Family & Relationships - 3 August 2007

2007-08-03 20:48:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you think this is wrong i just recently found out, my girlfriend can be my cousin by marriage but it only could be threw her dad ,but i found out he's not her real daddy,so should we keep dating or are we related?

2007-08-03 20:47:33 · 4 answers · asked by george 1 in Family

I am 27 years old and I have just escaped from a high control group cult. Now I am free I have found my self friendless. I have no idea where to go and meet nice people. Most of the people I have met have got all the friends they need and don't want new ones. Do you think anyone will want to be my friend or have I missed the boat since I never made any when I was a young person? I am nice guy just a victim of being in the wrong place at the wrong time! Do you think a girl would want to date a guy who has no friends? I am at a loss at how to explain to people that I have no friends?

2007-08-03 20:46:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-03 20:41:43 · 5 answers · asked by <3 Turtle Owner<3 3 in Weddings

Well I took 2 days off to go to my fiancees brothers wedding and I'm absolutely miserable. He is in the bridal party which means he has to be there at five to take pictures at 5 and thats fine...then the wedding is at 6 and the reception at 7:30. The funny or not so funny part, actually its pretty miserable is that he "has" to sit at the bridal party table. Which he seems to think he has no other choice, and I'm and left to myself. I won't know anyone except his parents and their table will be full, so I have no one. I'm supposed to be his date but I won't even see him for nearly four hours. I've told him I don't want to go, I don't even like the bride. What do you think of the situation? I really rather work than go to this wedding.

2007-08-03 20:29:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

One of my fiance's groomsmen is my ex boyfriend. We dated for 3 years, and the reason we broke up was because of my fiance. That's how I met him, through my ex. Since we still see each other (as he is one of my fiances best friends) we are civil, but it is still very, very awkward and tense. My fiance thinks everything is fine and there is no awkwardness...but it's the complete opposite. I still care for my ex, and I do not want him there on my wedding day. Nothing has happened since we broke things off, except for a kiss, which was never discussed again. My question is, how can I tell my fiance that I do not want my ex as one of his groomsmen, much less in the wedding at all?! It just seems so rude!

Thanks to anyone who helps.

2007-08-03 20:26:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

why do peole always vote the best answer for the long answers when it can be put togather in three words and says the same thing

2007-08-03 20:21:47 · 26 answers · asked by kriz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mom & dad cant stop nagging at me. They're after me. I've got no friends and life is so miserable. Im soooo lonely. I dont know what to do. I've got NO PURPOSE ON EARTH. Im just 16. Mom & Dad love me alot. I need some friends to talk to. Im sad. When I hang out with some friends..They'll just talk amongst themselseves. They'll leave me out.Its like,I DONT EXIST. When I try talking,They're not listening.Mom & Dad wont sit and talk to me. Everyone thinks I have lovely parents. Everyone is jealous of me cuz.. They say that Im rich,..But Im sooo lonely inside.No one,will undertand. Yeah,My parents are too over-protective. Crying alone in my room

2007-08-03 20:21:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am now in my 30s and single. I don't go out that much. I want to get a decent guy who is a professional too.

2007-08-03 20:19:13 · 3 answers · asked by ArtyFarty 3 in Singles & Dating

we had to split, the next girl I was with said I wasn't doing my work properly. she wasn't coping. was I a worse assistant or was she not as good a paralegal? everyone works slightly differently and there is little supervision from the team leader. I had to have a meeting and the team leader gave me list of things that a person with my duration there was supposed to do. I have taken that in my stride. Unfortuatley the girl i was working with still coudn't cope due to personal reasons as well and has left. I then moved on to another para and she said my work was fine!! she is good friends with the team leader. She then moved up and i was left with another person. just recently i got a raise. lack of staff i think. then the other day we starting having to do an extra job sending faxes. apparently i didn't send some because i couldn't see tray and i had a phone message that was given to team leader too late. i had good reason. she has now given me a verbal warning. should i worry?

2007-08-03 20:19:02 · 6 answers · asked by Leigh J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love Bleach and especially Hitsugaya Toushirou.So I'm looking for some wall papers 4 my comp.Does any 1 know were I can find some? Not the ones that are al blurry but fitt my comp perfectly and that I'm able to see the pic clearly?

2007-08-03 20:18:06 · 2 answers · asked by fullmetal003 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So, im a dude and my wife is fine with it. but is it bad for me to be taking my kids to hooters? my 3 year old likes it better than chuck e cheese, the waitresses give her more attention than the mouse does. but, is it wrong? we all as a family enjoy it immensly. my reason is obivious. my wife likes it cause she is seriously half lesbo, so is it wrong to take my daugthers? serious answers only!!

2007-08-03 20:15:50 · 6 answers · asked by Allie K 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-03 20:13:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he keeps cheating on me,he has had two baby by someone eles why we were together,he lies about everything,and when he live he say he is coming back and don't,and he cuts his phone off,and when we are together he don't answer his phone.what is going on do i need to move on?

2007-08-03 20:10:24 · 11 answers · asked by Keisha R 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together almost 2 years, most of it's been long distance (he's military) he always says how much he loves me and wants to marry me/have kids with me. I am just so doubtful about things. I dont think he has been honest with some of his friends at home about me...I think they think we just were FWB. I went to visit him thousands of miles away. I'm tired of guessing and wondering. He tells me over and over again how he feels...but other people keep putting doubts in my mind about him. I cant take it anymore. Seems like the only people who think we should be together are he and I

2007-08-03 20:07:27 · 14 answers · asked by gally g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I'm 16. My little brother asked me to give him "the talk". What should i tell him. i know alot, but i cant put it to words. i need something word for word!

2007-08-03 20:02:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok me and this boi have been goin out for a while now and we are currently engaged...and i totaly love him with all my heart....and he loves me with all his heart....but he has moved to tn and i live herein florida...and since we moved away from each other....it seams like we are starting to drift appart more and more...like we dont talk as much and when we do we dont say much if at all...and it scares me to think im loosing him so wut do yall think i should do ????

2007-08-03 20:02:07 · 4 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The question was from a girl in a crappy relationship..cheating, abuse, neglect etc. She wanted to know what SHE was doing wrong. I suggested that she attend her local community college. Hell, it was such a sad and depressing situation. I thought she would benefit from a new and intelligent source. I recieved a report from the q&A abuse center. No reason, just that my reply was pulled. College did so much for me in every way. I just wanted to share that option. Is that abuse?

2007-08-03 20:01:38 · 17 answers · asked by daisyjzmum 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 31. live in pakistan and am not married yet. in my society girls get married at 25 MAX so i feel like such a loser.. besides that i also made major mistakes in eductaion. i did my bachelors and never went ahead with masters.. did good online jobs but that experience doesnt count. i want to make soething good of my life. i have enrolled myself in MBA program.. but sometimes i wonder is it now too late for me to start over..?? there is so much pressure to get married and i have no one in my life.. i feel so worthless at times but i want to do so much.. i just want to stop thinking abt what other ppl think.. i want to be above their narrow vision of life but it seems impossible at times.. please help..

2007-08-03 20:01:25 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy that I REALLY REALLY like and we talk on the phone and he calls me babe and you no that kinda stuff he even asks me if im gonna call him tommorow before we get off the phone, but he likes some other girl and no they are not going out .And I no I should jus forget about him but the problem is I cant. PLEASE HELP !!

2007-08-03 20:01:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What i want to tell is that pain is like lose of love,hurt by someone or cheated by someone.But every one reacts totally different to these situations.I know one guy who lost his love (she got married)became lunatic for years always thinking about her n past memories,but she is living happily with her husband,why this happens?.How these people can move on easily from the pain.

2007-08-03 19:58:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

from a somewhat annoying ex gf

(if you skim read or have done so my previous couple of questions) you will know what im on about but in short im 20 she is 18 and lives far away from me (out of the country, 6,000 miles plus) and weve been over for 16 months now and we both must have moved on, I definately have and she will have done because thats just life Isnt it people move on but never forget but she randomly mails me saying hi how are you, tell me news? and this is what she sent me last week ironically the same night I was out in Manchester on a date

"Hey boy! :))
How are u?! Jus had our leaving ball.. and i know u and i spoke about it..
so just wanted to send you some pics! Thought bout u
a lot....
xxxxxx"

she sent me 3 pics with it one of her, and parents and I guess her bf or just date for the night or just a mate, im not jealous I just dont know what im supposed to say in reply, " you look great" "piss off" "the point of this mail is???"

what am i meant2say?

2007-08-03 19:57:17 · 15 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-03 19:56:49 · 2 answers · asked by Jason B 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to try reverse cowgirl position with my lady. For those who do not know, it is the female on top only turned towards the man's feet. Many years ago, I did this position with my then girlfriend. She aid it hurt her as my pennis gets so stiff. My penis is very hard when erect and faces upward close to my body, so this creates much tension from this angle for the girl. Anyone else experience this and if so, how do you master this position?

Does this position hit the G=spottt for women?

2007-08-03 19:55:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom and her new husband being together. my mom left my dad about 2 years ago and went to live with this guy immediately afterwards. last february, two weeks after my mom and dad's divorce got through, they got married (by law only, no ceremony, and i didn't know until afterwards).

i'm the type of person that believes in marriage, so it bothered me a lot when they were living together before being "married." it's not that it's my business to force my way on others...it's just that it's so much more painful because it's my mother. but the thing is, it still bothers me, and i think it always will bother me....especially since i (accidentally) heard them at "it" in the middle of the night. i am so angry, and i really hate her stupid husband. and i know there is nothing i can do about it...i feel like i can never look at my mom the same way again...

has anyone been through this kind of situation? how do you deal with it?

2007-08-03 19:53:28 · 10 answers · asked by RQ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This has been a year straight from hell!
as many of you know my wife of 16 years, started to contact her 1st love when I asked about it she informed me it was just nostalgia ( she's 7 years older), but it wasn't it almost went into physical side at her HIGH SCHOOL REUNION, hell he even had the balls to come to my home but I kicked his @$$ and sent him on his way!

We separated for a few months but after allot of therapy we got back together on my part mostly for the kids we have 5 all adopted, and 3 nieces and nephew teens that we got guardianship of thats a total of 8 already!

Well I came home last month and everything seems fine in fact it's been great , the wife has been really happy I'm home and have been making amends, the kids all seem happy and glad I'm home but theirs something missing and today I found out what it is TRUST!

My wife asked if she could go with a few friends all who knew about the affair, and I almost freaked because I realize the trust is gone what can I do?

2007-08-03 19:52:19 · 13 answers · asked by Free-Lance 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-03 19:51:23 · 18 answers · asked by Col Ashok S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well the thing is we dont have any wood to be chipped. i just hope this has nothing to do with me forgeting her birthday. i am wondering if this is gift that she gave herself and maybe i should give her half for the chipper.

2007-08-03 19:49:52 · 7 answers · asked by just hanging around 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy that i REALLY REALLY like and we talk on the phone and he calls me babe and you no that kinda stuff, but he likes some other girl and I no I should jus forget about him but the problem is i cant. PLEASE HELP !!

2007-08-03 19:40:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So one day I decided to show off in front of a guy i liked at the pool. he was just sitting by the deck and i showed him how freaking fast i could kick with a board. after four lengths i realized my nipples were showing because my top fell! i've shown interest before by flirting soooo i'm hoping he didn't think it was on purpose that this "accident" happened. he didn't saying anything about it...do you think a guy would ever think a girl did something like that on purpose?!

2007-08-03 19:38:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family