Family & Relationships - 20 July 2007

2007-07-20 10:10:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a virgin guy and I'm not sure what to do. I can see the benefits of waiting till marriage to have sex, but thats years away for me. I'd really like to have sex though. You should definitely know and trust the people you have sex with but I dont know what to do.

My penis wants to have sex now. My brain can see benefits both to waiting and having it now.

Whats a guy to do?

2007-07-20 10:10:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would you feel? My boss & I have a really good working relationship. He favors me, speaks up, stands up, "covers" me all when necessary & looks out & helps me when its called for & I think he respects me but one day he was playing around & threw a "shadow boxing" jab & landed it on my behind. It made me very uncomfortable but I didnt make a big deal of it. I didnt feel like going thru the "sexual harassment charge" thing, I made it clear that he not do that again & I let it go. But he did it again. This time he patted me on my behind. I confronted him SERIOUSLY & told him I felt disrespected, it was inappropriate & that I really did not want to charge him with sexual harassment & to please not do it again. He apologized but now I feel different about him. I almost dont like him now. Bcz why would he do that when he HAS TO KNOW its disrespectful & inappropriate? How would you feel if your boss did that to you? Do you think he meant no harm? I'm starting to not like him now.

2007-07-20 10:07:27 · 24 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Singles & Dating

or do i just go with it and do it........

my mom says that before i move out i have to take care of all my belongings even the stuff that i plan on leaving behind.....

my brothers that have moved out didn't have to do that....they just uped and left and left things all a mess and all over and she sorted them out....why do i have to make sure all my stuff is all in order and sorted out

2007-07-20 10:06:06 · 30 answers · asked by Poosocks 6 in Family

If a wife doesnt work and a husband does..Is it their money or just his..My mom says its both of their money..Sometimes hubby says "my money" and i will say something and he said he is only joking..My mom said if my dad had said that to her she would have smacked him lol.

2007-07-20 10:05:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-20 10:01:07 · 29 answers · asked by jam 1 in Weddings

2007-07-20 09:58:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a new book out called "The Wedding-Industrial Complex Exposed: A new book reveals that many long-treasured wedding rituals were invented to separate happy couples from their dough.

http://finance.yahoo.com/expert/article/moneyhappy/39681

2007-07-20 09:57:11 · 22 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Weddings

2007-07-20 09:56:29 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

really happy.

2007-07-20 09:55:43 · 15 answers · asked by LYNDA M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

It's so naive to me and so immature to spend dozens of thousands of dollars on a one day affair.. And it's funny cause the country that spends the most money on weddings is also the country with the highest number of divorces.. figures.

2007-07-20 09:55:38 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 44. My BF is 24. We have been together 3 1/2 years. We still have sex between 6-9 times a day on the weekends and 2-3 times a day during the work week. Are we sex addicts?

2007-07-20 09:52:40 · 23 answers · asked by Ellen R 1 in Singles & Dating

im sittin here on the computer bored and i dont know what to do

2007-07-20 09:51:26 · 17 answers · asked by hollister 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now, and no matter how much I tell him, show him, even ask him to watch a special on HBO about making love is it so hard for him to actually slow down and make love to me?? I know he loves me and that is not the issue, its just that I would love for him to appreciate me and my body through touching rather then through just sex. I feel that it has no meaning when I ask him to make love to me, and then he does it at that moment. Why can't he just do it on his own accord?

2007-07-20 09:51:21 · 20 answers · asked by Advice25 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girl just left for another state via bus. It's a 24 hour drive for her, but only a 16 hour drive for me (they take a roundabout way to get there).
Is it a good idea to meet her at her bus stop at the other side? Should I take the chance that she may not want to come back?
Thanks in advance.

2007-07-20 09:45:40 · 24 answers · asked by Kael 3 in Singles & Dating

with my father for 6 years. She fell pregnant, and gave birth to a baby boy (my brother whom I have also just found out about, and we have met and are getting on great). Sadly her family made my mother put her baby up for adoption, and only now has he found her again. My mother got back together with my father and 2 years later fell pregnant with me. Unfortunately my father decided he didnt want the responsibility and they split up. Because of the problems with my brother she didnt want anyone taking me from her so registered the father as unknown on when she registered my birth. When I was 5 years old she met and eventually married the father I grew up with. She tells me that he never legally adopted me but declared himself as been my father and the birth certificate was then re-issued with his name next to the father. Is this possible without having to provide medical evidence. It would have been in the late 60's or early 70's.

2007-07-20 09:45:23 · 11 answers · asked by DANN EYE 1 in Family

2007-07-20 09:44:39 · 8 answers · asked by pisces954chick 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-20 09:43:42 · 13 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I know that he isnt cheating on me because we are constantly together. We had a son not too long ago and we both love him so much. My bf throws these tantrums like and just goes off which sometimes makes me cry. When i try to ask him whats wrong he just starts yelling and turning the volume up over me. His ex-wife cheated on him and done him so wrong and he thinks all woman are the same including ME. He calls me a barbie and just makes me feel so low. He has friends that i think are always in the way who he dont degrade. Help.

2007-07-20 09:42:25 · 12 answers · asked by Miss M 1 in Singles & Dating

hi-my wife and I had really good relations with my neighbors-we went to eat with them weekly,then all of a sudden one day it stopped, and they haven't said anything to me since except to tell me they are busy-and they came over when the ambulance was here and took me to the hospital last year-my wife died June 18th a year ago.They came to the service and haven't said a word to me since.Even though they are busy I don't buy that is the reason. Obviously my wife's critical illness and health were a problem for them, and then her death, and me being a single man here alone it's just awkward, but they haven't even tried.I obviously can say nothing-but it's tearing me up inside and I'm getting more and more upset about it all the time. I have no idea why they wouldn't want to talk to me,and I have no idea what I may have done to offend them. I'm not a piece of garbage and I'm not a criminal and I hate being treated like one. It's just building and building inside me and I don't want to

2007-07-20 09:41:37 · 4 answers · asked by art_flood 4 in Friends

ok well i am shy around girls...

will i every find the right girl????

2007-07-20 09:40:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 35 weeks along and my husband and I have been on and off. We are both young but have admitted that we are in love with each other and do love each other despite our back and forth relationship. Just last week when we got back together for the 1300th time..he was going to get a tatoo with the babies name and my name and telling me how much he loves me and wants things to work out. we had a fight and now we are broken up again and it seems to me like hes so distant...like he doesnt even care about me like that anymore...he acts like it doesnt bother him that we are broken up and that hes fine with it..hes acted like this the last time we broke up then wanted me back 3 weeks after. how can you be in love and then completely act like ur not? even though we broke up he still wants to be there for the baby but its weird to me how u can say and feel one way one week then the next week act like u dont even care about the person. I dont understand. Im trying to move on.just curious..

2007-07-20 09:38:38 · 19 answers · asked by REGINA p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If I leave and leave the bills unpaid, my credit would get bad.
I need credit to get a new place to leave after everything is over. I can't afford to pay the bills and pay for a new place to live. If the house would sell, then it would be easier financially. He says that he is sorry, but is not making big enough effort to show me that he is sorry.

2007-07-20 09:37:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Something that is now legal, but shouldn't be.

2007-07-20 09:32:45 · 14 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Singles & Dating

My Aunt, who has been married for about 25-30 years, recently discovered that her husband, my uncle, was having an affair. I don't see them too often, but i do love my aunt and want her to know I support her. we don't talk frequently and i only really see her on the holidays.

What i want to know if it's appropriate that i say (or email) something, and what should I say? DO you think she would even welcome me discussing it?

2007-07-20 09:32:24 · 15 answers · asked by mjhelme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 13 am I too young to have a boyfriend? I have one now but im just wondering what people think haha

2007-07-20 09:32:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't have lots of money, but want to give them something they will like/use.

2007-07-20 09:31:15 · 13 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Family

ok so i'm 16, i'm gonna turn 17 in like a month, there's this 19yr old girl who lives right across the street from me and we both kind of like eachother, so i've been thinking about dating her.

However my mom doesn't want me to, she says that shes too old for me. But here's the thing, my mom divorced a few years ago and she remarried to a guy whos 12 years older than her(shes 43, the guy is 55), that doesn't make any sense to me it seems like she is just being a hypocrite. So what should i do?

2007-07-20 09:30:47 · 9 answers · asked by stlouisramfan2003 3 in Family

I was talking to this guy and I told him I was jewish(I don't know how we ended up talking about it) and he said "oh, really??? You don't look jewish at all"...is that a good thing???

2007-07-20 09:29:44 · 24 answers · asked by problem_girl 3 in Singles & Dating

happy in his realtionship with her...and how can she keep him that way

2007-07-20 09:29:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating