Family & Relationships - 24 June 2007

hurting ur girl and beating her and making her cry? and being cruelly rough with her?

2007-06-24 07:15:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few nights ago, I attended a leaving do for a guy I know really well. He was drunk and suggested we all go to a lap-dancing club. I was pretty drunk too and all of us (7 in all) decided to go.
While there, I had two lap-dances, one in private. It was a contact lap-dance, in that she was allowed to touch me but this only involved gyrating and dancing on my lap. For neither lap-dance, was I in any way turned on.
However, in the private lap-dance, to my eternal shame, there was minimal touching of her on my part. Once that lap-dance was over and I handed her the money, I immediately had a sick feeling in my stomach. We left the club and I was re-assured by one other guy that it wasn't cheating and that he was going to ring his girlfriend the next day and they would laugh about it.
I'm with the girl for 4 months and am absolutely infatuated/in love with her. If I tell her, I fear she should break up with me.I vow never to go again.Should I just put it down to experience or tell her?

2007-06-24 07:14:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi!
Everytime I want to play with my baby brother or make him laugh, he keeps on saying 'Go Away'. He doesn't say that to my other brother, he just says it to me. What Can I do??

2007-06-24 07:12:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This guy really states that he loves me. I know him since i was in High school. How can i be sure that he does mean that he loves me when we are separated by thousands of miles.

Are guys trustworthy when it comes to long distance relations?

2007-06-24 07:10:44 · 11 answers · asked by Kiran urf msa sis 2 in Singles & Dating

every time something good happens to me, or i get the perfect guy, my friends always hate on me, and i hate that, so what do i do???????????

2007-06-24 07:10:16 · 6 answers · asked by smileforever14 1 in Friends

i know someone who is 36.... how bad do you think that is?

2007-06-24 07:07:28 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad he gets scared if i go to my neighbors house, he won't let me sleep over at my best friends house not even with my neighbor!! he doesn't let me go to Monterrey with my aunts that they will take care of me. when my mom and i want to go to the store he says no just go when you need something. every night he checks windows and doors for like 8 minutes. when we are cooking something in the oven he gets scared what's wrong with him shoul he go to a dctor??

2007-06-24 07:05:48 · 7 answers · asked by Any 1 in Family

2007-06-24 07:05:37 · 12 answers · asked by susan w 1 in Weddings

she's my first cousin and she looks hot. is it wrong?

2007-06-24 07:04:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-24 07:03:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ummm

my older brother hates my little sister alot

he threatened to throw a knife at her while she kept annoying him or something...

and he says that he wouldnt care if parents figured out...

Stuff about my bro:
-he got expelled from his school for threatening to shank some dude
-he bullies my little sis like 5 or 7 times a day
-whenever my sister is getting entertained by technology (like tv's or computer), my bro would turn the stuff that entertains her off
-he always gets pissed off and locks himself up in his bedroom for a few days whenever my parents yell at him about his GPA ad stuff like that


does he really have the guts to kill my little sis?

2007-06-24 07:02:23 · 16 answers · asked by neiner 2 in Family

my 6 year old grandchild told me her new stepfather yells at her all the time and he put her in time out and she said he was so close to her she couldnt breath he had her up against the wall and sat on her legs so she couldnt move. she said she said "help me mommy, help me" and she said her mommy sat there and didnt do anything. I am scared for her would you be and what would you do? thanks

2007-06-24 06:59:34 · 14 answers · asked by sargc01 1 in Family

the rest of the family like complete and utter garbage? She has two daughters and treats one like she can do NO wrong and the other like she does everything wrong. She does everything with that daughter and leaves the other one out of things. Never invtes the other daughter over her house. She promised the same apartment to both daughters and guess who got it? The favorite one. She even treats our dad like an outsider and embraces that daughter's husband. God forbid if I do anything without inviting the favorite daughter it is WW3. I don't understand I have not done anything wrong, am graduating from graduate school, married, and am adored by everyone except for my mother. She is mean hearted toward me and knocks everything, I have done, doing or did.

2007-06-24 06:57:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we've been together for 5 years and love eachother very much. we've had sex where we just go at it a ton, but we've never 'made love'. i've tried to explain what it is to me. that it focuses on emotions and foreplay rather than just going at it like animals until you get off. he's tried once, but after 10 minutes of foreplay we started having intercourse and he immediately started going really fast like we always do and i tried to explain but just got mad and it ruined the mood.. how do i explain it to him?? or should i be trying something different...he just bought me a promise ring and tells me he loves me all the time. and hes 20 so shouldn't he understand what i want??

2007-06-24 06:54:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-24 06:52:49 · 3 answers · asked by talatyaseen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this problem w/men. (I hope this doesn't sound egotistical, I don't mean it that way.) I get along better w/men than women but guys always want to take it to a sexual level & I don't. What is a *nice*, polite way to tell them that up front so the boundaries are set & hopefully they won't push me & they don't get their feelings hurt? Because I really like hanging out w/guys as friends!

2007-06-24 06:52:31 · 17 answers · asked by moonsinger333 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-24 06:52:27 · 28 answers · asked by kellitwigg 1 in Marriage & Divorce

- which color combination of skin/hair do you like the best on a caucasion girl with blue eyes?

#1 Dirty Blonde/Tan Skin http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=h...

#2 Dark Hair/fair skin http://www.exposay.com/celebrity-photos/...

#3 blonde hair/fair skin http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y218/hy...

only pay attention to skin/hair and NOT the actress or any other features

- curly wavy or straight?

- Why do you like that combo - makes u think of someone who is _____. (example "outgoing")

2007-06-24 06:50:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i called him so many times yesterday
& he didn`t pick up =[
i think he`s mad at me
what should i do?! keep calling?!

2007-06-24 06:48:30 · 16 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Singles & Dating

O.K, I really need some advice here. I have been happily married for 4 years. The other day while I was washing the dishes, my husband left his cell phone on the counter and it started ringing. I answered and it was some guy, I asked him for his name and if he wanted to leave a message. He told me his name was Andrew and then he just hung up. I really didn't think it was a big deal. That night I asked my husband who Andrew was and he told me an old coworker. I really didn't think anything about it and then he took the phone and ran upstairs. The following day, he came home from work really late, which he hasn't done in about 3 years. I asked him where he was and he couldn't answer me because he was stone cold drunk. Then a couple nights later he came home and then immediately brushed his teeth and took a shower when he got home. His clothes also smelled like man's cologne thats not his. What should I do, because I am very scared that he is cheating on me?

2007-06-24 06:48:26 · 35 answers · asked by Cara J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

idk jus want a aswer

2007-06-24 06:47:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I knew these kids and one of them was my best friend, i still know their perants. Just read the story and tell me what you think about it.

http://www.ddreform.org/articles/Towery53.html

2007-06-24 06:47:19 · 9 answers · asked by Codyluvr1017 2 in Friends

Ok, So I know this I am totally stupid for this... but I was hoping some Yahoo! users would have some advice for me to get over my fiancé’s ex-wife. Here is the whole story: We dated 7 years ago it was wonderful but due to me being young and un-experienced I didn't recognize the incredible thing I had (until I saw what else was out there). During our time apart he married someone else. He has been in the army the past five years and although had been with her for years, he really only spent a few months total with his ex-wife before he realized it wasn't working. He divorced her and a few months later told me he had always had feelings for me and since I felt the same, I thought everything would be perfect. So why isn't it! What is wrong with me? Why do I obsess over her so much? Why do I think about her when we are happy and together? Or whether they shared the same experience? I am really desperate please help I don't want this to go on. I have gone to couseling for a yr. no help :(

2007-06-24 06:45:56 · 27 answers · asked by Kimmy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like the idea of a New Years Eve Wedding. What do others think?

I am nervous that some people won't come. b/c they might have other plans. However, if we send Save the Date cards, than perhaps we will be their only plans. I mean, I think attending a wedding on New Years Eve would be fun. You can't beat free food and open bar...hahaha.

What do people think? If you were invited to a New Years Eve Wedding, would you attend. Why or Why Not?

2007-06-24 06:44:55 · 37 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings

I'm pretty sure the baby is mine, but my neighbor is so happy his wife is having "his" baby. She doesn't want to tell him it's not his, because it would expose our ongoing affair. One other problem is she and her husband are white, and I am black. Should I just keep my mouth shut and move away?

2007-06-24 06:44:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i live beside my dad and two of my brothers live with him. they are constantly at my house, i can't een come in the house without them being right behind me. they are grown men who don't work for differnet reasons. one brother comes over 10 times a day. i work 40 hrs. a week and sometimes i don't feel like company. if i say anything whether it be in a nice way or not they would get very angry and then i feel really quilty. what to do? other than move, i can't afford it.

2007-06-24 06:41:55 · 5 answers · asked by sue dean 3 in Family

i looked at them, and they looked at me and then one of them looked at her friend and pointed towards me with her eyes and then smiled in a giggly kinda way. I'm pretty sure its a good thing, but just wanted to make sure. If one were to act on a situation like that, how would one approach the girlies? thanks

2007-06-24 06:39:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My guy and I have been together 7+ years and we're thinking of getting married next year. Since weve already been together so long, we don't want a huge obnoxious wedding, just something fun and laid back for friends and family.

I thought 7/4/08 would be a good date because:
It's holiday most people have it off
It's a Friday so there'd be plenty of recovery time before most guests would have to be at work, and they wouldn't have to rush home right away.
It seems like a holiday people would like to get together on anyway.

My mom seems to think this is a terrible idea because:
Traffic will be busy
People might already have plans.

I understand people might do the same thing every year and make plans in advance for the 4th, but all I genuinely want is to treat my friends and family to a nice evening. If they can't make it, I'm not going to be upset. Of course I would love for everybody to be there.

So, if you were invited to a 7/4 wedding what would you think?

2007-06-24 06:38:09 · 24 answers · asked by Merbet 2 in Weddings

I am 23, live and share a child w/ my boyfriend whom I've been with off and on for 4 years. I currently stay at home w/ my daughter. I MOVED TO TEXAS TO BE WITH HIM. I USE TO BE SO INLOVE W/ HIM. AND NOW IT FEELS LIKE I'M PUNCHING A TIME CLOCK JUST TO HAVE INTAMACY WITH HIM. I MISS MY HOME TOWN AND FRIENDS. I THINK ABOUT MY EX'S AND WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN. I LOVE MY B/F BUT I DON'T BELIEVE I'M IN LOVE W/ HIM ANYMORE. MY MOM SAYS ITS A FAZE / i could be going through since i had my daughter but thats been a year and a half ago. i want to stay for my daughter and i love him and don't want to hurt him. but im not happy. i want to want him. i want the magic back in my life. What do I do? go home and be with my family and friends, or is there away to get through this? Are we really ment to be together? I don't think its fair for my daughter either if mommy is unhappy all the time.

2007-06-24 06:36:27 · 7 answers · asked by Cynet8306 2 in Family

I am in a bit of a state. I recently found out that my best mate is now going out with my ex boyfriend. I have learnt to forgive my best mate even though I am still totally mad but I really cant stand being with her and her new boyfriend and they cant understand!! When my ex is on his own he plays mind games with me and texts me things like "sorry I don't know why I called.. maybe I just wanted to hear your voice" and "if you want to know what I want from you then I cant answer cuz i dont know myself". Do you think he may still have feelings for me? I really loved him and dont think I can get over him.. I keep convincing myself that I am over him and can live without him until he texts me messages like that??!!?? I want to put something as my msn screen name for him to get the picture bout how I feel???!!?? help! xxx

2007-06-24 06:36:00 · 2 answers · asked by lilharibo 2 in Singles & Dating