I just broke-up with my fiance we have been together for 3yrs and 9mths. He was starting to get to controling and always blaming me for everything that went wrong in the relationship, so i let him go but i still love him, so how long do you wait to date someone else?
2007-07-20 13:52:47 · 12 answers · asked by jill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no time limit to it. Just make sure that you checked yourself to see if there are any holes which would have been made by the break up. The last thing you would want at this time is a impulsive relationship (Relationship without forethought).
2007-07-20 13:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is such a things as "perfect time to wait" before dating someone else. Try not to date just on rebound instincts. That is not very fair to the other person you are dating. But your life does go on, so, if you are sure you are not going to get back with the long term b/f, then go for it. Good luck.
2007-07-20 14:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait at least a couple of months. Even then you may find that you aren't that interested in the men you date. Take it slowly and casual at first. But, the more you do it the easier it gets and eventually you'll be ready for a relationship.
2007-07-20 13:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by Vickie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no specific time frame. It all depends on how fast you can recover from the relationship.
You can get into a new relationship immediately while you still have feelings for your ex. But bear in mind it's unfair to your 'current' boyfriend and complication may arise unless he's made known and is willing to support.
2007-07-20 13:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Dameos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might wait till the divorce is very final and you experience that your waiting. Your the only guy or woman who's conscious you, the genuine you. I waited an entire of 9 months. It took 3 to finalize the divorce and then it took me yet another 6 to be waiting and then it exchange into in simple terms one date and that i did no longer bypass on yet another one for 2 months. I have been married for 10 years and my divorce exchange into very no longer elementary on me and my young ones. i had to make valuable that they have got been going to be ok first, then I had to make valuable i exchange into ok. My ex-husband confessed sooner or later after ten years of marriage that he had had seven affairs and it completely threw me for a loop. I had to triumph over the "what did I do incorrect" approach and choose that there exchange into no longer something incorrect with me. That it exchange into him that had the situation. till I did that, i exchange into on no account going to be any stable in any relationship. in simple terms take a while hon.
2016-09-30 09:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i waited a year, and or until you find yourself and get comfortable with being on your own. Get girlfriends to go out with you first though. You may want some company
2007-07-20 13:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Lil love lady ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is out of your life and you should use that wisdom gained & start dating as soon as a good man - who isn't controlling - shows you the respect you deserve.
2007-07-20 13:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question. Humans are creatures of habbit. The longer you wait...is the longer you wait. The sooner you start...the sooner it begins.
Good Luck
2007-07-20 13:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by blaadedrums 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how long have you guys been divorce? if 1 month - 5 months then you can start dating again.
2007-07-20 13:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wait as long as it takes for ur heart to heal and for a great guy to come along!
2007-07-20 13:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by janie rey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋