Before i got my job, i would get money ($10) evryday to eat after school and i had to save it up for a whole school week (YES not eating for 5 days in a row after school, mind you i never eat school luch)...all of this was 2 buy him a pair of black converse for xmas. Him and his mom dont get along and shes a bitc* and wont give him money. When we got transit tickets i would pay for his too (i had my job at this time). I pay for food 90% of the time cuz he dnt hav a job (and he really looks for one and i dont kno wats goin on). I mean he did have a little job with some people getting 20bucks a day and he did start saving but he took me out one day and it basically was spent He told me that wen i ask him for something he feels proud and happy 2 pay. He appreciates everything I do for him and he thanks me and is grateful for me. NO, he is NOT a loser and NO hes is not using me so dont think that. BUt omg u should see how happy he gets wen he buys me things...its unexplainable.
2007-08-03 18:34:45 · 13 answers · asked by H0tt_P!nk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have almost 2years together and he has my name on his arm =] we are so in love. he has patience for my temper and tantrums. something else i do for him is..well i work at a fast food place and wen he pickz me up, i always bring him some food cuz he doesnt eat at home. i feel that i need 2 be there for him cuz even though he has friends, there is only one me. and he needs me like i need him. we are there for each othe always. i know that he loves me with all his heart and is proud of me. i am proud of all his effort and for all the change he has made in his life for me. im making him stop smoking cigarets. and he has become a better and more aware person. now that we have love he knows he has to do all he can so we can have a happy life togethr.
2007-08-03 18:41:31 · update #1
guys c'mon...wtf. i hate wen ppl say im his mother. its not like i but him clothes and shi*. all i do is surprise him wen i kno he needs it. im basically sayig FOOD. he like never eats good n i feel bad sometimes. he HAS bought things for me. valentines day, my bday, xmas. im just saying that wat do u think of me??? trustttt me he looks for jobs 24/7 but they all want full time and we still students!!!
2007-08-03 18:45:43 · update #2
You must very fond of him. You must know something we don't because you see the best side of him, that's why you are willing to share your best with him.
Very good. Keep it up. He is a good man. Yes, it is good that he is delight to pay for you.
Might be you can be his mentor for him and inspire him to be something greater than he is, of which he could possibly be, if you only push him. (By that I mean, keep doing what you are doing) You can even play make believe with him.
He sounds like a cool guy
2007-08-03 18:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by deskof.vivian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's nice that you want to do things for him, and pay the majority of the time. Just make sure he doesn't get use to the idea. I'm not saying he is a loser but he needs to apply himself a little more to find a job so he can pay for things as well. When I was younger my dates and I always took turns paying.
2007-08-04 01:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lil's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with the girl paying every once in a while. But it seems like u pay for everything. At least he appreciates it. I think he needs to get a job if he's so happy to pay for u. It's nice to give and take in a relationship.
2007-08-04 01:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope by the time you grow up hes planning to spend on you the way you spend on him now.You have a messiah complex like some women who love to spend on their man on everything it makes them feel empowered and good.No hes not a looser your making him to be one,no hes not using you your showing he has that option.Sorry life has been rough for him but life isnt a picnic for me either and ive gotten on my own two feet on my own.Tell him to do the same.Give a man fish hell eat for a day teach a man to how to fish hell eat for rest of his life.
2007-08-04 01:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by aaddictiontoneperson 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are the sugar momma and he is the leach. He should have been able to find some kind of job. His mom is probably not the immature name you called her, but knows how he is with money and doesn't want to waste it.
2007-08-04 01:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw. don't worry about it. just don't let it go on forever, he eventually needs to get a job. my mom does this to her bf, she basically buys everything for him. nothing big just like food,clothes,stuff like that and he really appreciates it. and he gets really happy when he can do something for her.
its not his fault, its just stuff he has been through in his life.
2007-08-04 01:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by miss.melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the mom he wishes he had, to buy him things and give him gifts. Sounds like a parent/ child relationship.
2007-08-04 01:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by 1TON 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats good you have found a good guy i would never say hes a loser
2007-08-04 01:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats your question?
2007-08-04 01:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by Kirsty Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever works - and it seems to be.
2007-08-04 01:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋