2007-08-03 19:51:23 · 18 answers · asked by Col Ashok S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi,
Live for today. If you think of history to much your present will not be good and your future will be burst.
Enjoy Life you will not get 2nd chance.
2007-08-03 20:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you say that? I think you are referring to a man remarrying or entering into a relationship with a woman after the death of his wife. He didn't do that during his wife's lifetime. So he was loyal and caring to her. But you can't expect all men to lead a solitary life or the wife of a celibate after the death of their wives. Many men need women for a fulfilling and complete life. It is neither unnatural nor a comment on their loyalty to their spouses. A man may cherish the memories of his wife after her death, even if he remarries. And such a trait as you have referred to, is not restricted to men alone. Many women do it too.
2007-08-04 14:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should be glad that atleast there are men who wait until their wives have past before they go looking for another. There are a lot of men who cheat on their wives, and/or get a divorce from her, only to go to India within months of the finalization and get married to a much younger version of their ex...and this is with his family's blessing. Who cares about the family he refused to work on and left broke? Who cares about the kids in the middle? But before the wife dies, they might've talked about how soon her man should go marry. I mean, she's dead, she can't physically be with him anymore, so it's her duty to let him go, so he can find someone to live until his death. It's not like he forgot her. I know some men who celebrate their first wives death anniversaries, and haVe memorials for them, and go to cemetraies and pray for them...but they're remarried and have kids from their second wife.
2007-08-04 14:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age, everyone, men or women have needs. Loyalty and integrity towards the deceased will not bring him or her back. Life has to go on and those left behind will need to move on and make adjustments with time. Do not judge them, they are just moving on.
2007-08-04 03:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Nora C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have always been thinking about this question. yes. its amazing. as a wife i dont think i would get married again after my husband's death at any age. i wont be able to come out of the sorrow. i would prefer remembering all the beautiful days we spent together and raise our children exactly the way we both had thought we would. but i am sure, if its me who dies, my hubby would get married after a year. for sure. if not for himself just because he is emotionally blackmailed by his parents to. any way he would. as such men are much more weaker then women mentally and emotionally.
2007-08-06 05:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by sweetu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite true. Unless he is occupied with service to mankind such as caring for the orphans or the elderly, his mind wd turn into a devil's workshop. Let him engage himself in the best hobby he likes and also devlop a gud relationship with God.
2007-08-04 05:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by jimmybond 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one song "chod de sari duniya kisse ke liye yeh munasif nahin aadmi ke liye" see in this also they mention aadmi not insaan and in other words according to salmaan khan "aadmi tou kutta hota hai us ki fitrat hi kutton jaisi hote hai" so if god has made us like this then go and ask god that why he made us like this, my girl always say that after her death she will come in my dreams and will not let me forget her so I think that every girl has to do the same to change Men made by God
2007-08-04 05:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by Vikram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good wife always wants the spouse to be happy, to find happiness, to pursue happiness -- whether she is alive or dead and and gone! So do things that will make you happy, sothat she is happy wherever she is! If you find happiness in loyalty and integrity and celibacy, then so be it! (anything else the bereaved hero does, don't let him give her golf set to any one; she won't like it! -- remember that joke, don't you?)
2007-08-04 03:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding, right. I mean the promise is until death do us part. Marriage is not forever, it's for life. Although some ppl think life is forever. The love of your departed spouse never leaves you, but would she, if she loved you, want you to be happy too?
2007-08-04 03:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by dweebken 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Indeed! Knew somebody who married his wife's sister 2 months later!!
2007-08-04 03:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋