every time something good happens to me, or i get the perfect guy, my friends always hate on me, and i hate that, so what do i do???????????
2007-06-24 07:10:16 · 6 answers · asked by smileforever14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi Missy,
This has to do with your whole approach to relationships. They may indeed be jealous... and they probably are.
However, you should take a look at what you are attracting. You have built these relationships. You are creating them to a very large degree. Consider changing your outlook. Try seeing your friends as something better than jealous and petty. See them as honorable, loving FRIENDS who want the best for you.
When you start thinking this way, almost like magic, your friends will not appear as they do now.
Find the best in people in every moment.
2007-06-24 07:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by flip33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they r jus jealous and because they r not ur fren! they r jus passer-by in ur life. jus forget about them and lead ur own life. be happy wit wad u do.
cos true fren will be happy for u when u r happy.
feels bless for u when u get the perfect guy. even if its the guy they like true frens will jus gib blessing.
my suggestion: be happier than u r now! make them more jealous of u. jus let them hate all they wan. their life will be miserable whereas urs is happy. =)
2007-06-24 14:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by Bibi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st of all they arent acting like the friends they should be 2 u...jealousy is the stupidest thing ever..tell ur friends how stupid there acting..and if they still want 2 be friends with u than they need 2 stop.
2007-06-24 14:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by alisha_anne2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably rubbing it in their face and acting self-rituous.
Have some humility with people and they will share your good times with you. If you put all your successes in their face and act like a pompous *** and brag how great everything is for you..they will cheer your defeats.
2007-06-24 14:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by mrairtraffic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure they're jealous or are they just trying to help you out and tell you the truth about a guy and you just dont want to hear it?
2007-06-24 14:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by mike t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they dont sound like very good friends if you ask me. maybe you have a lot more than they do and when they see you get something better they cant stand it. just talk to them.
2007-06-24 14:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kay-Jay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋