Family & Relationships - 24 June 2007

...but they are not willing to put in what it takes to MAKE a relationship???!!
I think they should go for casual sex.... but they say they 'want more than that'

2007-06-24 04:10:42 · 13 answers · asked by chandra 6 in Singles & Dating

it freaks me out a little bit but shes a nice enough person so it doesnt really matter that much.

2007-06-24 04:08:14 · 18 answers · asked by jamiecoxy79 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-24 04:06:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Weve been together for 3.5 years and have a daughter together. Weve broken up twice in the past 6 months because of HER cheating and lying. She cried her eyes out and I came back again for the third time. She has assured me she wants to be with me and that it took her this time to realize that...but regardless Im still paranoid and worried that it will happen again. She doesnt act very happy with us all the time and gets annoyed by me asking soo many questions and being paranoid. I never used to be like this...but since shes cheated and stuff Im very worried but i love her soo much and want badly for things to work out. Ive told her that if she thinks shes going to so it again or if she isnt happy to just tell me so we can save ourselves the trouble of being hurt again and wasting our time. She said this is what she wants and she is happy but actions speak louder than words.

2007-06-24 04:04:05 · 18 answers · asked by tome615 2 in Singles & Dating

he always looks in my phone to see my text messages and who calls me and I would freely give him my phone to do that but his phone has a unlock code and I am not able to go through it .Should I be worried or not that he is cheating?

2007-06-24 04:03:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-24 04:03:04 · 21 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 28 year old, happily married mother of one. Here's my problem....I can't get enough sex. I'm not obsessed to the point where I think of cheating on my husband or anything like that. I just can't seem to satify my sexual appetitie. We have sex 2-3 times per week, but it's just not enough. I've had men break up with me in the past simply because they couldn't keep up with my sexual needs. My husband loved it at first...he looked at the situation as a challenge. For the first 6 months of our marriage, he had no problem keeping up with me. After that, he needed days to recoup and I would get angry because I felt that he knew what he was getting into. We went to counseling and the counselor said that there was nothing wrong with either one of us and that we just needed to a compromise when it comes to sex. Here we are three years later and I'm still not getting what I need. A friend of mine suggested that we become swingers, but we've always been monogamous. Any advice?

2007-06-24 04:01:40 · 20 answers · asked by faith_in_justice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Actually i am in search of online friends.

2007-06-24 04:01:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

me and my ex split up 5 months ago and he is with a 19 year old girl .
i hurt me at first cause i spent 10 years with this man and he left us 4 a child
now its at the point were i just want him 2 be a dad 2 his kids
and he sould of picked them up yesturday so i could go 2 work so i can still pay the morgage that he as left me with and wont give me any money for my childrens upkeep
and rang me just before i was going 2 work and said i cant have them 2 day sorry
i was angry y did he call sooner so i could get myself an babysitter i got angry and called my sister and she told me that he was in the house with all her friends an her and that he really wernt working i lost it and went around there in the car and smashed his girlfriends car window as he doesnt see his kids no more cause he is only interseted in her and partying /his mum is away on holiday/ so he has all young girls in there. am i going mad should i just finally get away from him as when i was with him he made me sad

2007-06-24 04:01:19 · 11 answers · asked by HAYLEY K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

these are 2 poems i wrote a bit ago for my fiance. I am leaving him bcuz he does drugs way too much and i cant handle him anymore. I need help, which poem is best for him to read after i go?

HATE:
i hate that you changed
i hate that ur still the same
i hate that you left
i hate that you stayed.
i hate how i cry
i hate how you make me smile.
i hate how i miss you
i hate how i feel.
i hate how it hurts
i hate that its my fault
i hate that its urs.
i hate that i cant be around you
i hate that i lost you
i hate how i found out who you really are.
i hate how i cant tell you any of this.
but most of all,
i hate how i cant hate you
not even a little
i hate how i still love you.

GOODBYE:
i dont really want to say goodbye
i dont really want to leave you
but i have to go away
i have to stay far away from you forever.
what we had was something special
deep down in our hearts
but now its time for me to go away
and leave you from my heart.

2007-06-24 04:00:42 · 21 answers · asked by Littyah-Love 2 in Singles & Dating

Its been a month since my breakup. We made a clean break and have had no contact. All my friends say that the best way to get over a heartache is to get under another man. Ha ha.. Thats so not me. They all say that as soon as I sleep with someone else I will forget about him. I don't wanna just sleep with someone but I would like to date again. I just dunno if I am ready?

2007-06-24 03:59:22 · 14 answers · asked by Allsad 1 in Singles & Dating

We are registering at Target and Bed, Bath and Beyond. We have two very diferent senses of style. How can we make this work?

2007-06-24 03:59:03 · 15 answers · asked by funnyhaha 2 in Weddings

After you said something, she only wrote, "I see..."

Does it mean bad?

Okay, that is what sometimes this friend of mine wrote after I said something in my text like, "I have just read this book by Paulo Coelho.. It's quite nice.." or "I have just visited Lurlene McDaniel's website.. She got lot of books.."

Sometimes though, she would ask another question, like yesterday she asked about the Silver Surfer in F4 and Ratatouille, or Eldest, and other instances she would in turn ask me what books I have read.

The 'I see..." thing, does it 100% mean she's not interested?

What should I do?

2007-06-24 03:56:16 · 8 answers · asked by En Route 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-24 03:55:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

lol this sounds like a really dumb question i know but hear me out! one of my best friends has this white bf and we hang out a lot. hes awesome and hilarious.....she wont let him touch her hair though because you know...black hair is different i guess..whatever. so we flirt a lot but its like playful and stupid and he knows im really lax with my hair..(ive dated white guys my whole life so) and its not really a big deal but hes ALWAYS touching my hair..and not like tapping it - like running his fingers through it and all that mess..i guess its funny but sometimes im just like "no ***** stop!" and we laugh about it anyway...just curious: are white guys like fascinated with black hair? im guessing hes just doing it because shes kind of uptight about it..i dunno...

2007-06-24 03:54:22 · 15 answers · asked by Gone, Gone, Gone. 4 in Singles & Dating

Who should take the lead role in a home? the Husband or the Wife?

2007-06-24 03:53:44 · 15 answers · asked by Kiwigal247 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I supposed to be seeing a guy but he is only out for one thing. He phoned me at 4 o'clock yesterday afternoon and I was at my parents so I'd left my phone upstairs. I him back as I missed that call. He text me back asking if I was sleeping at my parents or if I'd come visit him and sleep there. As I have to clean the room out for my sis anyway as I have officially got a place of my own I decided to stop at my moms. Besides He would only be getting what he wanted when he wanted if I said yes. He knows I want a relationship and I've tried asking him where I stand. he tries to bypass the question. It feels like one big game as we dont really text and call each other that often. Im trying to play hard to get. but he seems only intrested in one thing.

Come on now guys You ain't all after one thing are you? I had A use me for money, sex,and space. Where is mr suite me.

2007-06-24 03:52:08 · 26 answers · asked by Hybrid 2 in Singles & Dating

trying to locate relative of Gary Page of CA,bay area ,born 2/2/64 to 10/8/2004
we love you

2007-06-24 03:44:12 · 4 answers · asked by shandiandevan@hotmail.com 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-24 03:43:36 · 32 answers · asked by adodge0430 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-24 03:37:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I speak to my husband about our problems and refer to a confersation I had with my friend about my problem, he get s really angry with me and asks me, how can she(my friend) help and give advise, look what her relationship is like. Is he right? I like helping people, but my life is a mess. Does that make sense?

2007-06-24 03:35:47 · 7 answers · asked by Ella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I legally set child support in the Dominican Republic with my Ex- wife, now she lives in the US. Can she request child support from the city she is now simultaneously?

2007-06-24 03:32:14 · 8 answers · asked by lpelaez 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i got pregnant last july, baby is 3 months old now, my husband has not been intrested in sex for around 11 months, i was not bothered at first with being tied etc with having the new baby now baby nearly sleeping through so im not as tied i want my sex life back i have taked to my hubby he says nothing is wrong he still loves me he feels ok as it is ???? also i have 2 teenage sons which makes it even harder to get my sex life on track you know that one oh no mum & dad dont do that anymore im getting really un happy about this any ideas out there for me.

2007-06-24 03:31:01 · 25 answers · asked by HEATHER L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My most beautiful baby daughter, now grown, breaks my heart and I let her. A complete stranger, treats me with more respect. I lose respect and all dignaty for myself, and I feel her hatred. Later, when I am back in my own element, it's still hard to shake off. I try to forget about it. I know she already has.

2007-06-24 03:29:45 · 2 answers · asked by Gayla C 2 in Family

2007-06-24 03:28:16 · 5 answers · asked by goodness 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There's a girl at work that approaches me everytime she sees me and I pretty much blow her off everytime. She has a boyfriend, so i think she is only seeking me out for friendship, however Im not looking for her friendship so I try my best to avoid her. She's hot and taken so I don't really care to be her friend. Not becuz i'm a jerk but becuz I don't want to fall in love with a girl I can't have.

Finally I thought she got the hint the other day but then today she approached me to say hi to me. I just said what's up without looking at her and left it at that. Instead of ignoring her, should I just give in and be her friend?

2007-06-24 03:26:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for over 8 months. We dated for 5 months and ran away. It was impulsive but we were in love. I am a Christian and thought he was too. I have found in the months to follow our vows that he is not the person I thought he was. I saw him with so much potential, someone who would always be there for me, be my best friend. Since that misjudgment, he has hurt me physically, emotionally, spirtually and my heart is heavier than I thought could be possible. I've tried marriage counseling, he wont go. I've tried being patient and hearing him out but all I hear is how he doesn't care anymore. I've tried being quiet and he pushes me aside unless he wants something. He calls me names and says I deserve it because I anger him. He doesn't go to church anymore, he doesn't look me in the eye either. I want to just leave, flee from my suffering, but I want to stick with my vows as a Christian. Would my heavenly Father want me to stay and cont. to disappear or to free me

2007-06-24 03:24:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am from Iraq, and I want to know what u fell about this country?.
I been wondering why the world dosen't do any thing to stop what is happening in Iraq?

2007-06-24 03:22:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She's very confortable with that, but im not, she has a very nice body, and i would like to be the only one to see it...am i being selfish??! I love her, i don't wan't her to be around naked to other guys....it's not right for other guys to see her sweet body....it's just not right

2007-06-24 03:21:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 19 years old i have been kicked out so i live on my own i can't pay my bills and i just feel truely hopeless i can't see how this is going to get better hell i didn't even get to go to college bc i was kicked out beforehand and i couldn't get the money to go because of this what is the point of livin i can't see it anymore i simply dont want to be here

2007-06-24 03:21:09 · 39 answers · asked by Amanda M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships