ok me and this boi have been goin out for a while now and we are currently engaged...and i totaly love him with all my heart....and he loves me with all his heart....but he has moved to tn and i live herein florida...and since we moved away from each other....it seams like we are starting to drift appart more and more...like we dont talk as much and when we do we dont say much if at all...and it scares me to think im loosing him so wut do yall think i should do ????
2007-08-03 20:02:07 · 4 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't keep pursuing him. You can't make him love you. The more desperate you are, the more you will push him away. Be a little unavailable, a little mysterious. Try to develop outside things to talk about -- like you are just going out to the library or to meet some friends or to the park, or you just went to a museum or to a church service... you should always be just about to go or just coming back from something (for real, don't make it up). That will make you seem mysterious and interesting. If all you talk about is how you love him, then that's boring. Also, don't email him and call, let him take the initiative. Boys like to chase --be hard to catch. Oh, and be the first off the phone, don't let conversations linger. Let him wonder where you're going and who you're with.
2007-08-03 20:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can, try to schedule some face-to-face time with him very soon. It may feel like you're drifting away from each other when it might just be that he's adjusting to a new living situation and misses you terribly. Most of the time, guys aren't big telephone conversationalists, so don't take it as a bad sign if he doesn't talk to you that much on the phone.
2007-08-04 03:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it, he needs to know how you feel about all of this and see what he says: One of the biggest parts of a relationship is communication, if you dont talk to each other, then you have a problem already.
2007-08-04 03:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Cadwen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same boat, except my g/f is in fl and im in miss, thats why shes about to put me on child support.........go figure.
2007-08-04 05:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋