I cant do this!!!?

Question

Ive liked this guy for like 5 months and we texted and email all the time. I really liked him and finally told him and then he's like sorry i have a girlfriend and all that. but in class he was totally flirting with me. leaning forward, kicking my desk, getting my attention and he just didnt admit that he likes me. now its summer and he wont answer me back. I cant seem to let him go. and everyday it just hurts me more. what should i do?

Answer 1

i was in the same place as you once.
i thought he liked me too just cause of what he would do to me. in class he would sit behind me and he would pull my hair, blow on my neck but the most annoying thing he would do is always run his fingers up my back cause he nos i hate spider and he would always freek me out.
it was hard for me to get over him but i couldnt stop wasting my life over him so another boy from a different class asked me out. he was cute and all and we have alot of laughs together cause his the funny one in our year so i said yes even though i liked somone else.
with this boy i stilll couldnt get him off my mind and that really made me go crazy thinking about day and night but then one day my boyfriend took me somewhere where no one would of tooken me, my best friends grave( i no, who would take someone to a graveyard)lol but he new i was upset and it was the month she died so that just made me realise he is a genuwine boy who wouldnt lead me on and hurt me.
id stop thinking of HIM just cause of what my boyfriend did.

so what im telling u is stop thinking about him live ur life as full as possible and maybe date someone else get ur mind off him and then he'll be the fool for missing out. plus dont give him the attention that he doesnt deserve cause he finks he can walk all over u and u dont deserve 2 be hurt from a idiot. good luck and make sure u get over him.

Answer 2

so u say u have been txting and emailn for such a long time, isnt this a relationship in a way?? i take "all the time" being at least every day.. so u must knw a lot about each other, then if he hasnt told u he has a gf all this time, does he really hav 1?? he might have just got scared and found that as an excuse.... n e way i would talk to him, and find out more...

Good luck n dont do n e thing silly x x x x x x

Answer 3

I'm sorry you're feeling so hurt, but this happens to all of us at one time or another. You'll have to let go, because it's useless to keep seeking his attention when he has someone else he's interested in. The world is full of guys who will value a sweet person like yourself. Keep active, be with your friends, enjoy the summer, and eventually the hurt will ease off and disappear. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

Forget about this guy, stop hurting by stressing over him and concentrate on having some fun, enjoying your daily life and become open to meeting someone who does not already have a girlfriend . When you stop expending so much energy on the chase (the impossible dream) and concentrate on becoming a better person and enjoying yourself, someone will come into your life who will be more available and interested in YOU.

Answer 5

You should go your own way and leave guys spoken for alone. Why put yourself through the hurt knowing you like someone more than they'll ever like you, due to the other person being involved with another girl.

There's many, many more guys out there for you to choose from, and single too.

Don't let your feelings get the best of you, be smart and look for a guy who is single and likes you as much as you like him.

Good Luck!!!

Answer 6

lots of guys flirt alot. and mean the things that they do and say, but when it comes down to it they won't make a move because they don't want to be cheaters. which is a good thing. and lot of other guys come off as huge flirts and seem interested but it's just their personality. you unfortunatly have no choice but to get over him. he's attached to someone else. sorry hon. keep your head up, the right guy will come along.

Answer 7

i know this might seem hard but im really bad for lettin ppl go but u have to do it....if he sed he has a gf then he obviously wants to be with her and just likes the idea of flirtin with you or other girls but it doesnt go any further than that...my sster is goin through a similar situation with a guy she met on holiday but end of the day was jst some holiday fun n abit of flirting so u have to let it go and maybe try to focus on sme one else that doesnt have a gf n maybe get to know them...take ur mind of him and search for sme one else..theres always sme one out there better than you or ne one! u just have to find the right person...it may just be some fun may be more xxx hope this helped!! :)

Answer 8

this guy seems like a looser in my opinion.. u should always remeber the fact that .. it was easy for him to leave u .. and he dosent deserve ur attention and love. trust me hun there are soooooo many more guys out there.. i think that guy just wanted to spend his time and lead u on.. onto thinking that he likes u .. and thats sum peoples nature. but u should value ur feelings and dint waste ur time on people who ignore ur true feelings. u will see that through time, everything tends to work out. it must be hard for u i have been through the same.. but u need to start talking to more people... and find some time for urself. he is definatly not worth ur love and ur time.. it must be very hard for u .. but at this time u need to just forget it and it was a waste of time.. just give it some time and u will see that
there is some even more special awaiting u .

hope u feel better

Answer 9

Forget about him!!! Go find somebody else... If you dwell over him your going to go crazy. Go out, have fun. Theres so many more people in this world. And your talking about him kicking your desk in class... so you must be young. Dont be stuck on this dummy... you have your whole life ahead of you!!!

Answer 10

He said he had a girlfriend...you're best option is to move on and focus your attention elsewhere. After all, would you want to date a guy who flirts with others that much?