why does my g/f do this, sexual question, sorry but i have to ask?

Question

ok so ive been dating my g/f for about 3 months now and we are both 21, she is a virgin and i am not. and when were getting intamite and i start to finger her and kiss her, she REALLY likes it but after about a min or two and you can tell she really likes it, she wants me to stop fingering her...ive asked her before and she said its just what she does, WTF...i dont understand and i dont want to sound like a jerk asking but she has done it like 5 times now and its annoying. why is she doing this? also how do i,(hate to say this) make her stop or warm up to it or something, PLEASE help
thanks!

Answer 1

Fingers can be abrasive if you compare them to tongues, for example. You should also go for the little man in the canoe, not just the hoho les.

Answer 2

Its a feeling she hasn't had before and sexual feelings can be scary for some females in the beginning. Intamacy for a woman isn't you fingering them its love and compassion and closeness. try talking to her about why she wants you to stop and explain how it makes you feel, in a non threatening way, at the right time and not immediately after she asks you to stop. when shes ready to open up i'm sure she will.

Answer 3

She is stopping you because she as at a point where she feels too good and doesn't want to give into lust and lose her virginity. My suggestion would be to quit getting into that situation to begin with, it will only lead to frustration for both of you. She evidently wants to stay a virgin. If you love her, you will respect that.

Answer 4

well take it from a girl they want it to be compassionate and about them not about what they are but who they are make her feel special and to warm her up just besides the four play kiss her neck suck on her hip bones that really is a good feeling and a sensitive area. and she probably stops you because her body tells her she ready for more but her mind says stop this before we go to far.

Answer 5

If I were to put my finger on the situation...

I would say... This really seems a little to personal.

Your 21, she is 21.

You can handle the situation...so to speak!

Answer 6

I am only guessing. While you are fingering her do you know if she is lubricated enough, have you ask her are you going to fast or being to rough and etc. Have you ever ask her what i just put for my answer.

Answer 7

maybe she is not ready for an orgasm maybe she just feels like she's gonna blow and gets crazy and says to stop but she would still like u to keep going. ask her to just once let u keep going for a long time to see how she likes it. if it really bothers u tell her to just play w/herself when she's horny if she's just gonna torture u by not letting u play that long. tell her how u feel and why it bothers u.

Answer 8

ohhh.. that is normal becuz i use to do that becuz i was a virgin and i was scared it might lead to something else but that doesnt mean she dont like it cuz i loved it and i use to be like why do i make him stop it. Plus i use to tell him to stop cuz i felt like i was doing something nasty and i was shy.

Answer 9

Eventually, she'll get used to it & things WILL go further and further to the point where you both won't stop. She will get used to the idea of having sex

Answer 10

sometimes too much stimulation down there is uncomfortable because girls (virgins especially) aren't used to the constant touch down there. also, she probably just needs time to get used to the foreplay. or maybe you should just tell her to relax and enjoy it.