There's a girl at work that approaches me everytime she sees me and I pretty much blow her off everytime. She has a boyfriend, so i think she is only seeking me out for friendship, however Im not looking for her friendship so I try my best to avoid her. She's hot and taken so I don't really care to be her friend. Not becuz i'm a jerk but becuz I don't want to fall in love with a girl I can't have.
Finally I thought she got the hint the other day but then today she approached me to say hi to me. I just said what's up without looking at her and left it at that. Instead of ignoring her, should I just give in and be her friend?
2007-06-24 03:26:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her out for dinner see if you can ether get some or you scare her off. no more problem.
2007-06-24 03:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by tony cola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you and she can't keep away from you
she either just wants to have that kind of control over you because she knows you got it bad for her and she wants to use you as a play toy or she just just wants an affair
or she likes you and she'd dump her boyfriend in a second if she thought she stood a chance with you
you should approach her when she's alone, come up behind her, softly but firmly grab hold of her arm, pulling her gently towards you as you wisper in her ear, "what is it you really want" and then walk away.
if that doesn't totally freak her out she'll let you know exactly what your next move should be
2007-06-24 03:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Squeak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well bud the way i see it is if she approaching u everyday she not getting the communication that that she desires from her man. so maybe u should just try to be her friend and see what happens. you never know, she may reallize that your make her feel warmer inside like she hoped her man now would. give it a shot but dont be a jerk about it. what do u have to lose . even friends are good.
2007-06-24 03:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by donkey_depressed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as you work together there is no harm in talking.then at least if she breaks up with this guy you already have a friendship.as you work together its not very professional to ignore someone,and makes for a nicer environment
2007-06-24 03:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by scorpio_queen_2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i would say be her friend!! She probably just lookin for someone to chat to and have a laugh and if i was you i would just be glad its u she would like to have as her friend so u must be doing something right!!
2007-06-24 03:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you not do women as friends (freak) and what makes you think you'll fall in love from speaking to her
carefull you might catch an STD from talking to her
2007-06-24 03:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by Snot Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight up what you think. She will either be into you or leave you alone...
2007-06-24 03:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by Robb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never have too many friends.
2007-06-24 03:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. nothing but trouble can come of it. I am sure she has plenty of friends...
2007-06-24 03:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should throw the towel around he neck
2007-06-24 03:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋