Family & Relationships - 20 July 2007

to feel jealous like this...the thing is...ive got a bf...but i go on his myspace to see what all his friends who are girls have been saying about him...some of them say he is a hottie...some of them say how much they miss them...and one of them said that they should get married again...that one i know the story behind...should i feel jealous because other girls are posting on his myspace like that...since we are so far apart...do u think he will fall for them?

2007-07-20 10:59:30 · 16 answers · asked by ♥jam06.26.10.♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl that I met at a picnic. We had a really good time. The chemistry was there, and I could tell that she likes me too.

I made the mistake of not asking for her phone #, and I thought that I'd never see her again.

But, I kept thinking of her, and decided to look her up on MySpace . . . and found her. I left her a message, and got a response after one month (she's not online all that much).

So we added each other as friends, and decided to meet for coffee sometimes. She's very busy with school.

There is also this girl on my MySpace that leaves me somewhat flirty messages, but we're just really good friends, nothing more. Plus, she's not my type, and she's seeing so many other people. But, I do enjoy her as a friend.

My question is, do you think that the girl that I like, thinks of me less because of the messages that my friend leaves? I really don't want to mess things up. What should I do?

2007-07-20 10:57:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alright well i have a friend who wants to break up with her boyfriend but she doesnt know how he loves her alot and she doesnt want to break his heart i mean he wants to marry her if he could but she just doesnt want a bf right now she needs a break for a while so how does she tell him this . . .

2007-07-20 10:57:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One thing!! DO NOT SAY THAT I AM CRAZY!!! ok. My sister is 13 and I am 18 and she is always telling me she is psychic and I never believed her until she told me not to let my friend Jennifer borrow my game because she is going to lose it and I told my sister to leave me alone. I let Jennifer borrow it and she lost it at her aunt's house. (crazy) whoo! thats not all. My sister told my mom not to mess with some guy because he was going to try to sell her some drugs and we started laughing at her. My mom went on a date with him and he had weed that he tried to sell to her. She turned it down. My sister was right again? What is up? Is my sister psychic?

2007-07-20 10:56:32 · 12 answers · asked by Vanessa 1 in Family

I am a 28 year old, single, straight, male. I have never had a girlfriend and I never really had female friends either. I currently do not have even one female contact. None of my friends really know any girls and most of them are single like me. I have absolutley no real experience with relationships and that means I haven't even experienced my first kiss yet. I was discussing this with someone today and they said I was quite bizarre, however, I believe the majority of those my age are in the same boat. Only one of my friends has a girlfriend and he is getting married next year, but he is the only one. I know I shouldn't make broad generalizations based on anecdotal evidence but it's all I have. People say, "Just because you don't know many people in their twenties in a relationship doesn't mean it's rare." Well I say just because they know people at this age in relationships does not mean it's common. Same logic right?

2007-07-20 10:56:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well recently I found out that my firstborn son(40 years old) and the foundation for which my marriage was built on was named after my wife's high school ex-boyfriend, He wont allow me to have a blood test done to see if he is really my son, he said he would rather go on not knowing, so I decided that since she took my 40 year old son I will take her 40th anniversary away, I figure that I will just get her a really lame sweater(with a giraffe on it or something) or maybe a gift certificate for like 25 dollars and I wont even put her name on it. Or maybe I will just buy her a bunch of cheap china from the dollar store or something, I don't know, I just need some ideas, something that will make her think that I have a surprise gift but in actuality I wont!!!!! If she makes me question my marriage and the birth of my son I will make her question her marriage and her 40 years with me, its only fair

2007-07-20 10:52:40 · 15 answers · asked by james peters 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a mom of 4 kids..age 2, 18, 24 and 25. My husband stays at work long hours. When he gets home, he takes a shower and goes to bed. I sleep in a recliner frequently because of his snoaring. There has been no intimacy between us in over a year. He has gained a lot of weight so it might be a physical problem. But I still miss the affection. On our wedding anniversary a few weeks ago, I mentioned how much has happened..and looked to the future. He seems to think he will be dead in a few years. He is older that both his brother and father when they died. He is only 45. He says genetics is the most important thing and will not diet. He says he is going to enjoy food with the time he has left. My 18 year old also has a weight problem and I am trying desperately to prepare healthy low fat, and low calorie good foods. I am exhausted from taking care of a 2 year old. My father is elderly and I clean his house weekly. I have lots of friends ...but something is missing. Suggestions??

2007-07-20 10:52:39 · 15 answers · asked by rcpaden 5 in Marriage & Divorce

This is so nasty,but it also a lot of fun. Sry girls..
My b/f and I play around a lot, by gassing on each other or a round each other, but today he went past my line..
here's the dl...

my boyfriend busted air in my face and naturally I got pissed..did I blow it out of proportion? I cussed and went outside to smoke like 3 fags...
then he finally came outside and apologized, but it still took me a second to let it go..
I think I over re-acted, but I'm not sure.. if I did, should I make it up to him?
If so, how?

2007-07-20 10:52:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we're young, 20, been together for five years, not married. we broke up..found out I was prego, got back together. pregnancy was great. relationship for the most part...he cheated on me when our son was 5 months. kicked him out, took him back. relationship good and bad....I met someone, cheated on him. Stopped very shortly afterward, relized that what I did was wrong, and stopped everything. Since then we've been trying to work on our relationship....but it hasn't really been working...I've tryed to break up with him in the past, but he begged me to take him back which I did. He is a great father! He works away from home on the weekdays and comes back on the weekends. it's been hard on him I know. my son and I went on a day long trip and at the end of it my son was drained. well we went to pick up my boyfriend and he was drunk. my son wanted nothing to do with him, or anybody for that matter. my bf completly changed not wanting anything to do with him for the whole night....calling him

2007-07-20 10:51:47 · 14 answers · asked by U1S2K3O4 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i think it is stupid and that it wont last but i dont think she'll listen to me that it wont work out. do you think i should just let her get on with it or say something cause shes a very good mate and i dont want her getting all upset and stuff later on.

2007-07-20 10:46:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm one of those women who makes friends with married women, and then I try to get their husband to cheat and have sex with me. It's just sort of a hobby I have and it's interesting to see how many I can lure over. I'm not a whore though, because not all of the men I ask will do it, and I am not in a relationship.

So anyways, I started this thing back in March and I have attempted to get 12 married men (at different times obviously) to sleep with me and surprisingly I only convinced 3 of the 12 to actually do it with me (and yes we did do it). 4 of the 9 men who said no to me actually told their wife, and that basically ended the friendship. I just find it sort of … funny and amusing to mess with other peoples lives.

So does this mean I am evil? Am the type of woman married women don't want to be friends with? Would you be friends with me?

2007-07-20 10:43:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How much do guys value a girls body appearance and proportions compared to character and whit? does she have to be Twiggy(skinny), does she have to be Beyonce(big hips),does she have to be Pamela(big breasts)?or do you wave your hands like you just dont care? :) rather trivial question.don't look for deeper meaning :P

2007-07-20 10:42:29 · 15 answers · asked by Mer0pe 2 in Singles & Dating

i tought it was funny and she was about to kick my *** over that!... T.T what should i do? i love her

2007-07-20 10:42:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How did you or do you do it? How do you stay around and try to put things behind you after the most horrible thing to happen to a relationship has ripped your life apart? I am absoluetly sick about this. I don't know what to do. I can't stand to see his face and the thought of him makes me ill. I don't know if I can. My children are very young, but it still kills me that they have to hear me screaming at their father. How do you cope?

2007-07-20 10:41:25 · 26 answers · asked by redpeach_mi 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-20 10:40:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not much to look at, I'm a tall guy (6'3") but I'm skinny and dont have big arms or 6 pack abs. Girls just want big tan muscley hunks right? I'm not that. What should I do to get a girlfriend?

2007-07-20 10:37:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-20 10:33:48 · 13 answers · asked by tokimo t 2 in Family

Ok, here it is, I have been married for 5long years, and we have three kids together. Sheis always accusing me of cheating on her, shetold me today that she cheated on me, howdo i know??? was she saying it bcuz she is mad?? Howcan i findout? I havenever cheated on her nore have i ever wanted to. ButI'm scared ofdivorce, what aboutmy kids? Whogets them??I want them!! They are mine! What do I do?? desolate_pepsi_101@yahoo.com

2007-07-20 10:31:30 · 10 answers · asked by desolate_pepsi_101 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-20 10:29:51 · 11 answers · asked by manoj d 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-20 10:28:32 · 8 answers · asked by dr 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-20 10:25:26 · 21 answers · asked by theman134 3 in Singles & Dating

I get turned on by enclosure, like when I see girls wearing tracksuits or all in one suits, but I keep thinking i'm wierd :( is it normal? Its like a comfort thing

Thanks!

2007-07-20 10:25:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together, on and off, for nearly 5 years but have been officially together for these past 2 years. I am ready for a proposal and marriage within the next year or so. But he doesnt seem to want to ask? He kind of takes it as a joke when I mention us getting married. & sort of changes the subject. I'm not sure if this is on purpose or what, but... What does this mean?

2007-07-20 10:24:06 · 20 answers · asked by ashley g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend asked me to shave her beaver the other day - which being a thoughtful and obliging boyfriend I did. She said it really turned her on which is fine. But I can't help thinking WTF? Has any else had experience in this bizarre pastime?

2007-07-20 10:20:12 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been married 6 yrs. he's staying @ his parents because of problems between us.He's never let me work and we have a 4 yr old son. can they just put me out?

2007-07-20 10:16:53 · 23 answers · asked by dina197520022000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My male friend I have been friends for 14 years. he's been dating this girl for 4 years. I have never met her. He tells me to block my number when I call her and he tells me to be quiet when she calls him on his cell so she doesn't hear my voice. I've told him that this is crazy. He litterally walks on egg shells around her and literally...she treats him like sh-it.she uses his computer to look for online dates, verbally abusive and they have already physically faught. opinion

2007-07-20 10:15:51 · 5 answers · asked by ?????? 1 in Singles & Dating

Your a friend of this couple and you find out that one of them is cheating, would you tell the other one?

2007-07-20 10:15:15 · 14 answers · asked by vaquero2ride 2 in Friends

I cant stand her. She doesnt do anything but upset me. She doesnt cook and all she does is complain. I havent been able to finish a sentence in years. My wife brings me to the point of infuriation till I just explode. Is it better to stay or go for the kids. What should I do.?

2007-07-20 10:11:52 · 40 answers · asked by roguetrader12002 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I have been living together for a few years. She is not from the US and she required a work visa to stay & work in the US. The work visa is now expired & we need to marry to continue our relationship. I want to be able to commit myself 100 percent to her by getting married, but I struggle with why I didn't ask her before, etc. I try to determine if it is b/c of a fear of commitment on my part or b/c I am not completely satisfied in the relationship. I have a hard time assessing my true feelings. My fear of losing her and my fear of marriage are both pretty equal. Some parts of the relationship are not satisfying to me. But I am also a perfectionist & I am vulnerable to magnifying small things, so I don't exactly trust my judgement with this. The basics are there for us, I am still attracted to her, she treats me well & appreciates me, & I appreciate her. Part of me looked forward to being single again though.

2007-07-20 10:11:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever had sex on a boat and if yes, did you fall off or did it sink ?

2007-07-20 10:11:16 · 7 answers · asked by norapurpleberry 1 in Other - Family & Relationships