to feel jealous like this...the thing is...ive got a bf...but i go on his myspace to see what all his friends who are girls have been saying about him...some of them say he is a hottie...some of them say how much they miss them...and one of them said that they should get married again...that one i know the story behind...should i feel jealous because other girls are posting on his myspace like that...since we are so far apart...do u think he will fall for them?
2007-07-20 10:59:30 · 16 answers · asked by ♥jam06.26.10.♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he told my friend that long distance isnt a problem because we have ways of communicating and he says i am so worth it...
2007-07-20 11:06:00 · update #1
I'd feel alittle proud for how highly people seem to think of him. I would only be concerned if he starts writing back on the same vein. He'll only fall for them if you make a big deal out of it and he gets sick of you being jealous.
2007-07-20 11:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by Gleebicus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to chill or you are gonna have high blood pressure problems later on. So what if girls think he is a hottie, don't you and you getting upset and jealous is not going to change that. You are far apart and I hate to tell you this but the relationship is not gonna last so do not get so upset over what other girls post on his MySpace. So what enjoy the relationship while it lasts because distance is a bit relationship killer.
2007-07-20 11:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like his female friends want to be a little more than that. Of course you will get jealous because you have feelings for this person and your emotions take over. I personally don't do that my space stuff, but what you should consider is his response to messages. Are you two totally committed to each other or do you see other people if so get your own my space page and keep in touch with your own friends. I will tell you this life is too short to worry over people and things let him know how you feel if he respect you he will change what is going on. If he doesn't move on to someone who wants to spend more time with you than his computer friends. If this is a long distance relationship that you want to last a long time communicate, don't hold anything back, and most importantly pray about it.
2007-07-20 11:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by wisdom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is never a good thing, it leads to mistrust and pain. The fact that you are jealous does show that you care about him. However, instead of letting jealousy breed bad feelings between you two, maybe mention it to him. Make sure you don't sound possessive, but perhaps more like you don't want to loose him since he means so much to you, and now that you're farther apart, you're afraid he'll fall for someone closer. I'm sure he'll tell you that there's no way he'd fall for one of them, he chose you and he chose to stay with you even though you're far apart. After you talk about this, I suggest not going on his myspace for the purpose of looking for girls comments. It will make both of your lives happier.
2007-07-20 11:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by Matia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being jealous is a true waste of time and energy! Don't be so wrapped up in what he is doing that you don't enjoy your own life! You are so young and there are lots of boys! If he truly cares for you and you for him then trust him, as he should trust you. Without trust there is NO relationship worth having. It is what it is and if he's a good guy you have nothing to fear and if he's not a good guy then you don't want him anyway! Trust that YOU are worth having and holding dear and what he does will reflect how you feel about yourself! Heck, if other girls thing he's a hottie then that's just compliment to you! Smile and be happy!
2007-07-20 11:07:41 · answer #5 · answered by Janet H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey u feel jealous all you want.....remember if you have a hottie u pretty much gotta find a way 2 deal w it....it ok 4 someone 2 miss him......as 4 the get married again thing...he needs 2 straighten that out and put a stop 2 it sounds like hes holding on just in case be careful w that one.....does he let you go on...do you go on together....if he does he showing u he has nothing to hide.......your feelings are normal though just watch and listen
2007-07-20 11:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by righton262 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should trust your boyfriend. If he is not answering these people or flurting with them, then what are you worrying about. The quickest way to ruin a relationship is mistrust. Your "handle" is i love daniel to the end, don't make the end be jealousy...ask him about whats on his myspace, but think about what the words myspace mean. When they invent ourspace then go 4 it, but for now trust, trust, trust until given a real reason not to trust, and what you've described is not a reason to distrust.
2007-07-20 11:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If these girls are getting that personal with him, then you need to ask him what kind of a commited relationship the two are you are in. It does not appear to be that commited to me, it sounds as though these girls are writing to him as though he were single and without a girlfriend. He may still be playing the field a little and you may want to talk to him to find out what he wants in a relationship.
2007-07-20 11:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.. I'd feel jealous too, but you know what, you just have to learn to trust, unless he gives you a reason not to, like flirting with those girls, then you can confront him. And, if he truly loves you he won't fall for them. Good luck with your relationship.
2007-07-20 11:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by Tina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im guessing your in a long distance? well actually i know what thats like. i went on my BFs myspace and there was this one girl that said i miss ya love ya lots MUAH!!! i was like huh? but all girls do that. i would do that if i had a close guy friend too! u shouldnt be worried k? girls are just like that and maybe they like him but i doubt he will fall for them k? trust me on this one
2007-07-20 11:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by hoops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋