What i want to tell is that pain is like lose of love,hurt by someone or cheated by someone.But every one reacts totally different to these situations.I know one guy who lost his love (she got married)became lunatic for years always thinking about her n past memories,but she is living happily with her husband,why this happens?.How these people can move on easily from the pain.
2007-08-03 19:58:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok...everyone feels pain...but everyone also deals with pain in different ways. some ppl are all depressed for a short period of time and then, boom they are overit...some ppl hold it in...a grudge if u will. SOme ppl lose their minds, blow it out of proportion and kill ppl, some cry about it...for long periods of time and it stays a sore spot. no 2 pains are dealt with the same way....oh!! My sister gets mad at everyone and takes it out on anything! it just depends.
2007-08-03 20:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Just Moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right that people feel pain and deal with said pain in very different ways. There is no way to make someone move forward any sooner--I think we all just need to go through our mourning periods, a time of depression...and then we can move on. No one can really tell us when we need to just get over it, so being the friend of someone in such a situation is very difficult! You need to push the person to get out of the house when you don't know exactly when and how hard to push. Just do your best to listen to the person and specifically ask them what you can do to help. Sometimes people want to hear, "What a jerk he was!" and other times they just need sympathy and a kind shoulder to lean on.
2007-08-03 20:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question get asked a lot on here...
Pain is different for everyone..
we all have different personalities.. as u go thru life.. u will learn about them...
from sweet and loving to people who need to be on medicine to keep from being evil..
pain.. is a hurtful word...
People have different levels of pain..
2007-08-03 20:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moving on? shock therapy... . humm mostly medication will just make things worse, or youll become a zombie, but dont have him loose complete hope. plus most likely the person never will forget it, and time does not heal, but some dont want to forget, even if its painful for them. because even witht he shard of happiness and pool of pain, their still there, in their minds, havent aged a bit, and the good memories are left. they shouldnt have to forget it, but they must move on, or life will become a waste to them.
2007-08-03 20:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no pain no heart yes i know its usual said the other way but just think about it same when your going to school if you don't let things run of you and dwell, you will go to the bottom of the class & have a big job to pick up to where you were
2007-08-03 20:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by david p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are not serious about some relationships and don't have many Strong feelings for the other person.
2007-08-03 20:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by fullmetal003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pain is same for everyone but some people try to keep a stronger mind.
2007-08-03 20:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no pain is very diff. for everybody especially between men and women.
2007-08-03 20:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by SYNCERE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they didn't feel the same way.
2007-08-03 20:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋