alright well i have a friend who wants to break up with her boyfriend but she doesnt know how he loves her alot and she doesnt want to break his heart i mean he wants to marry her if he could but she just doesnt want a bf right now she needs a break for a while so how does she tell him this . . .
2007-07-20 10:57:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him the truth. If its gottin to the point of talking about marrige why has she been with him for so long? Just ask him to understand and if he really cared about her than he would respect her desicion and take it like a man.
2007-07-20 11:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by skoolflirt09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that you were going through a phase in your life. You were really doing harm to yourself and him. I don't know if he can ever forgive you, because he might believe the "Once a cheater, always a cheater>" phrase, but at least you told him that what you did was wrong. And who knows, maybe this will all blow over, and you guys can start fresh. Go out and get some coffee and show him you have changed. Tell him that you know what you did was absolutely wrong and that you shouldn;t have put him through all of this, and for that, you are very sincerely sorry, and that you love him, and that you want to give it one more shot. If it works. It works. If it doesn't , then its time to let go! Best of luck to you!
2016-05-18 21:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by kelsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In situations like this honesty is the best policy.Tell your "friend"to sit her guy down , tell him how much she likes and respects him. But to add that she does not feel like been in a romantic relationship just now and she also does not want to mislead him.Hence, she thinks it is best for them to remain platonic friends. Ask her to acknowledge the disappointment and/or pain she might be causing him and to apologize for it.That is all she can do under the circumstances assuming that her motives are pure and her reason is the truth.
2007-07-20 11:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should just say something like, "I'm not trying to hurt you, but I think I need a break. Don't get me wrong, you're a great guy, but I don't think that I'm ready for a boyfriend right now."
2007-07-20 11:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend just needs to tell her boyfriend that its not the right time in her life to be focus on a relationship right now and she needs time to think things through.
2007-07-20 11:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus say ...i need a break...unless u jus dont want him no more then b like sry babe but i jus dont like u like u love me
then either u break it off 4 a while dont see other guys
or if u want him gone go 4 others if u dont wanna hurt him wait 2-3months. byeee
2007-07-20 11:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by Marypoppens91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter how nice she say it, it will hurt. I think she should just tell him she needs a break.
2007-07-20 11:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better now than later. If she isn't serious than she really doesn't care for him sounds like she wants to hang on until something better comes along.
2007-07-20 11:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by plyjanney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does have a good reason that wont make him feel too bad
she should just tell him that shes not ready for a bf now
2007-07-20 11:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it won't offend him, come off as harsh, if she says something like "i want to put us on hold... i just want to think about me for a while..."
the relationship isnt going to work out well unless they are honest with each other anyway.
2007-07-20 11:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by franni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋