i have a boyfriend who is a sweetheart and i love him but than there is one of my good friends who i am totally attracted to phyically and personality wise.....they are both great guys and i dont know which one to follow....i really need some advise on this one!!!!
2007-07-11 05:40:04 · 8 answers · asked by MIC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my boyfriend treats me like a girl should be treated (great personality)....and my friend likes me but hasnt treated me any different than when i didnt have a boyfriend.....
2007-07-11 05:50:34 · update #1
Stick with a known quantity. You know your boyfriend and there won't be any surprises. Furthermore, he's a nice guy.
2007-07-11 06:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men start to get fat, they lose hair, admit their frailties, etc. Does Mr,. handsome think he's going to be a knockout all his life?
really, you love someone already so work on making the romance better, Read Kama Sutra books, etc. Learn how to feel more now with your BF.
Sex is really overplayed. After all, how long does an orgasm last in total in a lifetime all added up? ...two weeks, that's all. So if you spend a lifetime with someone, sex is to reproduce, and little else in the big scheme of things.
Infatuations do not have to be followed up with. They are nature's way of reproduction, and have nothing to do with love.
Keep your boyfriend and start being wonderful to him, and you'll see more of his wondrous qualities.
2007-07-11 05:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that if you like this other guy aswell as your current guy i think you should try a couple of dates with the other guy.
going out is a better way to determine whos better for you. first impressions or casual outings might not really show the real him.
you never know perhaps the other guy really is loving but is too shy to show it or doesnt want to appear too keen.. some people do this because they have bad past relationships and dont want to be clingy incase they lose another bf/gf.
besides i will tell you my recent story, me and this girl were flirting like crazy and i decided to play hard to get (well sorta) and she ended up dumping this guy for me.
she doesnt like this guy physically but does personality..
and our first date this weekend infact but it got cancelled..
but then she went back to the ex because hes a nicer guy and misses him and he is also clingy.. its not that im not nice.. but really i didnt show enough and didnt reply quick enough to her msgs.
now usually im very caring but i hold my feelings back now and im a busy guy and shes probably thinking right now... who do i choose.. the guy who is always busy and never replies quickly or the guy i know well but dont like his physical looks.
good luck with choosing the right one :)
ps: i acted the same person even when this girl was single for a few days.. all i did was text her more and she texted back.
now shes back with him texting is non existant :(
2007-07-12 02:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do they both treat you right? Has your friend been trying to treat you differently since you got a boyfriend (in hopes of getting you to date him)? Also, are you attracted to your boyfriend when it comes to personality? Think about that as well. Plus, it doesn't hurt to think about who is more responsible.
2007-07-11 05:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by Karen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think u should listen to yr heart go with the guy who cares more 4 u .one simple thing u can do is to give them same type of task to do 4 u and see the result.
2007-07-11 05:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by tom c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This situation is all that is necessary for a disaster.At this point use brains instead of hormones!
2007-07-11 05:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
follow ur heart!!!
dats the best advice i can give u !!!!
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2007-07-11 09:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL DR.PHIL!!!!!!!
2007-07-11 06:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋