My male friend I have been friends for 14 years. he's been dating this girl for 4 years. I have never met her. He tells me to block my number when I call her and he tells me to be quiet when she calls him on his cell so she doesn't hear my voice. I've told him that this is crazy. He litterally walks on egg shells around her and literally...she treats him like sh-it.she uses his computer to look for online dates, verbally abusive and they have already physically faught. opinion
2007-07-20 10:15:51 · 5 answers · asked by ?????? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like my ex that I am still friends with. If he is taking it and loves her, then there is nothing you really can do, he will always go back to her, talk to him and tell him how you feel... You don't want to loose his friendship so don't be to pushy with him. She sounds like a hoebag!
2007-07-20 10:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking to the friend isn't working? He might be in, well, no "might's about it", he IS in a pretty dysfunctional relationship. There isn't much you can do to change someone's mind. Obviously this chic is like really possessive of him. He will see.... hopefully sooner than later that he is wasting his time and energy on someone who takes and takes and controls what's left. Ya gonna have'ta wait it out.
2007-07-20 17:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very poor start to a relationship. He should not be getting physical with her regardless, but needs to realize that he is being played if things are as you stated.
2007-07-20 17:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump both of them you need some real people w/o mental disturbances here...if it gets serious ur friend might need counseling it could spare him a LOTTT of trouble...
2007-07-20 17:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Cassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is one messed up relationship. She's stupid for being herself, and he's stupid for taking that crap from her.
2007-07-20 17:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by soniye88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋