Family & Relationships - 11 July 2007

Like Ive been married about a year now. [in september] and I love it. currently I am an army wife. couldnt be more happy. but like when we drive past like cemetarys and stuff all i can think about is i dont want to leave.. ya know im scared. sorry Its just i duno it just 'erks' me about leaving and being seprated. plus ya know i have a 3 year old lil girl. is it now that im finally settled.. that im thinking about this.. if anyone can help thank you.

2007-07-11 05:54:01 · 6 answers · asked by jbairswifey9706 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive liked this guy for like 5 months and we texted and email all the time. I really liked him and finally told him and then he's like sorry i have a girlfriend and all that. but in class he was totally flirting with me. leaning forward, kicking my desk, getting my attention and he just didnt admit that he likes me. now its summer and he wont answer me back. I cant seem to let him go. and everyday it just hurts me more. what should i do?

2007-07-11 05:53:32 · 28 answers · asked by aminallover29 2 in Singles & Dating

No Ebay, I already tried it twice and they both look like cheap pieces of crap from two different vendors.
I want ivory, elbow length and cover in high quality crystals.
I want really good quality, I am willing to pay for it but I though the one’s a David’s bridal were expensive and not that great.
Any suggestions?
Thanks

2007-07-11 05:51:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Open question

2007-07-11 05:51:32 · 15 answers · asked by Navrita Lottay Navrita Lottay 1 in Singles & Dating

please give an detailed answer

your input is very important and will be used in the paper

2007-07-11 05:51:05 · 14 answers · asked by lesey3 1 in Family

ended before it ever began?

2007-07-11 05:50:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my father was 62 & he died about 3 month ago. now i miss for him and like talk with somebody as him age who is father. who can help me?

2007-07-11 05:49:15 · 7 answers · asked by blue 2 1 in Family

2007-07-11 05:48:26 · 12 answers · asked by sai n 1 in Singles & Dating

My best guy friend is comming home from his 2 week vacation from Europe and he wanted to do something with me when he got back. The movie this weekend is kind of a "kiddie" movie. what are some other things that we could do? My other friend wants me to go to the rodeo with her, but I'm not into the whole rodeo thing, and she doesn't know that I wanna hang with my guy friend instead of her...and she wants to do something with him. But this is just suppose to be for my guy friend and I! what should I do?

2007-07-11 05:47:51 · 3 answers · asked by Reach 4 The Stars 3 in Friends

Ok heres the idea my dress is red and my girls dresses are black. The groom is wearing a black Tux and the Grooms men are wearing white tuxes. Each of the girls bouquets will have their mask attached to it, that way then at the reception they can use there mask. The place i'm getting married at is a castle that is located Charlevoix, MI. The bridal party will be brought in on horse drawn carriages. My other question is do you think it would be ok to put on the invite that its a formal or semi formal affair and that they should rsvp? I just want this be great after its the last time i'll ever be getting married. Oh and also I was thinking that when everybody comes in for the reception handing them their own Mask after it is a masked ball.

2007-07-11 05:47:03 · 19 answers · asked by BzAMovieFreak 1 in Weddings

My friendship ended with this girl. She told me to leave her alone and not to talk to her again. But I have a feeling that she may give me another chance one day. B'cuz she told my aunt that she may accept me back sometime down the line(although that was about 3wks ago), she also told me how she missed the old me. I have a feeling if I change and be a better person she will let me back in her life. I don't want it to be over...so I was going to try my best to rebuild this relationship by doing little small things to win her back. So even though she told me to leave her alone I was gonna start by doing something simple like wishing her a happy birthday, should I? And if I do would it better to just call and wish her happy b'day or send her an ecard? Another dilema is I don't know if her b'day is on the 2nd or 3rd and she isn't talkin to me and my aunt is through talkin to her so I can't find out.

2007-07-11 05:46:24 · 6 answers · asked by ms.l_thoms 1 in Friends

My intended and I are secular, and our families come from two completely different religious traditions. As such, we plan to have our wedding at a religiously-neutral location, such as one of the many lovely parks or historic homes in our city. What type of person can officiate for us?

2007-07-11 05:46:04 · 14 answers · asked by SE 5 in Weddings

I have a friend who was my past college teacher and she is about 10 years older than me. I really think she is a good person and I think I can learn things from her in life. We talk alot through email and have become friends. I am taking a class with her hubby next fall to get a chance to get to know him and be friends with both of them.
Since she is pregnant and about to have her baby any day now.. I emailed her and wished her the best in the hospital and told her I would be praying for her and her baby. I have given her a baby gift and all that and we have gone to lunch twice. But I kinda feel like she might forget about me when she has her baby and i dont want that cuz she is a good potential close friend. And i dont mean quit hanging out... i just mean emailing me every so often like usual... but i know i can still contact her through the school when it starts back up. And I have good intentions. Anyway... what do you think?

2007-07-11 05:44:25 · 3 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Family

Im always thinking something going to happen to my children, sister, brother, and grandchild. This happens daily to the point I had to go to the doctor. I thought i was having a heart attack. I always have this feeling something gonna happen. I have been this way for months. Whats going on with me?

2007-07-11 05:42:42 · 21 answers · asked by twisty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im not competing with his wife nor kids, im not even forcing him to leave his family, all i want is a few time with him, thats all, i know that he loves me, hes just sticking up with his wife because of the kids.. am i a homewrecker???

2007-07-11 05:42:15 · 42 answers · asked by confused chick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

As a second option there is a 3pm elsewhere on a different date and location. The church is not my favorite though.

2007-07-11 05:41:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i want one super bad but i want to know what happens when u do get it! like guys is it sexxy or girls how does it feel??!! i want one and am getting one so dont tell me i shouldnt cuz im not gonna listen...i just need advice on past experiences

2007-07-11 05:40:49 · 19 answers · asked by NATALiiE ANN♥ 2 in Friends

i have a boyfriend who is a sweetheart and i love him but than there is one of my good friends who i am totally attracted to phyically and personality wise.....they are both great guys and i dont know which one to follow....i really need some advise on this one!!!!

2007-07-11 05:40:04 · 8 answers · asked by MIC 2 in Singles & Dating

Every so often, I have dreams at night, about the first guy I had a crush on when I was a teenager.

I had a beautiful dream about him last night. I haven't thought about him for quite awhile now, but then I go to bed last night and dream about him. Now can't get him out of of my mind.

I would never ever pursue a relationship. Believe it or not, I am happily married, but I can't help what I dream at night.

Does anyone else still have dreams of their past crushes/loves? Is it normal?

2007-07-11 05:39:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My father was an incredible dad until my parents got divorced when I was 18 so I don't want to leave him out or make him feel bad. But my step-father has really taken over the real role of father ever since... my fiance asked him permission to marry me and all....
and I love him... want to honor him but can't hurt my father.

Someone suggested having my father walk me halfway down the aisle and my step father finishing the walk... but I think that's too awkward and than my father doesn't give me away.

My fiance and I have already decided we are having two father daughter dances....

we thought about having my step-father escort my mother down the aisle right before the Man of Honor comes down... so they are more prominent....

any ideas?

2007-07-11 05:38:06 · 6 answers · asked by etainbutterfly 2 in Weddings

about 4 years ago he had a crush on me, but i rejected him,because being in his company was too much for me. So he started dating my cousin and after a year she broke he's heart. And i had a crush on him aswell,but because of her i sidestepped. Now all three of us is single and i really like him and i want to be with him. Now it seems that my beloved cousin are trying to win him back.After she dumped him for someone else.What must i do?

2007-07-11 05:37:02 · 1 answers · asked by angel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I shave "down there" (if ya know what I mean). My wife enjoys it, and she is the reason I do it. I leave about a 2 inch patch right above my p**is. That means that there is no hair on each side of the patch. About another 2 inches on each side. What I have been thinking about is tattooing that area on each side. I am not sure what a good tattoo would be. It would have to be something that could go on each side and fit right. What would think if your man wanted to do this, and what suggestions do you have for me?

2007-07-11 05:33:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know how to discover your family history such as family tree's etc... on the internet for free? Links to good websites would be appreicated, thanks.

2007-07-11 05:32:41 · 3 answers · asked by Wow88 1 in Family

This issue is really causing problems in my marriage. We have been married for three years, but we are both fet up with the marriage. Read some of my previous posts to see why. In a nutshell, my husband has cheated on me, twice technically, he has a history of lying and he is addicted to porn. Why I still stick around is beyond me, but I can say that I actually love this man. However, he is very stubborn, manipulative and rebellious for an almost 29 year old. If I say I don't like something then he is going to make sure he does it anyway. One of our biggest problems is that when he goes out with his single friends (majority are single), he USUALLY stays out late, like until after 2 a.m. and one time he came home at almost 4 a.m. No, he doesn't do it all the time but when he goes out he usually does not come home until after 1 a.m. almost 2 a.m. His excuse, the single guys weren't ready to come home or they don't leave to go out until 10:30 or 11:00 p.m. I have told him ...

2007-07-11 05:32:19 · 24 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

for guy only
guys aren't you so sic of dineyeing our nature girls always say all men want is sex of course that's all we want and u enjoy it to so why are u complaining woman i tell you do u agree with me that woman should stop bitching and just let us get down

2007-07-11 05:32:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 05:30:29 · 8 answers · asked by yp_brenda_dupo 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend two years ago, and it was quite messy. We live in the same apartment complex and we recently sort of tried being friends. I hardly ever saw him, but I recently came to him, because I was sort of having a problem, and I had no one else to turn to. (I don't get out much.) He recently told me that he was bothered, because he said that just about the only time I came to him was when I needed something. I didn't intend for it to be that way, but I work two jobs, plus I sometimes like to do things on my own on my rare days off. He just texted me and told me that he didn't want to be friends anymore for many reasons. I told that it was fine and that I didn't want any more texts from him. Part of me feels sorry for having unintentionally hurt him, but part of me feels annoyed, because I have often found him very emotionally demanding. (That was one of the reasons why I broke up with him.) A few nights ago, we talked about this on the phone, but no matter how

2007-07-11 05:25:42 · 6 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Singles & Dating

my family does that all da time,its no biggie,is it?

2007-07-11 05:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by broken_heart_of_an_angel 2 in Family

I have been in a serious relationship for 2 years and I love her very much. She is the only woman in my life that loves me and takes care of me the way she does. The second month we where dating she wanted to go see and old friend. I thought it would be ok so I went. I latter found out that was her best-friend (F*CKfriend) and she had not one but two threesomes with. But I was so attracted to her and we had so much in common that the anger went away. It would come back at me sometimes and I will get mad and it will go away (and cause problems). I have been having this problem for almost 2 years now and the anger is getting worse. I love her and I want to forget about it because when I do we make the best couple. Please help with advice.

2007-07-11 05:20:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have 2 couples we spend a lot of time with, we have all discussed swinging in a joking manner but never serious. I would like to try it, but don't know how to get past the joking stage, I am sure none of us have ever swung before.

We can call the couples A/B and C/D.

From the joking it seems my wife would go with the flow, she has said she is most likely to do something with A. A would be quite willing to do something with my wife or with D. D seems to be open to the idea. B is completely against it. And it is hard to tell with C but I think he would want to do something with my wife.

So basically 5 out of 6 seem interested, any suggestions on going further? Preferably answers from people with experience, not interested in peoples opinion on the merits of swinging.

2007-07-11 05:20:07 · 32 answers · asked by tommyguard3 3 in Marriage & Divorce