well this heavy chest feeling must be a gut feeling right? not anxiety. i got it with the past two guys. the present guy [[which is the second guy]] gives me warm peaceful feelings, i would like to hang out with him alot, he gets me squealy and happy, i think about him alot, yet when it comes to a relationship, i get this bad feeling in my chest [[not the warmth anymore]] and everything just dies. if im like that and get warmth about him, why not a relationship?
2007-08-03 17:12:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah why not??
2007-08-03 17:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say that it would be a clear indicator that you should TAKE IT SLOW and really get to know him thoroughly before getting physical or becoming exclusive.
Certainly do NOT move in with the guy.
You don't mention your age, but in this day and time, I think it is reasonable to do a background search on anyone you are thinking about possibly getting serious with. I have too many friends who got involved with guys who were not up to snuff... including bad credit and leaving her in debt, psycho, molesting her kids, using the girl as a "cover" for homosexual activity, openly cross-dressing, and just plain screwing around with anything that came near.
There are guys you can hang out with and have fun with, and then there are guys that are marriage material. Sometimes it takes a while to figure out which is which.
2007-08-03 17:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i get that too. i think really it's just that we're afraid to have a real relationship? well not exactly afraid. but that the chase of getting the guy and having that feeling of squealiness and happiness and excitement is more enjoyable then being in a relationship.
2007-08-03 17:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lady C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably not ready yet for a relationship.... you want to be free and unattached which is perfectly normal. a relationship is not easy to maintain so if you are not ready, dont give anyone the hopes that you are....keep being single and when the right time/person comes, you will feel it.
2007-08-03 17:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by mr b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly its problematical to appreciate your question when you consider that have not have been given any thought what your asserting. after interpreting it a pair of situations. it style of feels like he has been cheating on you for 15 years? properly i could in basic terms flow away and whilst he tries to end you, then in basic terms be stable and flow away. using fact the cycle will proceed and you will nonetheless be unhappy
2016-10-09 04:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in doubt don't do it - this applies to all things in life. Love - jobs - living. There is a difference between "lust" or "infatuation" and real love. Don't do it.
2007-08-03 17:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably because deep down u dont think his heart is set on you or it could be he doesnt act caring enough?
2007-08-03 17:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by brina43t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gut feeling are usually right
2007-08-03 17:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lupita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋