from a somewhat annoying ex gf
(if you skim read or have done so my previous couple of questions) you will know what im on about but in short im 20 she is 18 and lives far away from me (out of the country, 6,000 miles plus) and weve been over for 16 months now and we both must have moved on, I definately have and she will have done because thats just life Isnt it people move on but never forget but she randomly mails me saying hi how are you, tell me news? and this is what she sent me last week ironically the same night I was out in Manchester on a date
"Hey boy! :))
How are u?! Jus had our leaving ball.. and i know u and i spoke about it..
so just wanted to send you some pics! Thought bout u
a lot....
xxxxxx"
she sent me 3 pics with it one of her, and parents and I guess her bf or just date for the night or just a mate, im not jealous I just dont know what im supposed to say in reply, " you look great" "piss off" "the point of this mail is???"
what am i meant2say?
2007-08-03 19:57:17 · 15 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she hasn't totally moved on...or she is trying to make you jealous.....write her back and ask her what she means by "Thought about you alot.."plus shes signing with xxxx which are kisses so.....ask yourself if ya might wanna start a relationship wit her or just be friends?If friends do what I mentioned and ask her why she's sending ya pictures of her and another guy??Well good luck and let me know...
2007-08-03 20:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by Nichole B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, she could just have you on her mind without anything attached in motives for one. However, I'm kind of thinking that she may have feelings still while honoring the fact that you two are just friends. Why is she annoying exactly? What did she do to become that? There are plenty of factors to add into this. Just say hi back to her. Tell her how you have been. You don't have to tell her rather or not you thought about her. When she replies back you'll know her motives more by rather or not she goes more in depth with why she is thinking about you a lot....
2007-08-03 20:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by criesunjust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say don't f**k up any relationship unless you really have to. If you can politely close this or keep distance, try that as a first option.
This could be done by politely explaining to her to move on and let you move on. Or maybe you should not respond to her right away and let her guess wether you liked her mail or not....respond back with a "hi" long time later as if you never registered her earlier mail. I guess, few such responses will give her the message you want to.
2007-08-03 22:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by cucumber_cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buddy to tell u the truth i think she still thinks about u and really isnt over u cause if she is senddin a pic with another guy she is trying to make u jelous just pla it off an say as u said u look great and maybe add on (good to see ur gettin along fine) just to sorta let it be known that u think she is gettin along fine and not "back in the past" (u and her) i would LOVE to hear what she says after that
2007-08-03 20:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Lance G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her that you have moved on and are not interested in hearing from her. You wish her well but don't want to communicate, and will not answer emails from her in the future. If that's too harsh, then you could just try ignoring them until she goes away, but she's probably not the type to take a hint. Or you could just not let it get to you. It does sound like she's just trying to be friendly: I don't know why it's annoying to you, but assuming it is, tell her gently that you're not interested.
2007-08-03 20:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing the entire history, I would say that it's a friendly note just to let you know how she's doing. You might want to send her something back to say how your doing in a nutshell. I think she just wants to let you know that she's doing well...I don't think she was trying to make you jealous, but of course every girls wants her ex to think that he made a bit of a mistake leaving her.
If you guys were friends before bf/gf, then I'd say it was just something that a friend was sending out to keep in touch. Sometimes we want to write you guys to let you know how things are going, but think that we need a specific excuse to do so--which is what these pictures might have been.
2007-08-03 20:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey man don't be mean. It wont hurt you to send her a civil reply and say how life is treating you.
Its just a matter of courtesy and keeping the friendship on slow burn.
2007-08-03 22:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by Paul R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother replying, you didnt ask for the communication. if you wanted to know about her leaving ball you would already have known she was having it.
no response puts her fire out. unless you want to start it again.
2007-08-03 22:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by wonderingstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you all had a good time & hope you're doing great?
Your "Piss off" comment works too :P
2007-08-03 20:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants to stay friends. If this is not possible then you should say so and make it direst by not hedging.
2007-08-03 20:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋