? KY Jelly? couples who don't NEED KY after 10 years are LUCKY not sad. and the what is the safest time to keep from getting pregnant? you want to learn that from yahoo answers? go see a doctor!!!!!!!

Answer 5

No period is safe. The sperm lives for 72 hrs. and can conceive if the eggs are ready. There is an old saying, that Indian women is more furtile than Indian Land. So, always use condom and enjoy rather wait for safe days.

Answer 6

Not everyone needs lube you know. I'm over 40 married 19 years and there isn't any KY on my shopping list.

Answer 7

Some couples don't need lubrication, Ive been married for 6 years, and everything is superb. No lubrication needed

Answer 8

What you are interested in is called Natural Family Planning.

http://www.usccb.org/prolife/issues/nfp/coordinators.shtml
You can search for Natural Family Planning by state at the site above.

Warning: This is a Catholic site, so if the mention of religion offends you . . . . then please disregard and do not use the link. Thanks.

Answer 9

I think it's when the moon is in the seventh house and Jupiter aligns with Mars....but I could be wrong.

Answer 10

If you need lube...then you need to actually learn how to turn on a women...

Also, there is no "safe period" for sex. Its sad that people still dont realize that.