the rest of the family like complete and utter garbage? She has two daughters and treats one like she can do NO wrong and the other like she does everything wrong. She does everything with that daughter and leaves the other one out of things. Never invtes the other daughter over her house. She promised the same apartment to both daughters and guess who got it? The favorite one. She even treats our dad like an outsider and embraces that daughter's husband. God forbid if I do anything without inviting the favorite daughter it is WW3. I don't understand I have not done anything wrong, am graduating from graduate school, married, and am adored by everyone except for my mother. She is mean hearted toward me and knocks everything, I have done, doing or did.
2007-06-24 06:57:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
While its hard to live your life when your mother doesn't love you, there is nothing you can do about her behavior. My advice is to distance yourself from her, keep up your relationship with your dad and get on with your life. Your family now consists of your husband and friends. When you have your children, makes sure that you change the cycle and love them equally and make sure that they know they are truly loved unconditionally. You can do it, I did.
While it won't make up for the love and nurturing of a mother, it will make you a better person to recognize how important those qualities are in the lives of children. Good luck.
2007-06-24 07:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cling to your husband. Don't let your mother steal your glory. I know it hurts, don't take the bait when she berates or belittles you. Smile (a fake a** smile) & move in another direction. Tell your Dad that you love him. Stop subjecting yourself to the punishment, forget going to family functions if you feel uncomfortable about the situation. Don't dwell on how your mother treats or mistreats you, it will make you insane worrying about it. You have a hubby let him know how much you appreciate him, he wouldn't be with you if he didn't care for & love you. Let go & let God handle your mother issue.
2007-06-24 14:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by havin fun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your just like me hon,ive always been right down the line where me parents are concerned,she has more time for other family members but me,but ive learnt to live with it,you sound as if you have got a pretty stable life done good things,so just get on with your life and leave your mother n sis too have their cosy little relationship,they will come running first,,,,good luck xxx
2007-06-24 14:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your distance, you don't need to be any more hurt than you all ready are. Like one of the other answerer's said, your family is now your husband, and you also have your friends as well. Keep up with Pops and make sure you don't recycle your mom's methods ok!
2007-06-24 14:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start inviting everyone to events except your mother. Tell your dad that you want her to see how mean and cruel she is to everyone. Or start inviting just your sister to sisterly outings like shopping. See if your mom gets it through her head that what she did was wrong.
2007-06-24 14:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem my bro gets everything and i get nothing.. i think is somrthing to do with ur first born i have no idea i hate going thought it...=[ it sux and i have like 30-40 more years of it im only 13........... =[
2007-06-24 14:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by alison :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋