I am 23, live and share a child w/ my boyfriend whom I've been with off and on for 4 years. I currently stay at home w/ my daughter. I MOVED TO TEXAS TO BE WITH HIM. I USE TO BE SO INLOVE W/ HIM. AND NOW IT FEELS LIKE I'M PUNCHING A TIME CLOCK JUST TO HAVE INTAMACY WITH HIM. I MISS MY HOME TOWN AND FRIENDS. I THINK ABOUT MY EX'S AND WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN. I LOVE MY B/F BUT I DON'T BELIEVE I'M IN LOVE W/ HIM ANYMORE. MY MOM SAYS ITS A FAZE / i could be going through since i had my daughter but thats been a year and a half ago. i want to stay for my daughter and i love him and don't want to hurt him. but im not happy. i want to want him. i want the magic back in my life. What do I do? go home and be with my family and friends, or is there away to get through this? Are we really ment to be together? I don't think its fair for my daughter either if mommy is unhappy all the time.
2007-06-24 06:36:27 · 7 answers · asked by Cynet8306 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're a relatively new and young mother, and your friends are out still having fun. You're missing what you don't have anymore. But you've got responsibilities to your child and your relationship. I agree with your mom, it's a faze.
2007-06-24 06:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem could be is that your boyfreind might feel left out because now you have a small child. If you are unhappy do what you feel is best for your child, your child has to come first. I am a 47 year old divorced man & I just moved from Ft.Lauderdale, Florida(which I Loved) to Long Island,NY where I,m originally from .because I missed my daughter so much. My daughter is 21 handicapped and she comes first before any woman.
2007-06-28 02:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by paul s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is best for your daughter to have both parents happy---if i were you and want things back to the way they used to be i would move back home and see if those old but great feelings for him come back--i would just tell him that i am unhappy where you are now and that you have to go home where you can be a good mother to your baby and if things come back together they were meant to be--the relationship might just be old and you are tired of being in it and that happens a lot--its not like you cant get back together with him if things get better and you miss him and want him back--you wouldn't even have to break up to just go home and sort out your feelings about him--you are young--he might not be the one that you want in your life for the rest of your life--the only way to find out is to be away from him for a period of time--then you will know if you went on without a lot of pain you probably don't need him in your life and if its very painful then you will know that you do want to be with him--and regardless of what happens he can still always be in the baby's life--hope this helps out a little and good luck!
2007-06-24 13:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by TWIN91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bc you have a child always remember that every decision you make has a consequence that the child will have to deal with as well. If the relationship is an unhappy 1 try to resolve it. If it's an abusive relationship, seek professional help & run like hell back home. There's no shame in trying to stay alive for your sake & that of your child.
2007-06-24 13:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by havin fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi There, You can ask God to help you out with this. He is there for you. God loves you so much. God bless you. Be brave. Good luck on it.
2007-06-24 13:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by I Love My Friends 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the answer below this one
2007-06-24 13:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lee H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever you think is right.. dont be afraid..
2007-06-24 13:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by snd_jeddah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋