Hi,
15 days back i proposed a girl, she is my colleague(Scorpio).
She is not ready to speak to me on that topic anymore......she said there is nothing to speak....
I dont know whats her position in the family......But she doent want to speak.....She never got angry on me....when i did send her 4-5 mails and msg....But once i had askd her to send me a blnk msg.....if she wants me not to look back at her.....after one hour she sent me a blnk msg..
This is affecting me badly.....But i always wish to see her happy..
Pls suggest wht i shuld be doing..??
2007-07-11 02:47:01 · 12 answers · asked by Kiran 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well buddy, I do understand ur situation. Now buddy its very much clear that she has no feelings for u, now what all u can do to get her is
1. Keep patience, as now she knows the what feeling u have for her, she will never forget u.
2. Try to find out, if she loves somebody else and find out who the guy is.
3. If step 2. come to be affirmative then leave her, its a dead end.
4. But if step 2 is negative then, don't always hang around her all the time, just try to develop a casual friendship and don't talk on what has happened in the past, behave as if u are just Friends.
5. This might sound little "filmy", but try to help her when she might need u, I know it won't be possible for u easily, but u have to find out, what she might need at the moment.
6. Finally the patience is the KEY, and believe in GOD.
All the very best to u.
2007-07-11 04:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by rohit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well its clear that at this point of time she is not interested in your proposal (the reasons can be many). It may not be that she doesn't likes there can be many more reasons.
I will say hold back for some time, let her have a feel of life without you, if she misses you, she will surely ping you back.
And I read some of the answeres asking you to contact her nearones and trying to figure out the reason, Please dont do that as you may scare her off!!
Since you want to see her happy, holding back will help because she can then choose what makes her happier, life with or without you!!
2007-07-11 20:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by Skeptical Buyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were u 2gether b4?
Anyways, u should ask her about the reasons 4 her decision - that should b fair, no matter what she says - tell her that.
2007-07-11 18:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by mallika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi da, it is clear from the message that you should not look her back. That means your presence make her unhappy. You want her to be happy also. sooo? I have to say what you have to do?
2007-07-11 10:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by Surettan S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time before you ask someone to marry you make sure your at least dating the person first.
2007-07-11 09:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by sw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately your question does not make sense and I have no idea what to tell you to do except go back to school.
2007-07-11 09:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by J S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should try to give her space and either she will find that she has feelings towards you or she doesn't
she might just be scared to marry someone she works with
2007-07-11 09:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by shortysherry46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her closest frnds or brother sister [only if they don't know who you really are]
2007-07-11 13:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mihu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life...without her. Sorry.
2007-07-11 09:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by Rhonda & Cats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone ... iam sure she will be always be happy everafter ....
2007-07-11 13:34:28 · answer #10 · answered by jammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋