I have this problem w/men. (I hope this doesn't sound egotistical, I don't mean it that way.) I get along better w/men than women but guys always want to take it to a sexual level & I don't. What is a *nice*, polite way to tell them that up front so the boundaries are set & hopefully they won't push me & they don't get their feelings hurt? Because I really like hanging out w/guys as friends!
2007-06-24 06:52:31 · 17 answers · asked by moonsinger333 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just say no thanks,its not like that.........
2007-06-24 06:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hum you are in a binder Moonsinger. You can always be straight forward for men that are straight up and ask for sex and tell them to back off and for the subtle one that slide in with small acts like putting there arms around u and placing the hands on your lower back to lead u through a door or any type of sexual or steady relationships acts. You will have to brush off or deflect most guys will pick up and stop and if they are stubborn then the straight up BACK OFF BEFORE I KNOCK YOUR TEETH OUT will do
2007-06-24 06:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by Someguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy friend you have is trying, has tried, or will try to sleep with you. Thats how we do,sugar pie. Try letting them down gently, or a swift kick to the balls. Talking about other men you want to have sex with will deffinetly turn the guys away...
2007-06-24 06:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by SomeRandomGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope they are not still kids? Tell everyone that you are not ready for sex. If they have ears, they will understand. But make sure you don't temp to dress up like kids too. You don't judge one-sided-only.
2007-06-24 07:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by Seph2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very easy. tell them it's against your principle to have sex before marriage. If they do not like your answer, they are not true friend and you could do better without them!
2007-06-24 06:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by johann_777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
(Mike makes cozy move or shows goo goo eyes)
"Yeaa-a--a, I'm just not sure when I would ever be interested in any kind of romantic relationship. Its just not for me right now. Ya know what I mean?"
(Mike straightens up, swallows, and nods)
"Oh jeez, I know what ya mean." (shakes head and laughs)
"Ya wanna play video games?"
"Sounds good!"
2007-06-24 07:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by flip33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you only have sex with a guy you are in a r/ship with because you are not a h0.
2007-06-24 06:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No easy way just tell them right from the start.
2007-06-24 06:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them up front that you only want a platonic relationship nothing more and that if they are looking for more they are barking up the wrong tree.
2007-06-24 06:58:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no, there is no need for you to explain yourself. express your unwillingness to have sex with them from the start then if they respected the friendship they would never ask it of you
2007-06-24 07:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tel them stright up NO! if they dont like u after screw them1 find real guy friends to hangout with and nothing more
2007-06-24 06:58:22 · answer #11 · answered by PERLLUMM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋