How much do guys value a girls body appearance and proportions compared to character and whit? does she have to be Twiggy(skinny), does she have to be Beyonce(big hips),does she have to be Pamela(big breasts)?or do you wave your hands like you just dont care? :) rather trivial question.don't look for deeper meaning :P
2007-07-20 10:42:29 · 15 answers · asked by Mer0pe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can only speak for myself but in the end, you fall for the person. The busty blonde with the skinny waist is SO boring. It is a stereotype perpetuated by the media. What does impress me is ladies who make a difference, ones who do things in style. Well dressed and manicured. Personally, I don't mind ladies who wear cosmetics because it shows to me they care about their appearance ie, they make an effort. I love well presented ladies with lively minds!
Some people say Beyonce has great 'buns' others say she has a fat butt. Some say Pamela Anderson has fabulous breasts, others say she has a cow's udders. It really is all relative: beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There is always someone out there for you whatever happens. Don't worry about your physical appearance but do worry about the way you present yourself to others.
2007-07-20 11:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by stef555stef 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK, I'll answer on the shallow level (no "what's inside" comments).
Figure and proportion count a lot, but not the way you're thinking. I have my own idea of what shapes are attractive to me, and it's not Twiggy or Beyonce or Pamela. Guys have a variety of preferences.
2007-07-20 17:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by DW 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend loves me just the way i am. i do not look like beyonce or pamela. some might say i am twiggy but skinny depends on who one is compared to. he likes me for who i am inside. i cannot even say we have a lot in common because we do not really but i will join him in stuff he likes to do because it is important to him.
i have met guys who it is all about looks and guys who it is about the person inside.
my brother is good looking and would go for hot twiggy girls or hot pamelas. he realized they were too high maintance and so much trouble. i mean he is younger and a guy and still notices the outside first but he realized there is more to a girl than looks.
in reality unless you are rich and want plastic surgery exterior beauty will fade but internal beauty is forever. (i would argue that even with surgery external beauty fades too look at some celebrities trying to look years younger eww)
2007-07-20 17:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by :-D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is: everyone has different tastes, and they don't necessarily stick 100% to their ideal tastes. Like me, i preferred the skinnier frame, but I'm now very much in love with someone who is carrying a little bit of weight, and i find her GORGEOUS! It's love, love comes in many different forms shapes and sizes, the preferential thing will always be just a leniant guideline I think (unless the guy is as shallow as a rockpool!)
2007-07-20 19:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, i think i like the balanced proportions myself, but since most girls arent , it really comes down to personality. that is of course, you have to at least look good, regardless of the size, cant be all like sloven and stuff. A good idea is to just get into shape for yourself and not worry about what a guy likes.
2007-07-20 17:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by Josh W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just a curvey person - I don't care about big boobs how blonde your hair is, I love someone who is confident being 'themself', and not being a size zero. Its whats inside that counts most of all though
2007-07-20 17:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a man is looking for a body, he has certain tastes. If a man is looking for a person, then her body becomes sexy after the fact.
2007-07-20 17:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by Bastet's kitten 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some men love big beautiful woman, some dont, some like big butts some like big boobs, some like girls that can actually think and some like the dumb blondes,
different strokes for different folks,
2007-07-20 17:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i look at the person and if she is dopey then i walk away she has to have common sence and a working brain cell do not like them fat or skinny just healthy
2007-07-20 17:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by telboy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men will tell you that they don't compare what you have with what others have. If you are nice and nice looking you stand a chance .
2007-07-20 17:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by plyjanney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋