Family & Relationships - 11 July 2007

my wife left a few months ago. she was abusive. I mean just really abusive when she got angry. it's like she couldn't control her rage once she got angry. every foul thing came out of her mouth, she hit me, threw things at me, yelled terrible things to her kid. After awhile I started yelling back because i just couldn't deal with just turning the other cheek. Now that she's gone, she's telling everyone i was abusive, thinks all her previous fiances (she's had multple) and me her husband, we were all abusive when i've never seen a woman get so angry and abusive. I just want to rip her a new one and shake her and tell her, it's you! You are messed up! How can i just let this go? I feel like my character has been attacked when abusive behavior runs in her family! I've seen it with her mother! I'm not the one who is vindictive like shutting off the water to my house without telling me or cutting my head off in photos and pasting them to my car when i'm out! hello who's nuts here?

2007-07-11 03:17:08 · 17 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

specially to girls

2007-07-11 03:16:43 · 9 answers · asked by Asif khan 2 in Singles & Dating

Our situation is in Family courts for guardianship, access, and custody. Recently we had a trial date adjourned with no resolution and court orders that he has not followed. We are denied further court action until September which is when the trial was rescheduled for. He has used his time with my daughter and disappeared, not answering phonecalls, text, e-mails. What can I do? There is no police clause in our order.

2007-07-11 03:15:28 · 18 answers · asked by Justwishin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a few black heads on myface and would like to get rid of them before my wedding. Is there anything I can do at home? If not what do you recommend

2007-07-11 03:13:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am recently divorced and I try to spend as much time as possible with my two young daughters. I have recently met some women that I could have grown to love, but they both resented splitting time with my children. Do any ladies appreciate this rather than resent it?

2007-07-11 03:12:03 · 32 answers · asked by cityboundguy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My son and I have most always been estranged his entire adult life. Two years ago we supposadly reconciled and I have had a wonder ful two years with my 5 grandchildren. Recently we had a misunderstanding and he informed me he was pressured into having a relationship with me in the first place by his grandmother, sister and wife but now he just wants nothing else to do with me. I really love my grandchildren ranging in age 7 months to eight years old. The two oldest children he adopted but I love them like my own. My husband and I are on a fixed income so there is really no money for an attorney but I will do what I have to do if there are no other resources.

2007-07-11 03:10:50 · 5 answers · asked by Mamaw 2 in Marriage & Divorce

would you guys like an itemized statement of purchases? id be glad to provide one....then you all could see how very little your "BIG CHILD SUPPORT" really helps.

2007-07-11 03:08:48 · 16 answers · asked by mercedesofladies36 2 in Family

My boyfriend of 2 years, now fiance as of June just confessed that he cheated back in Oct. We had been planning a sooner wedding, Dec. 2007... I've already bought my dress, reserved and put a deposit at the reception hall....
He confessed that he had sex with his ex-girlfriend. She went crazy when we started dating (even though they had not dated for 2 years). She apparently had randomly emailed him last Oct. said she changed, and wanted to meet up to talk. Icecream at wendys turned into a drive, turned into pulling over to make out, turned into driving 10 min away to her house to have sex (which apparently stopped only 2 min later, before.. you know..) He then cut off all contact, deleted emails she sent in April again. He says he will do whatever I want, give me passwords, never go out, move in now so I can watch over him... I just want to know can a marriage work where someone has already cheated, even if they say they won't do it again? Is it true once a cheat, always cheat

2007-07-11 03:07:55 · 34 answers · asked by confussed 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 03:05:45 · 8 answers · asked by texasclassygirl3 1 in Singles & Dating

Right, do you prefer Butts or boobs or any other part and why is this?

2007-07-11 03:03:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you deel with something bad that is happening to someone in your family that you love of course and is one of your closest grandparents when you dont feel like everyone else does. like it hasnt hit you that it is happening like something like this cant happen to this person i guess because you love them to much. he had a heart attack and isnt doing well everyone around me is crying but i'm not. but that doesnt mean i dont care because i do! whats going on?

2007-07-11 03:02:15 · 7 answers · asked by lost in the moment♥ 1 in Family

2007-07-11 03:00:29 · 14 answers · asked by riyas m 1 in Singles & Dating

for example, they have a show on mtv called "date my mom", where the contestant would flirt with the mothers of prospective contestants. had this been "date my dad" it would sound disgusting and mtv would get complaints.

2007-07-11 02:58:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I turn my uncle in for molesting me when I was about the age of 7 or 8? The sexual abuse went on for over 2 years. Will he be put behind bars if I told the police and stuff? I'm now 22 years of age. I'm just wondering.

2007-07-11 02:57:11 · 15 answers · asked by Ms Ghost 6 in Family

hi everyone, i'll try to be brief. I'm going through a separation right now and my children and I are living in a 3bdrm apartment in an awful neighborhood paying $1550 a month. Now that I'll only have my income (55K) that's too much rent and so I wanted to rent a 2 bedroom in a better neighborhood. My dilemma is that I am in the process of fixing my credit to eventually get my kids the home they deserve, I am not even close to the 3% down payment I'll need, it may take 2 years at least. My question is, should I just stay in the 3 bedroom apt. (we saw 4 waterbugs this morning...yuck!) and save the $2000 I have started to save for the downpayment so it can accumulate OR use that $2000 to move to a better area in a downsized 2 bedroom and start all over again saving. Sorry if this sounds silly, I'm just confused and at a breakdown point. Thanks for you advice, I want to do whats best for my kids and buy them a home.

2007-07-11 02:54:47 · 9 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my ex broke up a little over a month ago. we are both 24 years old, and we were living together at the time. Out break up went bad and for a short period of time we grew to hating eachother based on one anothers actions during the break up. She ended up seeing another guy shortly after we split, but now is no longer seeing him anymore. We have, in the past couple weeks began talking again, and as of last weekend we have hung out a couple times. We went to dinner and a movie last sunday, just as friends, but i know that she still cares for me and loves me. I can see it in her eyes. Plus she told me. But she says that she is at a confused state in her life where she doesnt know what she wants. I do love her with all my heart. I just need help. I need to know if there may ever be a chance of us rekindeling our love life with one another, and how should I go about trying to win her back in my arms.

2007-07-11 02:52:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my husband for a total of 10 years, married for 5. Throughout the time we've been married he's has up and left MANY times. Sometimes it would last a week, sometimes a month or more. We've currently been separated for 16 months, he just left one day and has since been living with his different friends. We've been pretty civil to one another for the most part. I was hoping that perhaps things would work out, but I got tired of waiting. I told him that I wanted a divorce and things are really nasty really fast. He's saying that he "wants what he deserves soley because we're married". Shortly before we separated I took out a mortgage on the house I live in with my parents. I took out a loan for 1/2 of the house because it was willed to my mother and my aunt, and I bought out my aunt in hopes of buying out my mom in the near future (he's not on the title, or mortgage or anything). He thinks he's entitled to part of the house "no matter how little he's paid towards it, and it's his word against mine". He actually hasn't paid anything towards it because he really barely works (when he does it's under the table), and since he's been gone I've asked him to pay nothing. He is also driving around in a truck with my name on it (he does manage to pay that at least). He also owes me around $4000 for misc. things he needed money for of course shortly before he left. I'm tired of all of this.... and I really can't afford a lawyer right now. Am I going to screwed even further?

2007-07-11 02:51:24 · 8 answers · asked by honeybaby729 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend cheated on me about a year ago and I forgave him. As hard as it was, I thought it wasn't worth us being apart. So I've been trying to heal. Everyday he told me he loves me and that I was beautiful and that he was lucky to have me. Just the other night I found an email that said he can't stop thinking about another girl. Since the last year has been such a rollercoaster of emotions because he cheated I decided at that moment that I couldn't take it anymore. The worrying, the jealousy. I deserve better, so I broke up with him. It's so hard to let go of someone you love even if they hurt you over and over. I'm sure someone out there has been in my shoes before. Today and yesterday are pretty bad days. I can't stop crying. When does it get better?

2007-07-11 02:50:37 · 23 answers · asked by Me baby Me 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 02:48:22 · 70 answers · asked by D 7 in Weddings

Am 27, he's 30. We've been dating for quite a while now. At the beginning of the year he told me he'll marry me by July. Now we are approaching mid month he isn't saying anything. Even if i ask what his plans are, he jus says i should be patient. He doesn't talk about marriage anymore ever since i started sleeping with him. He'll tell me about the house he's building, how far he's gone with it and stuff like that but wont say anything about us. Should i be worried

2007-07-11 02:48:05 · 32 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Singles & Dating

I like the fact my Mom always kept her word,

2007-07-11 02:47:57 · 6 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Family

Hi,

15 days back i proposed a girl, she is my colleague(Scorpio).
She is not ready to speak to me on that topic anymore......she said there is nothing to speak....

I dont know whats her position in the family......But she doent want to speak.....She never got angry on me....when i did send her 4-5 mails and msg....But once i had askd her to send me a blnk msg.....if she wants me not to look back at her.....after one hour she sent me a blnk msg..

This is affecting me badly.....But i always wish to see her happy..

Pls suggest wht i shuld be doing..??

2007-07-11 02:47:01 · 12 answers · asked by Kiran 1 in Singles & Dating

Any reviews would be helpful. the food, the surroundings, the service?

2007-07-11 02:45:28 · 2 answers · asked by Lisa W 2 in Weddings

hi dear friends. i am here looking forward to hav some online firends. i need some one who can hav continuous contact with me. is there any one to give me a company. i would be grateful if you allow me to be y our friend.
thanks

2007-07-11 02:44:10 · 11 answers · asked by dracu 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

about what i want to do in my spare time, not seeking advice. are guys my age 28, scared of girls their own age. i am more comfortable with girls older or younger than me. girls from 22 - 28 i can't be comfortable with. i am a shy boy. sometime i wish someone would just grab me and give me a hug and sit on my lap, that's all i want some loving, cos i don't get it from my parents and i feel deprived.

2007-07-11 02:43:34 · 29 answers · asked by rjhfocus77 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm about 5'7, 130 lbs., brunette, light brown eyes, pretty face, really tan, big boobs (34D), nice butt, toned legs, dont look like anyone my age.

Hot or not ?
Smash or pass ?

2007-07-11 02:43:08 · 8 answers · asked by hottie<3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 02:41:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The business opportunity is direct sales. So I would ask women for an invitation to come into their home and do customized fittings (with their tops on), and get them into the right bra and right size (80% of women are wearing the wrong size bra). The host would get a percentage of $ in return.

We all are problably pretty tired of "sales parties", but these bras truely the most comfortable and most flatter I've every experienced.

I need your help. I am in need of your opinion:
Yes or no you would pay $60 for this bra?
Yes or no you would host bra party?

2007-07-11 02:40:52 · 22 answers · asked by Faithful 1 in Weddings

I'm on my daughter's yahoo answers. I tried to make an account for myself but it would not allow me to do so. When I am able to make my own account I will post this on my questions and answers thanks I apologize for any inconvenience

My youngest daughter just graduated from high school. I have 2 other daughters and a son who also graduated a few years back and have never acted the way my daughter has about the transition from high school to college.

My youngest daughter had it very hard throughout her 12 years in school. She was picked on a lot and just harassed very badly by students. My husbands daughter is also going through this. She's not mentally challenged or physically handicapped or anything of the sort she just got picked on a lot.

Well, now my daughter is going to college and what she wants amazed me. She wants to purchase everything new. New bed sheets blankets pillows clothes including all new underwear bras shoes socks tee-shirts long sleeve shirts sweatshirts

2007-07-11 02:39:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why in this "he's no good for you", "I don't need a man" world must men be more compromising and in some cases submissive in a relationship? How can you be independent in a relationship?

2007-07-11 02:38:28 · 12 answers · asked by DeanPonders 3 in Marriage & Divorce