There was a friend of my family that came visit us. We had a wonderful time together, after only 2 days, I feel I loved her very much, and she loved me too. I think it was just a few days short of being in love, she soon left town.
Now, she's back to her town, we are stuck with talking through IM text.
I CAN'T MAKE AN EMOTIONAL CONNECTION ANYMORE!!!!
I AM DESPERATE!!!!!!!!!!!
My heart yearns for her so much, but, using the messenger is like I wasn't talking to her at all, our conversation DOES NOT FLOW unless it is fed by body language.
Everything shall be ruined if I can't tell her nice things that will make her feel happy and appreciated. But I'm such a stupid person. If I don't see her smile, encouraging me, I can't think of anything to say, all seems senseless.
If I can't turn this into a long distance relationship I MAY NEVER SEE HER AGAIN!!!! If our relationship turns cold now, it's ruined forever.
Please help!!! I need any advice you can give me!!!
2007-08-03 17:48:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can I even try to talk to her If I can't see her??/
I was crying over the keyboard as typing her a message, so much I miss her, so much I want to see her.
but she's just too far away.... it should take many months before we would be able to see each other again, even if she yearns for me as much as I yearn for her.
2007-08-03 17:52:15 · update #1
I myself have had a long distance relationship.
Call each other often...chat when you can!
Text each day and Keep in touch!
Even the odd e-mail helps!
It does work...and the months will soon pass,
and when you do finally meet again, the moment shall be much better!
2007-08-08 23:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are hard. No question. There is nothing I can say that will make it easy or guarentee it will work out. Stay connected. E-mail, phone, visits. If you are both on the same page you will likely want to make it an in person thing. I don't suggest keeping it a long distance relationship for more than a year. I know some go on for years and years, and that's not real anymore. It can turn into fantasy land easily.
Being in person and far away are very different though some people will say otherwise. See how things go for the next few months. Don't act too eager (desperate) within just a few days. As much as you think you are falling in love, don't we all in those very early days? Good luck!
2007-08-04 00:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by paperpenandtea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If their is real chemistry between the two of you and not just an attraction, you will find a way to make it work. But only knowing her two days doesn't help much. Maybe you should talk on the phone or send emails getting to know one another. Or surprise her with flowers or something nice to make her smile and let her know you are thinking of her.
2007-08-04 00:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try calling her. Hearing each other's voices could help. You can also talk about more since you don't have to type it all and run out of time only talking about a few things over a half hour.
2007-08-04 00:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by oreoreoreo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try a different method of communication, perhaps use a phone, or web camera. If you feel this way, why don't you go and visit her. I'm sure she would appreciate it. She came and visited you, so why not visit her. Stay with her for a while and let your relationship grow.
2007-08-08 07:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can It be a long distance relationship when you live in the same country?
Maybe give a few more details , age etc
2007-08-08 07:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by Drunvalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey why don't you both get web cams they are great fun and it breaks many barriers when you see the person ! my sister lives in Australia and i miss her like crazy .. but we have great fun on cam.. try that or why don't you write her a letter expressing how you feel along with a nice bunch of flowers? if you can't afford flowers press one you like and pop it in the card !! don't work yourself into a state about it as she most prob feels the same communicate tell her how you feel but most importantly have fun doing it x
2007-08-04 01:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Honey....If it is possible maybe you guys should talk on the phone and if you can hear her voice maybe it will soothe the pain. Just keep in mind how much you love her and look forward to seeing her.Good Luck!
2007-08-04 01:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention your age or other circumstances.
If you are a fully self-supporting mature adult, you should make plans to go visit her on the occasional weekend to keep the face time in.
Woo her.
If this is "the one" you need to take some steps.
2007-08-04 00:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Buy some $29.00 headsets and speak over Yahoo messenger together. That should be better than texting and it is free when it is pc to pc. Good luck! â¥
2007-08-04 01:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by Rhiannon 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋