2007-07-20 10:01:07 · 29 answers · asked by jam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Sure! my step mom is 11 years older than my dad and they've been married for 17 years now! Go for it and Good Luck!
2007-07-20 10:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by Pretty Woman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE is 18? Robbing the craddle a tad AREN'T you? I really don't think a guy of 18 is mature enough to be married... ESPECIALLY to someone almost 10 years OLDER then he is..... maturity-wise, he isn't even old enough to legally DRINK let alone become someone's husband.... I just think a marriage between the two of you is doomed right from the start.... I had a son and when he was 18, he was no where NEAR ready to beome someone's husband---most guys AREN'T ready at that age... I'd wait until he was AT LEAST 21 - 25 before even CONSIDERING marrying him---he has a LOT of growing UP to do yet.... if you don't let him, you will be feeling more like you married someone to BABYSIT them rather then SLEEP with them. My opinion is wait till he's in his mid 20's and if you still love him THEN marry him.... but he barely got the diaper off and is WAY too young to be married... and if I was HIS MOTHER, I would TOTALLY be against any marriage right now for him to ANYONE!!!!!
2007-07-20 10:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by LittleBarb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are as mature as an 18 year old boy, then you will not have a marriage, you will have a mess.
If he is as mature as a 27 yo woman should be, he would never marry you until he was well-educated, well-employed and had his own life.
Right now, I'd say wait for at least 2-3 years, until he is grown.
When you are 65, he will be 46 and prime target for a mid-life crisis complete with red corvette and hooters girl.
If you want it to last, wait.
2007-07-20 10:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only component i'm able to assert is sweet success to you baby. reason your gonna want it. Being married is a extensive accountability. and that i trust lots of the posters on right here, you will desire to not be getting married so youthful. Edit: i became married the 1st time on the age of 18.. that union lasted much less then 4 years, because of the fact I married the 1st serious boyfriend I had. i might by no ability enable my teenagers get married whilst they have been sixteen. and that i trust the posters on right here returned, your mom needs to have her head examined for permitting her LITTLE female to get married on the age of sixteen. i know you do in contrast to being observed as a splash female, yet that's what you're. are not getting married the following day. in simple terms call off the marriage, and stay at school.
2016-12-14 14:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jam who am I to say whether it's okay or not. I would say that soon enough though that there will be many differences. Face the fact that your a whole generation apart and as such are going to have a lot of different interests and tastes. He still has hormones running around inside him that may make you very attractive at present but soon enough he may find someone else to play with. Maturity levels would also be very large differences I would imagine. Are you and your friends going to want to be hanging around kids his age? Regardless of what people say in response to your question you are the person that must decide if it feels right or not. Think about it long and hard (no pun intended) and then best of luck in making your decision.
2007-07-20 10:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You have not finished growing up. I know it seems you have to you but the 20s are a decade of growth. You will never regret waiting and if its meant to be he will wait for you until at least you are 25. Meanwhile, go to school and advance to be the very best you can be ( Plus, there is something weird about a 27 yr old not being able to meet someone more his age.
2007-07-20 10:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a LIFE LONG commitment and if even if he's 100% positive this is what he wants now, he might feel different as he grows up and gains more life experience. Or, maybe you will live happily ever after! It really depends on the maturity level of you both, how long and how well you know eachother, and what you're basing your relationship on. If you still decide it's the right choice, don't care what anyone else thinks and go for it!
2007-07-20 18:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you have doubts or you wouldn't want answers from a bunch of strangers. Listen to what your gut is telling you. It seldom lies.
If you were 37 & him 28 then the age difference wouldn't matter. But you have lived a lot in the last 9 years that he has yet to experience.
2007-07-20 11:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by weddrev 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Ask him. You sound like you have some doubt because you are asking the question here. You should ask him because he is the one that 9 years younger than you and he also might be confused and also might regret getting married to an older woman.
2007-07-20 10:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want our permission? You're both old enough (barely) to make these decisions. But if you want my advice, I'd say he's way too young and immature at this age and there is NO WAY he will keep "willie" in his pants in the long run. Come on, the guy is 18 and you want him to be monogamous for how long? Forever? "Not gonna happen" But hey, good luck anyway!
2007-07-20 10:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by jayjay 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋