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As much as I hate to admit it, Im slipping into my 2nd divorce. Right now I'm so emotionally drained from "trying", that I just feel hollow & cynical. How did we get here? I spent so much time alone self-analyzing myself after my 1st divorce. Ive tried so hard to not make the same mistakes. I'm not perfect, I know that. But I'm home every night, I try to always say, "I love you" & "good morning" & "good night". Im not abusive, I comprimise. I always have my wife's & step daughter's best intrests at heart in all my decisions. But each day it gets worse, we are more like roomates than lovers. We don't talk because I know she doesnt believe anything I say, her every complaint with "us", I try to rectify, but then it comes across as being "forced" to her. Right now I honestly feel Im not cut out for marriage, because I end up putting myself last & get nothing for it & I resent that. Im 35 & Im at a loss. Besides churches is there any free or low cost counseling? Its my last resort.

2007-06-23 17:47:41 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is a completley different person. She has got a new bf and she is always with hi and doesn't make any time for me. I'm not jelous, i am just upset becuase i have done soo much for her and now she has just turned her back on me. Also i am worried that something bad is going to happen her. When i talk about it too my other frends they start bagging me and acuse me of liking her. I just want my best friend back! How can i get her to change back?

2007-06-23 17:44:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm ridiculously in love with my girlfriend and I want it to last as long as I can possibly make it last, possibly til marriage.

2007-06-23 17:42:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I,m a white male dating a black girl, but im forbidden to
marry her? but my parents say its ok to date her! if i even
think of marriage? or having babies with her, they would
disown me, what should i do? plus we are Mormons, plus
my black girl friend told me she is pregnant today, i love her.

2007-06-23 17:36:13 · 13 answers · asked by GlobeHunter 2 in Singles & Dating

It is a fact that men who are goodlooking, successful and smart are always needed by the women. How do you the hot guy choose who to marry and who not to?

2007-06-23 17:35:20 · 11 answers · asked by noble 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. I have been asked out only twice by guys who aren't so dating material. But, I say yes for the sake of dating, which is usually to some cheap place. Anyway, it's special to me because I almost NEVER get dates. Correction: I NEVER get dates. Whenever I build the courage to ask a guy I like if he wants to hang out or something, he always come with a snippy way of saying no. So, I'm 13, and is just a stage I'm going thru, or is this a permanant disaster???

2007-06-23 17:34:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-23 17:33:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have known my bf for 10 years now we started out as friends he was actually dating my cousin who ended up cheatin on him he and i didnt hook up for about 2 years after him and my cuz broke it off we met up out of the blue started talkin and it went on from there anyways he recently asked for my hand in marriage i love him and care about him soooo much however this is the problem i am in new mexico he is in california and he doesnt want to live here i do not want to live there and we cant seem to come up with an in btwn i want to be near my family and he wants to be near his what do we do ?? as far as the proposal he wants me to make a decision i havent answered him yet im not sure

2007-06-23 17:26:45 · 11 answers · asked by arg314 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my gf asked me 2 go 2 her house 4 movies but i am nervous bout her parents

2007-06-23 17:25:23 · 31 answers · asked by babemagnent5 1 in Singles & Dating

My marriage in on the break of divorce. When we got married almost two years ago, the marriage was not what I had expected. So I have learned to keep my expections very low. My husband never wants to take me out anywhere, all he wants to do is go to work, sleep, eat and on the weekends hand out with his friends or go to the racetrack. I am all for people having freedom and spending time to themsleves, but this has been going on all our marriage. We never have sex anymore. I do have my suspections that he is having an affair or has in the past, but I do not have any proof. Now he goes out and stays out until 12 or 1 in the morning and he states to me that he is at the racetrack. I have talked to him until I am blue in the face. When I do talk to him he falls asleep or he turns the TV up louder to drown me out. I will probably file for divorce. I am a strong woman but I feel like a failure even though I do know this is not my fault. Can anyone give me any suggestions?

2007-06-23 17:24:27 · 15 answers · asked by Lizzy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok a bout a week ago i asked this girl out she said no today i asked her y she said no she said cuase we were friends is that trueor is it a cover up of saying i dont wanna date u

2007-06-23 17:21:47 · 11 answers · asked by dustin w 2 in Singles & Dating

My baby is 8 months old, and her daddy is a lying dreamer. I've decided to move out of state to live with family to help me bring a better life for the 2 of us. I've recently discovered some scary websites he was visiting while supposedly 'helping' me pack, which made me kick him out. When she saw him the last time (2 days ago) for 2 hours, she was crying when he was leaving. It broke my heart. He said he was going to be back to visit, but I haven't heard from him since. How do you single mom's cope with the hard times? What helps you get through it? I look at her, and see her looking around for her daddy, and it hurts so bad inside. I never wanted to witness my 8 month old's heart breaking in front of me. How do you deal?

2007-06-23 17:19:08 · 10 answers · asked by beccalecca3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that when I turn on the radio and such I find that all of the clubs have "no cover for women" or "ladies drink free" and "ladies get in free drinks are $1"...why never men? and why is it ladies that always get this?

2007-06-23 17:18:21 · 3 answers · asked by ILuvTaraReid 2 in Singles & Dating

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i keep asking people the same thing but there not giving me the answer. how do you tell if you love some one and if someone loves you?? wat kinda sings should i be looking for??

2007-06-23 17:16:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we are still married and together,when i say i messed up i didnt cheat or anything like that.i was a jack*** im grouchy and i dont know why i love my wife with all my heart but im still grouchy and jealous .i dont think she would cheat on me but if i dont straighten up i might lose her forever.please help.quickly.she dont hardly want to talk to me anymore.

2007-06-23 17:11:49 · 17 answers · asked by my q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK about 2-3 times a month my husband tells me he is going out. Won't tell me where he is going or who he is going with. I am pretty trusting but he never comes home till the next day! The first few times I just brushed it off. But now when he is getting ready to go I ask if he's going to be home tonight, he always says yes I'll be home in a couple hours. NO, NEXT DAY AT NOON! Why? What is he doing, he has a wife and 2 young children at home why? When he finaly gets home he always tells me he got drunk and slept on the couch at a friends house. What friend I don't know any friends that are not both of our friends. What should I do?

2007-06-23 17:00:52 · 19 answers · asked by momoftwo0110 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In this scenario there are NO children involved & you've been married less than 5 years.....

1. If you truly loved your spouse, could you have a long standing, very serious emotional & physical affair with a third party?

2. If you were the spouse that was cheated on, and you found out that the cheating spouse had been unfaithful to you in varying degrees more than once, would you end the marriage?

Thanks for your answers.

2007-06-23 16:58:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a super friend status with everyone but no loyal comitment. They know my standards, respects them ,but ends up where I find out they are always cheaters.

2007-06-23 16:58:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he is my friend in my highschool years and seems to linger whenever i have this new boyfriend, i dont understand why he gives the reason to think of him. :c

2007-06-23 16:56:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I are considering getting engaged and he would like to know.

2007-06-23 16:54:37 · 39 answers · asked by T 3 in Weddings

because ive been put through alot of **** etc and they want to keep involving my cousin who is the reason the family got broken anyway they want to except them back at times if that happens they will never see me at any parties and iam the life of the party and thats not the reason why iam depress either thats another story how do i not care to be at the parties and do other things

2007-06-23 16:52:31 · 1 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family

I need to find the above site to RSVP before July 18. Send info: to
jbitklep2@verizon.net Thank You!

2007-06-23 16:51:53 · 4 answers · asked by jbitklep2@verizon.net 1 in Weddings

I got divorced and my ex is supposed to refinance the home and pay me $15,000.He can refinance but wants me to sign a quitclaim deed and a disclaimer deed without paying me. The house will go into foreclosure if he doesn't refinance because he is so far behind on the payments but he will not have enough left over to pay me.I need my name off the deed but I also need my $15,000.Will signing the papers void the divorce agreement?Will I still be able to get him to pay me?I can't afford a lawyer nor do I have time to see one.

2007-06-23 16:50:42 · 4 answers · asked by chrlngeer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-23 16:49:56 · 27 answers · asked by cypress_0511 2 in Singles & Dating

in my depression because iam not shes acting like its easy to get over or like its nothing shes not trying to help shes in it for the gossip or and to hold it againt me

2007-06-23 16:45:46 · 9 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family

Looks,
Personality,
or
Education?

2007-06-23 16:45:02 · 20 answers · asked by ☆Bombastic☆ 5 in Singles & Dating

i feel like although i hate them, and i think the things they do are sick and twisted, and i know theyre wrong, im becoming a little like them, since im homeskooled and always around them. i hate it, because i want to be the opposite of them, literally my worst fear is to be anything like them when im an adult. is there anything at all i can do to prevent myself from picking up their habits and tendancys? id do anything...ill never have kids if im like them when i grow up. i wont marry either. the last thing i would do is inflict my messed up self onto someone else

2007-06-23 16:31:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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