Is she not interested?

Question

After you said something, she only wrote, "I see..."

Does it mean bad?

Okay, that is what sometimes this friend of mine wrote after I said something in my text like, "I have just read this book by Paulo Coelho.. It's quite nice.." or "I have just visited Lurlene McDaniel's website.. She got lot of books.."

Sometimes though, she would ask another question, like yesterday she asked about the Silver Surfer in F4 and Ratatouille, or Eldest, and other instances she would in turn ask me what books I have read.

The 'I see..." thing, does it 100% mean she's not interested?

What should I do?

Answer 1

It's so hard to read people over the Internet!!! "I see" could be taken so many ways, I'm sure you'll see that the more people answer this question of yours. Talking to her on the phone would even be better than the Internet....try not to have too many deep conversations on instant messenger...you can take things wrong things easily.

Answer 2

If you tell her what books you've read, and then she changes the subject and comes back to ask you what books you've read, that seems to me to be a sign that she isn't paying attention. Sometimes people get bored listening to what other people find fascinating, but if she liked you I think she would make a valiant effort to pay attention. Just keep talking to her and see where it goes, and also keep an eye out for opportunities to chat up other girls. The reason: it's better to be talking to someone who has attention problems than no one at all, but you should not ignore potentially better prospects since she appears to have low interest. Good luck!

Answer 3

It means you bore her {LOL} ( don't want to sound harsh but by now you sould of caught on, especially after she droped you hints on her intrest) ok heres what to do talk about the movies or books that became good movies or movies that became good book how the differe ( eg sence that were taken out of added) and watch the difference. And another tip if you talk to someone try being in person so you can read body language or altease on the phone so you can pic up on breathing patterns. Good luck

Answer 4

It can be. she isn't interested. but I think, just like Amanda wrote, it isn't easy to understand people only by internet. Body language and expration can help u than. But, U can check it out from the next topic you are talking about. If she doesn't give any attantion to you topic, well.... It can be she doesn't understand what you wrote or can be she was bored or can be she doesn't interested at all.
So, don't think to deep. Just try to keep in touch with her

Answer 5

usually when someone says i see. they just dont know what to say to it. so u must give more detailes about the subject and ask what they think. if there r no questions asked then there will prolly be no real anwser. u made a statement and not an opinion.

Answer 6

are you guys dating over the internet? Honestly, it doesn't work. Get over her.

And the reason you said was that you weren't interesting enough even over the internet. To make it worse, internet interactions have no physical connection what so ever which is somethign that you MUST have.

Answer 7

there is a chance that she is not interested, but also a high probability that she is only not interested in the topic of text. maybe she feels like your texting too much? i don't really know anything your relationship, but try texting her less often about something you know she'll be interested in. good luck.

Answer 8

I don't think she is interested. If she was interested I believe she would add a little more than I see.