Family & Relationships - 23 June 2007

Do you guys believe in love at first sight???

2007-06-23 14:03:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so me and my husband got married this march and didnt tell our parents bc we knew that they proly wouldnt approve bc we were not financially ready. my husband has a serious back injury and he has been out of work for the last 6 months. he feels horrible about it and workers comp is not paying him bc they are saying they need more evidence blah blah. he also cannot get treatment bc of this but he is getting a lawyer and working on it. anyways my mother decided to call him a few days ago and freak out on him like a child. she said he stole me from her and that he should have never married me and that he is taking advantge of me and that he needs to step up and stop being a loser and scremed at him and hung up without letting him get a word in. i am so disgusted she wotn even talk to me or call to apologize. i left her a message telling her i want nothing to do with her anymore . i know sghe does love me but i cant believ she would do this to my husband and me. he is so depressed now

2007-06-23 14:02:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is the best way to get over a love that is still in your mind after breaking up 7 months ago ... havent seen her or talked to her but my heart is still in pain.............

2007-06-23 14:01:58 · 18 answers · asked by EDDIE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-23 14:01:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to this girl for a few months now and I'm just really frustrated because she won't open up and let me show her that I really like her. She was with her ex for 4 years when she was cheated on last year. I've tried lots of things like just sending flowers to work and she says she enjoys that and I make her laugh, but i doesn't seem to be getting me anywhere. She says she thinks I'm great, but she doesn't know when she'll be ready. I don't want to give up on her or push her into a relationship, but I would like to help her understand that I would never hurt her. I have a feeling this will take some serious time. What should I do?

2007-06-23 13:59:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a divorced medical professional with no children. I would love to have a child(ren) in my life but don't want to remarry. Can anyone help me with resources to find a way to do this?. I have tried online groups and websites without any luck. Please don't suggest adoption, would rather have my own child. I would love to hear of organizations or professional groups to help me! I am sure there are women out there that feel the same. Also please no "just knock some woman up" suggestions either.

2007-06-23 13:57:56 · 7 answers · asked by Jim B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-23 13:57:31 · 8 answers · asked by kellee b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The other day I asked the question, "what if, after numerous dates with a guy, that you are really liking because you click on many different levels, he tells you that he likes to wear women's underwear and is that ok with you?"

Almost all of you said no way and you would ask him to leave. Is it that he is wearing panties, or that there must be something wrong with him that he likes wearing panties. Because if you put on his t-shirt or boxers or briefs or jeans or shirt, its O.K.. Why can't he wear panties, or for that matter any other women's clothing, like pants, because they fit well or feel nice, and you couldn't really tell or couldn't see that they were women's cloths?

What are you afraid of or what bothers you about it?

Feel free to explain yourself and elaborate.

2007-06-23 13:57:20 · 15 answers · asked by GO FOR IT 6 in Singles & Dating

Stop asking how to get a guy or girl to like you. All you have to do is talk to them and they'll let you know real quick whether or not they're interested. Sorry to rant but I'm tired of wasted space considering that our answer is the same everytime.

2007-06-23 13:56:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Weve been best friends for forever and i told him that i liked him and now we dont talk... it hurts should i reapproach him and try and make it normal again or should i just drop it?

2007-06-23 13:56:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a man marries a woman just because he wants to be in good terms with god and not for all the other reason people should marry for,Can that marriage last?The woman got pregnant to trap him ,then they started to "visit"church.He did not bother to propose until the baby was 2yrs and the pastor put presure on him.

2007-06-23 13:54:06 · 9 answers · asked by jubileejoy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'd like to have a site where I can post pics and updates just for family and friends that is free. I'd rather they just link to it rather than having to join and become a 'friend' on the site like a blog. I do not want it open to the public. Any suggestions?

Thx in advance. :)

2007-06-23 13:49:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-23 13:47:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some say only if you would hang out with them outside of work, but I'm not sure that matters since I actually spend more time with my co-workers than I do with most of my friends and family. Can you get away with inviting some but not all?

2007-06-23 13:46:49 · 14 answers · asked by Lisa S 2 in Weddings

as opposed to people my own age? Do you think older people are more accepting and less judgmental? I just got home from my friend's graduation party and I sat with the adults instead of my friend and all her college friends because that was who I struck a conversation with right away, so it just made the most sense. My friend wanted me to go out with her and a group of about six people afterwards, but not one of her friends has ever initiated a conversation with me. If they had, I probably would have had no problem talking to them for the rest of the night. I just don't know what to say to these people. It is even worse when I go to the beach with them because I feel ignored for the most part and out of place. Do you think when I am in my 40's (I am in my early 20's now) my age group will be easier to talk to?

2007-06-23 13:43:39 · 22 answers · asked by pingponggirl 3 in Friends

Wife left 12 days ago. No explanation just packed up kids and went to her mothers. I really do love her and feel that the things that are broken in our marriage can be fixed. Problem is she wont communicate with me in any way. Wont answer my calls, wont text. What can I do?

2007-06-23 13:42:22 · 26 answers · asked by titansfanatic0804 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i went over my friends house and his mom was naked in a room i walked into by mistake and she said dont worry i always walk around naked im afraid to say somthing because its not my hosue and she dosn't like to let her son over other peoples houses and she is very touchy like when i slept over his house and we were going out to eat and i hoped in the shower at his house and she just got in when i was in there and started to help me she started to wash my private areas i was to nervous to get out

2007-06-23 13:40:14 · 11 answers · asked by bob l 1 in Friends

My friend was married 7 yrs. wife quit working when they got married to "work on herself". No children. He owned house before they got married - refinanced a few years ago keeping the title the same. She claims fraud because he didn't put her name on the deed. She is getting $1200/mo. disability (1st time through) for borderline personality disorder that she just started getting right when they separated. She is also getting $1200/mo. from him - in addition she got $24,000 back pay from disability when they separated. Plus he had to pay for her new place--first, last and deposits - he has a crummy, inexperienced attorney. He's only a car salesman - the only thing he has is his house and his atty. seems to think she's entitled to around $75,000 of that (total value $300,000) - HELP - she's borderline psychotic and wasn't diagnosed that until right before they separated - she's violent, manipulative and unfortunately very brilliant (high IQ) and knows how to work the system.

2007-06-23 13:37:17 · 9 answers · asked by GrnEyedBlondeSwede 2 in Marriage & Divorce

to have children after marriage?

We waited 7 years (we married quite young). Do you think age has a lot to do with it or buidling the relationship solid at first then proceding with having children once you are well settled?

2007-06-23 13:33:43 · 8 answers · asked by Smiley 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I agreed to be in a friends wedding. When I agreed to be in her wedding initially a medical thing I have to wear was supposed to be gone by wedding day but there were complications. She decided early that she must have the carbon copy BM's and chose a dress and we ordered it thinking my condition would be gone. I could physically wear it now but would be uncomfortable and embarassing since it would show my medical thing. I told her I will not wear the dress and tried to back out when she refused to let me wear a diff. style in the same color. Now she is crying that I have ruined her day because she will have uneven bridesmaid numbers and there isn't time for replacement. She has also uninvited me to the wedding since I will not wear this dress.

I am not sure who's right.

Note: I don't want to go into detail about what it is but I am not pregnant and it is not something common like a cast.

2007-06-23 13:33:00 · 20 answers · asked by pspoptart 6 in Weddings

I moved to a new city a few months ago and I have been having a really hard time meeting people. It's one of those places where if you smile at somebody, they immediately think you are weird and up to something no good so they treat you like a psycho if you try to be nice. I have been unable to break through to a single person, it's like these people are so settled in their lives that they don't really care if I am in it or not and unwilling to even get to know me. I'm a nice person, laid back with a good sense of humor, and I have been told I am attractive....I'm kind of shy, but I've put myself out there a couple of times trying to get to know people, and it's like they just have no interest in me. I've been really discouraged and feeling really badly. Has anyone else had a similar experience, and does it really get better with time? People back home keep telling me that it will, but I swear I honestly feel worse as time goes on.

2007-06-23 13:30:45 · 16 answers · asked by YoungShyCareerGirl 6 in Singles & Dating

according to family code 2640 , spouse is entitle to recieve down payment made to buy a community property ,can be done that pay during mariage time (for instance refinancing or in a equity loan ) ?

2007-06-23 13:30:34 · 1 answers · asked by jose g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you girls saw a nerdy looking glasses wearing guy date a lot of beautiful women and he was not rich what would u think of him?

2007-06-23 13:28:38 · 15 answers · asked by private0909 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy and me have been messing around but he has this girlfried who he hasnt gotten rid of! im ready to punch him cuzz hes calling me his girlfriend! what the heck am i supposed to do?

2007-06-23 13:27:50 · 3 answers · asked by bekkymetal 2 in Singles & Dating

why dose my hubby keep gettin bigger n bigger????? it like he never take no time off from macdonalls!!!!!!!!! he always down there!!!!!!!! ever since the docter tolds him to cut back on smokin to reduce blood pressured,, he go out of kontrol!!!!!!!!!! he replace pall mall with food!!!!!! he got hoverround now he buzzzzzz round in dat all day!!!!!! he has super size gut now!!!!!!! it so big it rubb on floor sometime!!!!!!!! whenever i try n talks to him he just tell me that god make him that size n there nothin he can dose about it!!!!! he cut back to 3 n half pack a day of pall mall n malboro light,,,,,i pround of him,,,,,but now he HUGE!!!!!!!!! WHAT CAN I DO????????

2007-06-23 13:27:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it maybe love or maybe hatred..or maybe commitment...BUT what exactly does it mean to you??

2007-06-23 13:25:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

...how should a girl hug a guy she likes to give him the impression that she likes him?

2007-06-23 13:22:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's a skater/emo kind of guy, and he's turning 15. I wanna get him something really cool and special for his birthday, but i'm on a $50 budget.
help=)

2007-06-23 13:15:22 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ trés VOUGE. 2 in Singles & Dating

(be in love.. with your future wife)

2007-06-23 13:11:30 · 25 answers · asked by flipside 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-23 13:11:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce