I'm one of those women who makes friends with married women, and then I try to get their husband to cheat and have sex with me. It's just sort of a hobby I have and it's interesting to see how many I can lure over. I'm not a whore though, because not all of the men I ask will do it, and I am not in a relationship.
So anyways, I started this thing back in March and I have attempted to get 12 married men (at different times obviously) to sleep with me and surprisingly I only convinced 3 of the 12 to actually do it with me (and yes we did do it). 4 of the 9 men who said no to me actually told their wife, and that basically ended the friendship. I just find it sort of … funny and amusing to mess with other peoples lives.
So does this mean I am evil? Am the type of woman married women don't want to be friends with? Would you be friends with me?
2007-07-20 10:43:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok. Sooo many problems with what your asking!
Im married and let me just say that if you were my friend and tried this on my husband... you would be in extreme pain.... not to mention that our friendship would be destroyed.
Its funny that you call this a "hobby" but then claim NOT to be a whore! What exactly do you call sleeping with married men and recking peoples family life then????
I have known girls like this and to answer your last question.... NO! no decent woman would want to be your friend. I would never have a friend that even thinks the way you do.
I feel soo sorry for the women who had there men cheat on them with you!
2007-07-20 10:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by maemarilyn1983 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that with every marriage "sexual or physical attraction" wanes away as time passes and children come in and a sort of boredom creeps in . This mainly happens with women who has a lot of money to blow and has nothing concrete to do.Such women are generally social butterflies and regular party goers where they can easily hook a man of their choice. Again in this case too some women would prefer it to be just a "fling" with no strings attached to it and this case is very very safe for men who develop a short lived romance with these women. But when we make recess into a woman's mind especially a woman who has got into a serious relationship with a man and that to with the husband around you must really understand that there is definitely a strong reason behind this relationship. No intelligent would like to jeoparadise her blissful married life with kids unless other wise this relationship gives her the comfort that she cannot get from her spouse. This is the first and foremost factor and I am sure a good majority of you will accept my point. It is indeed ironical that the man who gets involved with married are unknowingly getting into a quagmire from which they can never extricate themselves. FIrstly a married woman getting into a relationship with another man ( adulterous relationship) must be headstrong and knows what she wants and how to get it too. If it is an ordinary fling also means that it is going to bite into the man's purse and parsimony is the last thing a girl friend accepts in a man. Another danger is married women once they get into a serious relationship with a man will cling on to him, become possessive about him ( again an emotionally danger signal) and does not allow him out of her sight even for a while and tries to keep him tied to her apron strings. Things become worse if the woman develops a kind of committment toward the man because she will expect the man to reciprocate the same emotion and feelings. And this actually becomes the breaking point because there is a difference of commttment level between a man and a woman. A woman's committment toward anything or anybody is nearly cent per cent whereas you cannot expect the same level from a man. This is not a criticism but just that they are made that way. When the relationship reaches this crucial level women tend to go to extreme steps like getting addicted to alchohol, smoking or abusing sleeping pills or may plunge into a deep depression. My suggestion is a favor I am asking everyman all over the world. Never have flings- it may be fun for you but it is a serious affair for a woman. Never go to the level of physical relationship with a married woman because for you it may be "just one more" but for her a moment she would cherish for her life time. Never play with a woman's emotions becuase for you it is just a joke but for her it leaves a deep dent which can never be filled by anything except your life which is not possible when you are not married. Beware of married women -do not barge into their lives please. Long-Story short yes it is very wrong.
2016-04-01 04:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have given the men the outward appearnce that you had aother agenda. Like seducing them and then telling the wife. It's not like most of those 9 wouldn't have if they felt like it wouldn't come back to bite them in the butt.
But yes you are Evil to be messing with other peoples lives... Let's say for one moment, you fall in Love with a guy, would you want someone trying to ruin your relationship?
You are an adult and can do anything you want but I suggest another hobby, like Bingo. lol.
I'm a single man and wouldn't trust having you as a friend or lover... because you can't be trusted...
Evil? YES
HO? Don't deny it, you are one.
2007-07-20 10:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is very wrong!! you are a very disloyal and dishonest "friend" and i use that term very loosely. when u get married how would u feel if your best friend was trying to lure your husband in the sack....u have no self worth or respect...what goes around comes around...you said u are not a whore....but oh yes u r a whore! Who would want u as a friend?? u don't how to be one!
2007-07-20 11:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by Flynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not say what happened to you to make you this way, spiteful? controlling? or do you have trust issues and just think you cant keep a guy on your own? I feel kind of sorry for you.
Karma comes around girl and your massing some nasty points against you, hope your using protection because if those ones that did cheat did it with you, who knows where else they have been.
2007-07-20 11:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by unpublished critic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this is wrong. what if one day you get married and you find a nice girlfriend, but turns out shes really not a friend--shes f*ing your husband behind your back. what goes around comes around. why not meet someone at a bar, nightclub, some where else why ruin a happy home or a home in general.
2007-07-20 10:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask if this wrong you must have no morals temping men and breaking up a marriage what kind of friend is this this is a sick hobby find one that is less painful to all involved
2014-11-09 12:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by glen b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have extraordinarily evil intentions. No, I'd do something evil right back to you, if I found out you were trying to do that to my husband.
2007-07-20 10:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do realize that what goes around comes around... dont you? dont be surprised when you are married it gets done to you...
2007-07-20 12:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so wrong on so many levels.
2007-07-20 15:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by g8rfan4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋