I'm a virgin guy and I'm not sure what to do. I can see the benefits of waiting till marriage to have sex, but thats years away for me. I'd really like to have sex though. You should definitely know and trust the people you have sex with but I dont know what to do.
My penis wants to have sex now. My brain can see benefits both to waiting and having it now.
Whats a guy to do?
2007-07-20 10:10:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say have it now, but with someone you care for. I would not want to marry someone only to find out on my wedding day that the sex sucks and now am stuck with it forever...
2007-07-20 10:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by brandi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't buy that "I will benefit if I wait until marriage for sex" bullshit. Sex is the most wonderful thing that could ever happen to you; enjoy it while you can. You will regret it if you don't.
Good luck!
2007-07-20 14:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Calculus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only give my opinion, not make your decision for you. I was engaged to someone I loved very much. We had sex. Lots of it. Freaky sex. He passed away unexpectedly 2 weeks before the wedding. I'm glad I did not wait.
2007-07-20 10:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by beautifulirishgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly i'm waiting to be married previously having intercourse, it somewhat is my own determination I made an prolonged time in the past and that i'll face via that because of the fact i think of i'm worth waiting for. i'm 22. human beings look at intercourse as one among those vast deal whilst somewhat that's puffed up in lots of procedures in accordance to a lot of my friends who say they want they waited. each and everything is so oversexualized interior the media and it has ppl fooled. Why provide your physique away to in simple terms anybody make it susectible to ailment or being pregnant which maximum ppl can not have adequate money (whilst youthful besides) via waiting intercourse because of the fact a particular time to proportion love with somebody i'm close to to and positively love no longer somebody just to screw because of the fact i'm getting sexy. whilst human beings mature their minds and notice that that's extra important to love your self than compromise for others, they are going to be lots happier. i'm single and that i could prefer to have a bf or a husband even yet i do no longer recommendations waiting because of the fact i understand the main suitable guy for me won't recommendations waiting additionally. i'm a virgin and pleased with that. Why could I feel embarrassment approximately that? I in simple terms dont like whilst ppl question me if i'm whilst they arent anybody I definitely have interest in sexually or dating sensible so it shouldnt rely. particularly whilst the guy has a gf already! C'mon persons to each and each his very own. I dont decide ppl who do in spite of with whomever so dont decide me for no longer having intercourse because of the fact it does pass the two procedures ppl tend to forget that!
2016-12-10 17:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol..it's normal to have hormones. I'm 23 and still a virgin. it gets hard for me to at time. but i would rather wait for one man for the rest of my life than sleep with someone that could leave me next month.
2007-07-20 10:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Lady 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WAIT !!!, yeah yeah, your package says something but follow the morals and valus you were taught and when your honeymoon comes up, get ready to sink the battleship!!!!
2007-07-20 17:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by SaberToothCali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT WAIT WAIT!!! Trust me, that is the best thing you can give your wife!!! Plus there are other things to do other than the act of sex!
2007-07-20 10:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wait for the right girl to tag along, don't sleep around if you don't want to end up with some kind of sexual decises!:}Ciao*
2007-07-20 10:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
When you find da right person then you'll know. Thats when you should do it.
2007-07-20 10:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do it! You may never get married.
2007-07-20 10:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by Landslide 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋