WHAT SHOULD I DO WHEN I LOVE HIM SO MUCH. I MET MY BOYFRIEND 5 MONTHS AGO. WE MET THROUGHT SOME ONE WE BOTH NEW. WE GOT VERY CLOSE WITH EACH OTHER. I TRY VERY HARD NOT 2 LOVE THIS MAN BECAUSE I HAD JUST GOT OUT OF A LOVE THING LAST YEAR. BUT HE WAS VERY PASSIONATE AND UNDERSTANDING FROM THE FIRST DAY I MET HIM. HE SPOILED ME ALSO FROM DAY ONE. WITH ALL KINDS OF GIFTS. HE TOOK VERY GOOD CARE OF ME I DIDN'T HAVE 2 GO WITHOUT WITH HIM. EVEN OUR LOVE LIFE IN THE BED ROOM WAS MORE THAN I COULD SAY. THAN ONE DAY I WAS OUT WITH SOME FRIENDS AND WHEN I GOT HOME I CALLED HIM AND GOT NO ANSWER. I DIDN'T TALK WITH HIM NONE THAT NIGHT. NONE THE NEXT FEW DAYS EITHER. WHEN I DID TALK WITH HIM THE NEXT WEEK HE WAS TELLING ME THAT HE WAS GOING BACK 2 HIS X-WIFE. I COULDN'T BELIEVE THE THINGS HE WAS SAYING 2 ME. THERE MORE.. BUT WE HAVE NOT TALK WITH ONE ANOTHER IN 2 WEEKS. BUT I CAME 2 FIND OUT THAT HE DIDN'T GO BACK TO HIS X. BUT HE HAD A DRUG PROBLEM AND DIDN'T WANT ME IN HIS LIFE. I STILL LOVEHIM
2007-08-03 18:35:24 · 10 answers · asked by LOOKING HARD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry to learn you have inadvertently been introduced to the drug world. but you must leave right now.
a very difficult problem. however, you do not want to fall in love or continue a relationship with a drug addict.
unfortunately, you can be sucked into the drug world with him. this is the last thing you want or need in your life. drugs can and do destroy without warning.
it may be painful, however, your only option is to cut of the relationship immediately.
there will be a period of pain, but is is your only logical decision.
give him credit for breaking the relationship from his end.
he knows all the problems.
he understands the problems with being in and out of jail and the need to steal and a life of crime.
2007-08-04 05:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. At least he had the decency to break it off with you. Life with a drug addict is no fun. Maybe he will miss you so much, he might quick but be strong for yourself 1st and then that may help him. Some relationships are not meant to be forever, however you did get something good out of it. So on with your future he helped you through a rough patch now you must go on and have a lovely happy healthy life. Goodluck
2007-08-03 18:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not like this answer, but you need to leave him alone. once a junkie, always a junkie. plus a lier to top it off. you may think that is the drugs making him act this way, but do you really want to deal with this? i would imagine that you are young so why waste some of the best years of your life for someone you have known 5 months. just my opinion. good luck.
2007-08-03 18:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by jmckeever9696 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that was his way of shielding you from the drug problem. Just tell him how you feel, and that you'll be there for him no matter what. By pushing you away he's basically trying to protect you. If he really likes you he'll appreciate it no matter how much he denies it. God bless, and good luck!
2007-08-03 18:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT WHAT U ARE GOING THRU IS NATURAL, WE ALL GET TWISTED IN WHAT WE THINK IS LOVE.
A) HE LIED TO YOU AND SAID HE WAS GOING BACK TO HIS XWIFE, shows that he didn't give a danm about what you were going to feel...pain.
B) HE IS ON DRUGS, do you want to give your love to someone that flat out put drugs before you???
C) YOU SAID IT YOURSEL "HE SPOILED YOU", move on hon, you WILL find someone else and when you do you will not have to second guess. MAKE YOURSELF NOT LOVE HIM, because if you can't it will only hurt YOU... not him, he is doing his own self destructing...
2007-08-03 18:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by ♥100%BayLady♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your bubble to the top sweetie. You were used and except this as a fact. In his mind you are just a statistic. I feel for you and wish you should have requested your problem months ago.
Move on baby, lick your wounds and learn from your mistake.
Grandpa
2007-08-03 18:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL,TAHT WAS A CRAZY STORY,U JUST HAVE 2 GET OVER IT SOMETIME, HE WILL ALWAYS HAVE A PLACE IN OUR HEART BUT I THINK THAT U SHOULD JUST LET IT GO IN U WILL GET OVER IT,I HOPE BUT LOVE DON'T GO AWAY,BUT JUST GIVE HIM TIME 2 GET OVER HIS SELF IN THINGS WILL,GET BETTER 4 U,SOMETIMES PEOPLE WIT DRUG PROBLEMS GET CRAZY.BUT JUST DON'T FALL IN LOVE 4 A MONTH OR SO,JUST LIVE THE SINGLE LIFE 4 A LIL BIT.
2007-08-03 18:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by !*DamN Im SeXY!* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to therapy to find out why you have no self-esteem and no self-respect. How can you love a person who lies to you and does drugs? How can you possibly think you have a future with this person?
2007-08-03 18:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it might help if u think the way he does. if u love him really, you should know better. u deserve someone who makes u feel important and who'll prioritize you. and it seems that this guy cant be both.
2007-08-03 18:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by este.liam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to leave him because he wants his X-wife. so you have to treat him as a friend only
2007-08-03 18:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by shiva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋