me and my ex broke up a little over a month ago. we are both 24 years old, and we were living together at the time. Out break up went bad and for a short period of time we grew to hating eachother based on one anothers actions during the break up. She ended up seeing another guy shortly after we split, but now is no longer seeing him anymore. We have, in the past couple weeks began talking again, and as of last weekend we have hung out a couple times. We went to dinner and a movie last sunday, just as friends, but i know that she still cares for me and loves me. I can see it in her eyes. Plus she told me. But she says that she is at a confused state in her life where she doesnt know what she wants. I do love her with all my heart. I just need help. I need to know if there may ever be a chance of us rekindeling our love life with one another, and how should I go about trying to win her back in my arms.
2007-07-11 02:52:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
play him in dominoes
2007-07-11 02:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by JonathanS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound corney but if its meant to be it will happen. And if not it wont. I do know its very hard to re connect with someone if there was a lot of bad things said. Sometimes those things come right back once the honeymoon period is over again. Dont repeat the same mistakes or you will end up right back where you were. Good luck
2007-07-11 02:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up for a reason. Give yourself longer than a month to figure out who you are without her and what it is you really want out of a relationship so if you do actually have the conversation you can answer honestly and tell her where your relationship was lacking. Go out on dates and with friends to keep busy and find new interests.
2007-07-11 03:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by mylifeasitisnow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go. Someone better will come along. Don't get involved with a person who is not 100%. You could lose a friend and someone you love. If she is into you she will come around. She is seeing other people I would advise you to start looking to. Life is to short to get hung up on a lady who is not that into you.
2007-07-11 03:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by ARM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't try and force anything on her! When a woman says she doesn't know what she wants, the best thing you can do is to just be there for her and hopefully she'll come to see that you're the caring, understanding kind of man that she wants.
Forcing yourself on her will just push her away..
so, uh.. good luck!
2007-07-11 02:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone! Be patient, if she wants you back she will let you know. She probably just needs a little time alone. It seems to me that she still loves you dearly.
I hope everything works out between the both of you.
2007-07-11 03:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by love_dont_judge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you pressure this girl into taking you back, she might end up resenting you.
i think that the two of you might consider talking about your relationship, and what each of you want right now.
perhaps she doesn't trust you anymore (because of the arguing, or the reason for the arguing).
give her time and space. it will work itself out if it's meant to be.
i wish you all the best!
2007-07-11 02:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you have to relise you broke up for a reason
not just the nice side of things.
there was someone in my life years ago like that, recently she got back in touch with me, due to how she is made me look at things through not so rose tinted glasses
2007-07-11 02:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by junglejungle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is in a confused state, then maybe you should let her think through things alone. You could spen more time with he r and then she'll realize that she loves you and stuff. Thats what i think.
2007-07-11 02:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone that isn't sure what she wants? Be true to yourself. Think about if it's fear that is making you want her back or if you truly love her. Good luck.
2007-07-11 02:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by to_sassy4_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋