2007-06-24 03:55:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most people will tell you no. I say in a way, yes.
You are human. There are 6 billion plus people on this planet. To think that if you are married you will never develop feelings for another person for as long as you live . . . that's very naive.
If people go into marriages recognizing that this could happen, they would be better equipped to deal with it when it comes around. The communication would be more open. And there would be understanding.
Plus, there is nothing wrong with developing feelings for someone else. The problem comes when you act on it. Instead, communicate with your spouse and work through the feelings. Avoid temptation by avoiding the other person, and give yourself credit for being human.
Good luck to you. :)
2007-06-24 04:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because in order to fall in love. There must be some sort of relationship. Like talking communicating. If this happened the married person let it happen. By not avoiding that person. When they knew there was some sort of attraction. Even if there hasn't been sex between them. The married one was emotionally cheating.
2007-06-24 11:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chnces are youre more in love with the idea of falling in love again than actually loving this guy. If your marriage is dulland boring then the thought of falling in love with all its fun and games and excitement is luring to you. Dont let a moment of excitement ruin what you haveand regrets for the rest of your life. Remember, its not having what you want, but wanting what you have. Please think about it
2007-06-24 11:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're unhappy in your marriage yes you are available to fall in love with someone else. Not sure it's a healthy love though. It's something to fill in the emptiness you're experimenting at home. Those relationships do not last.
2007-06-24 10:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't normal,... But... It does happen. Make sure its love and not just seeking attention. Sometimes when we marry we forget to communicate and show our significant other the attention they deserve.
You don't know what you got until it's gone so be careful.
2007-06-24 11:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a fine line between love and lust and most people are confused with this. What your feeling for someone other than your partner right now is probably lust. Once the lust dies so does the feelings.
2007-06-24 10:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Genivieve G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way that could happen, is if you do not love your spouse! You cannot love two people at once. TRUE LOVE. You probably don't love either, because you obviously do not know what true love is.
2007-06-24 11:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're married and you think you're in love with someone else, its usually called adultery. What happened to commitment? try falling in love again with your (their) husband or wife.
2007-06-24 11:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by ho47kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no personal ethics, and are a cold-blooded reptile who serves herself first and the rest of humanity be damned, then yes, it's perfectly normal.
Why?
2007-06-24 11:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by salacious_crumb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, its normal to fall in love with anyone, even if you're married... as long as you don't go with the temptation of having sex with dat someone you fell in love with.. remember, no sex, no flirting, nothing provocative..:)
2007-06-24 11:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by ayan! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋