say you are 18, how many guys should u have slept with??

Question

how about 21? who thinks its wrong to just have sex for the hell of it? without connection?

21 years old.. not 21 pps u slep with lol

Answer 1

If your 18? I know I would agree with everyone else...you should wait to your older or married but now a days everyone is doing it as young as 13. But I think the real questions is why do you want to know you should have slept with at 18? Unless you consider yourself a whore....I'm not calling you one but I'm 24 and I'm comfortable with the number of ex's I've been in bed with....that's right ex's.....I don't think it's a good idea to have meaningless sex with any guys at all....then I would be calling you a slut and a whore.....STD Queen?

Answer 2

At 18 i had sex with 2 guys at 21 a few more. Im now 22 and have had several realtionships long and short. I dont know about the sex without a connection though. Alot of women get feelings for a guy when you have sex with a man and can be very confusing at times. I would say make sure you at least love a guy before you have sex with him. But everyone is different. Do what you feel is right.

Answer 3

Unless you are married, none!!! It is completely wrong to have sex just for the hell of it. Whether people want to admit it or not, each sexual encounter has it's effects.

I am assuming when you said 21, you were referring to age, not amount of people. If that is the case, then many people have misunderstood your question and think that you have slept with 21 people. If indeed you have slept with 21 people, I think you should see a counselor

Answer 4

Wow people are really judgemental, first of all, I don't think she means 21 people, I think she is referring to age. How many at 18, how many at 21. But there is no amount you should or shouldn't have slept with. Everyone is different.

Answer 5

okay you have a real problem..and should seek help and I am not trying to be funny this is a problem that you should address....according to the sexual stats that I have read the average girl has 11 sexual partners in a life time..I think that is alot but that's just me..I guess you should stop and ask yourself what you are getting out of this because I can assure you it will emotionally scar you later in life...at some point you are going to grow up and look back at what a fool you were to let guys use you..you must have low self esteem and should start working on that now..or you will end up working in some strip club and being used all of your life good luck

Answer 6

21 seems like a lot for any age in my opinion. I don't know, I just think that the risk for STDs is too great to have casual sex with anyone and everyone. I wouldn't want to get involved with a promiscuous person... as I said the risks are too great.

Answer 7

You can sleep with as many as you want. Its your choice, as long as you use protection and are careful. But in general, I tend to label someone as a little bit trampy if by 18 you'd been with more than 2. But that doesnt mean I would stop being friends with you.

Answer 8

How many SHOULD you have slept with? None. It's an especially bad idea not to make connections. People get so wrapped up in physical stuff that they forget that they are with PEOPLE. Slow down, and find ONE person to be close to.

Answer 9

for me none I don't swing that way . but to have sex just for the hell of it why not become a porn star and get paid for it seems like a waste of time just going around having sex and risking the chance of getting something at least in the porn world they have to get tested regularly

Answer 10

It doesn't matter if it's right or wrong. What matters is how you feel at the end of the day knowing you gave it up to someone that doesn't mean anything to you.