Family & Relationships - 20 July 2007

my parents are both alcoholics
right now there both passed out.
they dont seem to understand they claim well were not doing anything wrong its not like we hit you when were drunk and were fine during the day but every signle night they get pissed drunk and pass out or can barely talk or walk i literally have to get there food and serve it to them because there so drunk they cant even eat it or talk without slurry so bad you cant understand.
ive dealt with this for to long and i cant handle it anymorei feel like im going to have a nervous breakdown or something.
what do i do?

2007-07-20 14:15:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-20 14:14:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok so ive been dating my g/f for about 3 months now and we are both 21, she is a virgin and i am not. and when were getting intamite and i start to finger her and kiss her, she REALLY likes it but after about a min or two and you can tell she really likes it, she wants me to stop fingering her...ive asked her before and she said its just what she does, WTF...i dont understand and i dont want to sound like a jerk asking but she has done it like 5 times now and its annoying. why is she doing this? also how do i,(hate to say this) make her stop or warm up to it or something, PLEASE help
thanks!

2007-07-20 14:11:05 · 17 answers · asked by Ikemike 1 in Singles & Dating

It's so annoying that fat women keep saying "i'm big and beautiful, people need to accept that there are alot of overweight girls in the world and that it's normal". No it's not normal! also, will people stop saying that big girls are good role models (like america ferrera, etc)??

It makes me sick!

Now don't start attacking me and telling me to go fantasize about anorexic girls. I know most fat girls get angry and assume that guys like anorexic girls. No, i dont! i dont even think the top supermodels are hot.

it goes both ways for me. Being underweight is abnormal, ugly, and unhealthy but being overweight is abnormal, ugly, and unhealthy as well.

And stop calling men who don't like fat girls shallow! We're not shallow!

Being overweight is a problem. it means you can't control yourself when you eat. it means you lack self respect. and it means you are at high risk for many physical illnesses.

^^^ Since when is that normal?

2007-07-20 14:07:42 · 9 answers · asked by Dylan 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 22 y.o guy . ive never been in love before and actually I start looking for a girl/love since i was 18 and i cant find one ...
i really have alot in my heart and want to love and be loved!

so i am giving up .... or, any ideas ?

thanks

2007-07-20 14:05:59 · 25 answers · asked by Alian 1 in Singles & Dating

I just broke-up with my fiance we have been together for 3yrs and 9mths. He was starting to get to controling and always blaming me for everything that went wrong in the relationship, so i let him go but i still love him, so how long do you wait to date someone else?

2007-07-20 13:52:47 · 12 answers · asked by jill 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-20 13:49:56 · 3 answers · asked by kilo27 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last person to answer is a winner.....!!!

2007-07-20 13:40:24 · 7 answers · asked by Just me 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-20 13:40:01 · 7 answers · asked by STORMY K 3 in Family

I really, really like this girl but what she asking me to do is a disrespect to my man hood I taught only wemen do that to men.My brother told me women should do that to men bu tmen should not, well am asking the world what the hell do I do.And don't tell me that I should not be sexually activate because I already am so save it.

2007-07-20 13:30:30 · 10 answers · asked by devon_dvn 1 in Singles & Dating

would u be interested in me if i was straight, bi, or bi curious?

what would i have to do to entertain u

if u think my question is stupid then it shows me how smart u r by answering

2007-07-20 13:28:41 · 6 answers · asked by crystal 4 in Singles & Dating

Alternatively, is this place for school kids, who are not out of Middle School yet, but want to ask the most perverse sexual questions to get attention?

2007-07-20 13:26:30 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(Disreguard if you are a newly-wed)

In your relationship, what do you think has gotten you through the good and bad times together? Has their ever been a case of unfaithfulness, how did you get past it and have a trusting relationship? Have you ever thought you were close to getting a divorce or doubt the strength of the relationship?


To those of you who may have already gotten a divorce, do you think there were any signs early on that maybe this wasnt the relationship for you?

2007-07-20 13:24:50 · 23 answers · asked by capoeirista 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am kinda dating someone right now... we met online weeks ago... and we just met in person on monday..... He asked me weeks ago if we could be officially dating and i said yes... then we were first supposed to meet over a week ago and he didn't show.... i thought he ditched me and i didn't hear from him for a week after that so I assumed that we weren't going out anymore but then after we met on monday, i asked him if we were still official and he said it was a dumb question. also, he has two kids already and i am totally fine with that. hes 25 and i'm 19 and he told me that he doens't want to do anything except 4 me to hang wit him when hes at work (3rd shift). his reason is that he doesn't want to introduce me to his kids until its the right time... i 100% understand this, but i want us to do more stuff outside of his work... and i want him to acknowledge that i'm his gf and i just want us to date like normal people... not just have me be with him when he's working. what do i do?

2007-07-20 13:22:36 · 9 answers · asked by Proud mommy of Logan! <3 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my fiance want badly to go on a honeymoon but we just do not have the money right now. where can we go thats nice but not too expensive? Any suggestions?

2007-07-20 13:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by Mrs. Nolan 4 in Weddings

Can a spouse devorce in Calif without the other signing? I have a friend who told me his wife devorced him without his knowing until he recieved the papers in the mail. Is that true?

2007-07-20 13:20:40 · 8 answers · asked by bear 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Was there someone you knew (or know) or encountered that wish you had never turned down for a date or regret not dating? There's a guy who was so interested in me, and I was interested (and still am actually) in him, but I turned him and his flirts away for the reason that I listened to someone else. I'm not married yet but still.

2007-07-20 13:20:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend of 8 years does not enjoy sex as often as I would like her to, and she is trying to keep us both happy by telling me she is ok with me having sex with another girl- like establishing a sex partner as long as there are no feelings attached. She condones this, but I feel it is cheating- yet she says cheating is a term used to describe an affair or a secret relationship that ends up hurting the significant other. She says I would not be cheating on her, but I think it is cheating and I do not want to do it and have tried discouraging her from the idea. Do you feel it is cheating?

2007-07-20 13:19:54 · 20 answers · asked by andrew 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay this whole summer has given me alot of time to think about things. I've figured out who my true friends are and that i can't trust alot of people now. I've realized that i have just as much fun doing fun things by myself as i do w. other people. Am i weird or is there anyone else who doesn't mind being independant and not having alot of friends?

2007-07-20 13:18:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

with tonight?

Number 1: David
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Number 2: Randy
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Number 3: Justin
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Awww, the perks of being a hottie.

=]

2007-07-20 13:16:19 · 18 answers · asked by [[Krazy♥Gang♥Bang]] 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband brought me a beautiful ring. Am I suppose to buy him one?

2007-07-20 13:15:04 · 20 answers · asked by Arded 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we're planning to go to her house, but we don't know how to surprise her

2007-07-20 13:11:22 · 3 answers · asked by mhizz a 1 in Friends

do u guys think it's possible to have life-long friendships, meaningful friendships...if u constantly move and travel?

me, for example, i would like to work for the government...but the career i want requires me to move every 2-3 years. so, is it possible to meet totally awesome people and have a bond that lasts a lifetime with them? or will it be like temporary things where u meet people but after u move from that city/state/country........it basically all ends there?

r there military people who's gone through that and actually kept friendships even after moving away?

2007-07-20 13:10:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why am i still heartbroken? my ex and i broke up in november.. which was about 9months ago. i've dated and stuff but im still head over heals for him. the reason we broke up was cuz he cheated on me with another girl, and then he broke up with me after i found out. i remember crying myself to sleep every night. i remember once i had a friend over and he signed onto msn but he wouldnt talk.. i was also listening to the radio at the time and our song came on and burst into tearss.. he really cared about me.. i know he did. he kissed me everyday. and gave me the warmest hugs he could give.. my question is what do i do? how can i get over him. and you know what hurts the most? he wants me back but im afraid he'll hurt me aagain and make me go through all i did in the last 9 months.. what do i do?

2007-07-20 13:09:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-20 13:09:08 · 4 answers · asked by Adrian 2 in Singles & Dating

She always does this kind of stuff. When we first met she was asking around on whether I had a gf or not. And she gets suspicious, or maybe jealous, when she thinks I might like somebody. She has a bf in an on again off again relationship. I use to like her but I could never do anything about it and now I'm trying my best to move on. I just don't get what she's doing. We're just friends now.

2007-07-20 13:08:46 · 10 answers · asked by Adam Antium 4 in Singles & Dating

she doesnt really approve of it but we like eachother :(
help?

2007-07-20 13:08:35 · 8 answers · asked by ill be urs if you want <3 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever since my son was born 2 years ago I have no thoughts or feelings to want to make love , but I love my husband oh so dearly ! He says that I must not love him because I dont give him any attention, not even hug or kiss that much cause it leads to a fight because he starts making moves and I shut him down because Im just so tired. I work full time with a 7 and 2 yr old , and my 2 yr stil wakes at night therefore I havent had a full nights sleep in 2 years , my husband tries to help [once every 2 to 3 weeks maybe] but I still wake up like clock work...and the only thing running through my head is getting through the day so I can get to bed ... Please help .Hes so mad at me and I truly think hes getting ready to leave me , and I dont want that to happen at all , What is wrong with me , why dont I want to make love anymore??????!!! Thanks for at least reading even if you cant answer ...Have a great DAY:}

2007-07-20 13:05:59 · 18 answers · asked by misque77 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think she's interested, she gave up he seat in the room we were in to sit on the bench with me. Problem, her mom works there too, and I'm afraid to approach her when she's around her mom, just thinking that she might disaprove of some guy courting her daughter on the job. Maybe I have the problem here. So what should I do, keep after her or keep fishing, if you know what I mean?

2007-07-20 12:53:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been with my fiance for 5 years and we were very happy....but he started doing oxycotin again (he had been clean for a while) and now hes extremely mean he acts like i mean nothing to him is this the drug or him he is starting treatment in 2 days! its like he has no feelings at all

2007-07-20 12:42:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships