how do i ERASE my ex G/f out of my life forever!!?

Question

thinking about my ex g/f makes me depressed and i feel that i didnt really love her..she calls me sometimes "to see whats up" and im not interested in her friendship or whatever she wants..i know she didnt love me and she DONt love me..so im not wastin my time and energy on her..help!!!

Answer 1

FIrst, go watch The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

then find a place you can talk to girls easily. School? maybe?
or just hang with friends, with time, you'll find new things to do and new chics (as a bonus)

Be honest with her if she won't leave you alone.
just don't let her try to make up for it.

yes yes. Tina!!
discover your self again. Enjoy the broken and tattered you. The past is where you came from. Its called experience. Just don't turn down the new ones just to hold on to the old ones (that are GONE)

This is life and it only gets better,

If you let it!!

Answer 2

If you feel this way and you that no time in the future that you would not want to be with her you need to tell her the truth that your relationship with her is over and that you are not looking forward to being friends now and forever and that she should just stop calling and move on with her life and you will do the same. Have you thought that maybe she did and did not express it in the right way for you to understand that she was feeling this way? If you want to know ask her if she had any feelings for you and if she did why didn't she tell you for you to know that at least you had a feeling that she was having those feelings for you. If not tell her that you appreciate that she is calling to check up on you but there is no reason fo her to do it and you want her to stop and leave you alone.

Answer 3

I had the same problem with my ex-boyfriend. I just looked at the caller ID and stopped picking up the phone when he called... After I did that, he left about 6 messages on my answering machine asking me why. If he couldn't figure out why, then he was really not worth talking to. Wow, I was worth 6 whole messages... that right there tells me I did the right thing.

Answer 4

Simple.CUT HER OUT OF YOUR LIFE COMPLETELY!
I went through the SAME thing.And it was hard,and I couldn't grow.Until i deleted her number,and told her,I can't do the friend thing.And I just did it(and before that i was going to and from her for a year,driving myself crazy)and trying the friend thing.Trust me,it don't work!.Cut her out 100% don't even give her 1%.
Explain it's all or nothing.Then stick too it.
And in time,give it a few months at least,you'll hopefully meet someone else.But don't be in a rush.Give yourself some love now,and recharge your batteries.Peace.

Answer 5

Well she was part of your life for good or bad. You cannot remove the memory of somebody from your life. Every experience you have in life is a learning experience so don't think of your time with her as a bad thing. Think about the good times you had with her.

If you no longer want to keep in contact with her just let her know next time she rings that you would prefer she didn't call you. Just tell her that she was an important part of your life but you want to move on now. Don't be rude to her but make it clear that you would prefer she did not ring. If she tries to ring again just check your caller ID before you answer the phone. Don't answer if it is her. If she keeps calling, talk with one of her friends and ask him/her to talk with your ex. Always be polite and explain you don't mean to hurt her feelings but you need to move on and you cannot if she keeps calling you.

Don't burn your bridges with her, seriously you never know what will happen in the future, I have heard stories about people who were mean to their exes only to regret it in later life. You never know she might become a cop and pull you over for speeding and suddenly they will "find" 100 kilo of drugs in your car !!

So just be adult about it, talk with her and ask her to stop calling you. If she starts to act like a child just ignore her

Answer 6

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Answer 7

keep your self occupied at all times try finding a new girl show her no attention when she calls dont answer or if you do answer treat her like one of the boys say whats up man? how is life treating ya or ill catch you later im bout to go just show her no interest what so ever

Answer 8

oh you want her back by trying to talk to her or she kept comign to see you that you let her come then make your own schedule plans to go out with a new woman to keep you busy and block her calls and email for a while or forever so you will not think of her again ... love sucks but sometime it is not weird eh that happened to everone ok good luck

Answer 9

Erase her #. Tell her you dont want to talk to her anymore. Go be around people, go out, w/e be with freinds, that way you don't think about her. Maybe try to find someone else and move on.

Answer 10

you really wanna get over her? As much as it hurts, don't answer her calls, erase her phone number and avoid anything that has to do with her!
Its the whole out of sight out of mind process. So that's the only way you'll get over her and get her out of your life. If you dont wanna tell her, just ignore her calls..she'll get the hang of it.....unless you wanna tell her directly. good luck?