ended before it ever began?
2007-07-11 05:50:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. i recently had that experience. I met this guy who was introduced to me by my friend. outside my house we chatted for like 6-7 hours. everything seemed such a fairy tale as we clicked so well. he then danced with me in the middle of the street at 4 in the morning. 3 days later he asked me out but i could not make it. we then went on a second date which was very good. we just kissed that night.. and then he disappeared. after everything which went so well, he just stopped answering my calls. and then one day out of blue he calls me trying to have phone sex, and i am like OK!!! because we did not even slept together once. and then he goes that" do not fall in love with me" i am not ready for relationship and i cannot give any commitment..
i told him that no body starts a relationship thinking that i will fall in love with this guy. we just met so there is no point of commitment. lets just go with a flow...
but he killed it.. there are few things which are better left unsaid. i was not thinking about marrying him or anything. but when a guy says that in first place after such a good chemistry between two people, the innocence is lost. the funny thing is i slept with him once after this. sex was great, but the beauty was gone.. i don't talk to him no more.. he finished it before it even started
2007-07-11 05:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by CKR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds extraordinarily official to me. I additionally cant fall in love. i'm 50 and under no circumstances had a female chum, as a results of fact it replaced right into a waste of my time. I even have had my straightforward share of girls people, yet no longer something severe and thats the way I even have continually performed it. i'm now retired with a collection of money no longer likely to tell you techniques lots, yet shall we basically say i can get despite the fact that i desire. If i could have settled down like definitely everyone else i could have wasted my money on a spouse and in all possibility stupid young ones, as a replace i can flow chill out on my yaht and return and forth the international haha. So dont enable everyone inform you a thank you to stay or you would be lonely, becuase I even have many acquaintances madison, cleveland, benjamin, furnish in case you get my waft hahahaa. people additionally say money cant purchase happiness, properly i offered 2 variety new jet skis recently and enable me inform you i'm continually happy to apply those issues. I mean have you ever considered a tragic person on a jet ski hahaaa.
2016-11-09 00:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep... I dunno if this makes sense but I talked to a girl for about 6 months... we hung out a lot n went out, we also worked for the same company.. we went out on dates, to the movies, lounges n what not... but she wasn't ready for a relationship in the beginning even though I was head over heels for her... she wasn't ready to be with me even though she said she liked me very much n was falling in love with but was still hesitant because she had just come out of a 4 yr relationship and had gotten very hurt by her ex. anyways to make a long story short... we started talking about august of last year... here came by february n I heard the words I'd been wanting to hear for the past 6-7 months, that she wanted to be with me. she broke down n apologized for keeping me waiting all along and told me how much she liked me what not and I felt like I was on top of the world but then an emergency came up that I had to move. I told her she deserved someone to be there for her, and I physically couldn't be.. As much as it hurt I'll always remember her words sobbing "It ended before it ever began.." That's my story, hope yours wasn't as sad
2007-07-11 06:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by PrinceO'Persia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah and it broke my heart he only used to see me when he felt like it like 1 day a week on a Sunday that happened about 3 time and then it drifted to about every 3 weeks a was so confused he said he would take the piss out of me any more after months of this i just asked him straight he said he liked me but didn't no what to do so a just told him am not waiting around for when you decided when you wont to see me. i am still wonting him so much now and heart broken but its time to move on
2007-07-11 05:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep! There are a lot of frogs out there who won't turn into a princess no matter how many times you kiss her.
2007-07-11 05:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went out with a guy once and we had a lovely date and then he just stopped talking to me for no reason out of the blue
2007-07-11 05:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by SweetV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah in middle school was suppose go date this girl just so happens where we went so did her boyfriend that night that i didn't know she had, didn't work out so well
2007-07-11 05:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think that's called dating.
2007-07-11 05:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mystickjen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think when it happen to me that was a sign letting me know it was not meant to be.
2007-07-11 05:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes--it happens.There are no guarantees in life. Hey--move on--the next one may work.....if not try again--that's life
2007-07-11 05:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋