he always looks in my phone to see my text messages and who calls me and I would freely give him my phone to do that but his phone has a unlock code and I am not able to go through it .Should I be worried or not that he is cheating?
2007-06-24 04:03:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put a lock code on yours as well.
2007-06-24 04:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Weatherman 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can ask for fair game. If he wants to snoop around and check your phone, then he, in turn, must permit you access to his mobile phone as well. If he refuses, don't make a big deal out of it. Just don't let him view yours. One thing, though.. if you're just really the type who trusts her boyfriend, then you shouldn't be alarmed by this; you can even just ask politely for him to unlock his phone, so that you can take a look. It's not that difficult to erase messages or info, though.. Anyway, if he doesn't let you see it.. then that in itself is an answer. Some people take a hint and end the relationship. Some try to get to the bottom of things, and sometimes see in the end how futile the attempt was. Some get to work it out (with a lot of effort).. and some don't. Which one are you? Try to ask yourself that, and once you've figured that one out.. it'll be easy to move from there. Just be careful, and don't let yourself get played for a fool. Ball's in your court.
2007-06-24 05:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rogee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it. Or do your own investigation work. Try unlocking it. Alot of times it's the last 4 of the phone number or all 0's. He shouldn't be looking at your phone and not giving his up for you to look at. That's hardly fair. So, put a lock code on yours or tell him to take his off!
2007-06-24 04:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by TMarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hie Cattty. Well to me it is bad for you to give him your phone rto him and let him see your text mesages on your phone and see who is calling you, because he is having a doubt on you and besides that he is thinking that you are cheating on him and would go on with another guy, but when the doubt appears on him and it is good if you have your own lock or password to go in your text messages, but when you sees his and he have a lock or password to his phone and which you think it is bad for you to check then it is better for you not give it to him anymore to check on it, when you are in a relationship the doubt should not appears in any parties which can be lead to a bad way of breaking up and from there will also be a small fights when you are in a relationship, so the best way is better for you to not to give him or try to put a password to it and for sure he won't be able to check on it. Try this and hope it might help you..................
ALL THE BEST......................
2007-06-24 05:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put in a code in yours too . usually the code that is already programmes into is the last 4 digits of your cell phone number. But you wil need to change that number to something else . Other wise it will be to easy for your BF to get into your messages!!!!!
2007-06-24 04:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tit for tat. Why are you letting him control you like that? Tell him to keep his grubby hands off your phone. On a side note, people that are cheating will usually accuse their partner of cheating. Your boyfriend sounds suspicious to say the least and I would be careful if I were you. Hopefully you're not the type of girl to be okay with someone who cheats on you. Because those types of girls have really crappy lives.
2007-06-24 04:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by it's me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do the same to yours, and when he asks you why you've done it say you'll happily undo it when he does the same and you can go through his phone. He'll probably start an argument, blame you then run off. But at least you'll know you were in the right.
2007-06-24 04:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by Wildman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what happened with me with my ex , turned out he was faithful but i found the code anyways.
Hun , i'd just put a code on yours aswell , its only fair. Unless he has it on there because he has something to hid , i'd just do the same and put a safe code on your mobile.
Goodluck
xx
2007-06-24 04:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's too possessive and controlling. He might be cheating, he might not. But do you really want someone that needs to know every single detail of who your talking to and where you are all the time?
2007-06-24 04:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive seen this before, he doesnt really trust you, and theres a reason y. its either him or u. if your clean then its him. hes doing something behind your back thathes scared that u might know. or hes just scared of being in love and losing it. explain to him what trust is. and u may wanna get into his phone somehow and do some detective work of your own.
2007-06-24 04:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by donkey_depressed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a smart man. Because if you have something to hide lock it up, maybe you should do the same thing even if you don't have anything to hide just to show him how it feels.
2007-06-24 06:47:54 · answer #11 · answered by Omar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋