My friendship ended with this girl. She told me to leave her alone and not to talk to her again. But I have a feeling that she may give me another chance one day. B'cuz she told my aunt that she may accept me back sometime down the line(although that was about 3wks ago), she also told me how she missed the old me. I have a feeling if I change and be a better person she will let me back in her life. I don't want it to be over...so I was going to try my best to rebuild this relationship by doing little small things to win her back. So even though she told me to leave her alone I was gonna start by doing something simple like wishing her a happy birthday, should I? And if I do would it better to just call and wish her happy b'day or send her an ecard? Another dilema is I don't know if her b'day is on the 2nd or 3rd and she isn't talkin to me and my aunt is through talkin to her so I can't find out.
2007-07-11 05:46:24 · 6 answers · asked by ms.l_thoms 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why are you putting yourself through this? There are plenty of girls who will value a nice person such as yourself. Let it go and then go on with your life.
2007-07-11 05:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both adults and should respect each other as such. It sounds like you did something to deserve being tossed out of a friendship. There are two different approaches to this issue, dependent on all the facts and the two people in the friendship.
1 - If you did something wrong, think about what it was and why you did it and how you can improve yourself. In time she may accept you back as a friend, but either way you'll
be a better person, OR
2 - If you did nothing wrong, and she said to leave her alone, then leave her alone. It's not truly a friendship if it isn't among equals. Leave her alone, when you see her next and she seems receptive, tell her 'happy belated birthday.' Why would you want to be a subservient friend?
2007-07-11 05:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by Maya's Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you should give her time heal and try to sort things out because i was in a similar situation when i broke up with my boyfriend and i told him to leave me alone but i didn't really mean that i just needed time to heal
2007-07-11 05:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love will always find its way... if u still care for her then call he anyway and tell her happy birthday, even if u didnt say it on the right day.. the thought is wat counts more. If u think she may give u another chance then jus follow ur heart, and eventually u'll get it right... Good luck and God Bless!! ^_^
2007-07-11 05:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by M&M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her mom she'll know her b'day. I'd leave her alone and change, and show her then that you've changed. Good luck.
2007-07-11 05:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by sweet heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you obsessing or what?
Don't want anyone who doesn't want you.
Why?
Because they'll want you for all the wrong reasons.
2007-07-11 05:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋