or do i just go with it and do it........
my mom says that before i move out i have to take care of all my belongings even the stuff that i plan on leaving behind.....
my brothers that have moved out didn't have to do that....they just uped and left and left things all a mess and all over and she sorted them out....why do i have to make sure all my stuff is all in order and sorted out
2007-07-20 10:06:06 · 30 answers · asked by Poosocks 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Cause yer runnin off with some dude they don't like!...Duh...lol
2007-07-20 11:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by chris j 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess that it was so much work for her to sort his things out, that she does not want to do it again. At least not alone. Ask her why it is different for you, than for your brothers. If she says that it is too much for her to do, offer to help her. If it is something else, she better tell you what it is! And then the two of you can sort things out.
I am sure it is because she does not want to sort them out alone. I am also moving out soon...and although it is VERY exhausting sorting my things out (get stuff to the attic, figure out what to keep and what to throw away etc), it has to be done. But the process takes less time if you are two :)
2007-07-20 17:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Chiquita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your mom spent the last 18 years of her life picking up after you, feeding you, changing your smelly diapers so you didn't get a rash, bathing you as a baby, holding you when you cried, giving you advice, washing your clothes, making your bed, staying up nights worrying when you came home late. It is no matter that your brothers were disrespectful to her. You should not be.
In fact, while you're busy getting your stuff taken care of, in order and sorted out. Call your mom in and say, "Mom, thanks for all you did for me. Thanks for making me the adult am. I love you."
Or, you can just blow all that off and not really be an adult about any of it.
2007-07-20 17:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't say anything. You should sort your own belongings out, so that your mother won't have to do it for you. Sounds like your Mom just learned from her mistakes with your brothers.
Also, if you are old enough to live on your own, you should be mature enough to take care of your own responsibilities.
It might be a good idea to ask for her help. It might give you both closure on this chapter of both of your lives.
Good Luck!
2007-07-20 17:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by sickoffighting 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probialy because she is tired of having a bunch of stuff left behind, she had to put up with it with your brothers and she dont want to have to do it again. Im just taking a guess
2007-07-20 17:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by sassy is sad 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably because your Mom learned the hard way from your brothers, so she's setting these new rules.
I agree with your Mom.
I don't think it's asking too much from you, especially when it is "your" stuff.
Look at it as helping your Mom.
Instead of what your brothers got to do instead.
Because I'm sure there are alot of things that you did that your brothers weren't allowed to do.
2007-07-20 17:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What difference does it make. Be considerate towards your mom and do what she asks you to do and don't worry about what your brothers did. It may have hurt her that they would leave a mess for her to clean up after they have left and she doesn't want you to hurt her as well.
Clean up your stuff and respect your mothers wishes.
2007-07-20 17:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would want to go through all my stuff when moving out because your mom may get rid of something that you still want. Besides, I think girls tend to hang on to more stuff than boys do for sentimental reasons.
2007-07-20 17:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by Maggie May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it would be a good idea because when you get older you will be very very glad you kept your stuff and didn't leave it to someone else to decide what to throw out. Actually, I think your mom is giving you sometime special that she didn't give to your brothers.
2007-07-20 17:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your mum thinks your capable of doing things yourself.
Your brothers left behind a hugh mess by the sounds of things, and your mum is probably over it.
Get your mum involved, ask her for her advice and opinion ( as painful as that sounds) and she will ease up on you.
2007-07-20 17:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
because your a young lady and she have to be hard on you so u could be ready for the next level in life so u won't have to depend on nobody because u r a lady lady 's have to make sure they r together otherwise no boy would want u as they girlfriend if u can't keep yourself and your stuff orangized and plus boys r way way way way different from us girls
2007-07-20 17:15:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋