Family & Relationships - 23 June 2007

This has gone long enough. I seriously think that four grown people can not live under the same roof, esp when two of them has authority over the other two. This has got to end. I need to get out of the house now. Is it possible for sum one to move out on their own without being fully finanically ready? Whats the odds of being successful, i.e. paying all major bills on time.

2007-06-23 19:08:55 · 10 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-23 19:08:47 · 14 answers · asked by hzyoni 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I am bout to have sex with a someone I have known for years. She is recently divorced and we have been talking about furthering our relationship. She is very afraid of having sex with a new partner. She married young and has only had sex with that ex-husband. She is also a bit afraid of my SIZE too. I am 6'4 and she is 5'1.
I don't want to treat her like a virgin but???
Is their any adult advice out there?
Thanks

2007-06-23 19:07:23 · 3 answers · asked by boscatman 3 in Singles & Dating

why am I being soo stupid? How badly can one person screw up their life before a spouse calls it quits! No havent ever cheated on him either...How many chances will he give me?
Just not sure what to do?

2007-06-23 19:07:21 · 3 answers · asked by woohooo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So. All my life I have been the ugly girl w/ pretty friends. So all the guys I have ever liked, Have liked my freinds. So I am 15 years old, never had a boyfreind.
So, I met this guy and he is 17... yupp two years older. And we had talked a lot. I was at house (he invited me over) and he kept putting his legs all over me and tickleing me and what I considered flirting. So I stayed for 2 and a half hours from 9:30PM to 12:00AM. Than I got home and about 12:30AM I got a call from him. We talked for a while and he said "But seriously, do you like me?" and replied "I don't know..." and he said "Thats not a serious answer" and I said "Yes it is... there is things I like about you and things I dislike about you" And than I asked him the same question and got the same answer. We talked about both those and he said I was easy to talk to... and beautiful and some other stuff. Then today he said I am to young. And asked me to hook him up w/ one of my freinds. Im so confused. Whats he thinking?

2007-06-23 19:05:36 · 23 answers · asked by ☮ Miss ♥ Sloan ♫ Amor ツ 2 in Singles & Dating

some rude and obnoxious man at work made a pass at me, saying he was 'single' and trying to invite himself to my house. in the mean time, everyone else says he just got thru b.itching about his former wife, who has divorced him.

it seems to me, everytime i meat a 'single' man, he is actually a divorced man. however, women are more straight foward, introducing themselves as receintly divorced. what goes here?

2007-06-23 19:03:22 · 20 answers · asked by bebop_music 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-23 19:00:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been lucky enough to have several lovers who knew what they were doing and enjoyed my satisfaction.
Now I am seeing a guy who was enthusiastic at first but now just satisfies himself. I tried to show him and talk to him, but he just bought me a vibrator. It would be so much easier if he would show some love. I'm too old and insecure to start dating.

2007-06-23 19:00:02 · 5 answers · asked by Eve 3 in Singles & Dating

I need him to understand that I am not interested in a relationship just an occasional intimate encounter

2007-06-23 18:59:18 · 7 answers · asked by Michelle S 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys ...If you made it pretty clear that you wanna be just friends with a girl ...Would you still try to sleep with her?

2007-06-23 18:59:00 · 14 answers · asked by R.I.P ANDY ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Well the B/F left for his vacation with his kids. I was told the reason my son and I were not invited was cost. I am trying to be positive about all of this......but keep feeling that it is time to leave him. WHY? Well as said before we have traveled as a family for 3 yrs, This trip was daughters High School grad trip. My11yr old still can't understand why we didn't go and feelings are hurt. B/F never gave me option to pay for myself.....knows my finances.
Money is issue. B/F spends like crazy on self and kids, I struggle with bills. In defense we dine out and go to concerts etc....he pays, also have had 2 vacations with both families that he paid. Its just that after 3.5 years our financial differences are hard to deal with for my son and I. His kids go to camp...mine don't, I have no health insurance drive old car etc. Not to be selfish but daughteralso recieved laptop needed for college for grad gift. Again am I out of line.......I'm feeling the writing is on the wall ..time to go

2007-06-23 18:58:06 · 17 answers · asked by haroldhark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy asked for my # then pushed me on the swings and then said I looked nice does he just want to be friends or more

2007-06-23 18:55:43 · 14 answers · asked by Lore 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-23 18:55:05 · 5 answers · asked by littlemsss 2 in Friends

would tell you if they didnt wanna be with you?

2007-06-23 18:54:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when offer to buy a girl a drink?

2007-06-23 18:51:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are the "qualifications" of love? In other words... How do you know when you are in love?

2007-06-23 18:51:15 · 16 answers · asked by giving. 3 in Singles & Dating

well the thing is this relationship is quite tough when i say that u are married to a complete dog or jerk i should say how to avoid him and get rid of him or should one keep him and try to change him if he would .

2007-06-23 18:51:10 · 20 answers · asked by Harkamal S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My 5 year old son has passed recently he was going to be the ring bearer in my sissters wedding this coming Sep. She has decided to have a butterfly release in memory of her nephew and asked me to pick the song to it. I don't want to sad of song or slow ar to up beat or bring evryones happieness down when we play the song during the buterfly release HELP ME

2007-06-23 18:51:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Honestly would it be too much of a headache because you are constantly worried that they will slip back into their old habits?
Would you ever trust that they are telling you the whole truth about their past?
Would it be worth giving it a chance?

2007-06-23 18:50:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no comment!!!!

2007-06-23 18:49:47 · 3 answers · asked by rajesh p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems that lately I'm more down on myself, I feel as though the contributing factor to my low self esteem seem to strain for the lack of realtionships. I can't seem to be attractive or maybe there's something wrong. I find that I can be rather funny and guys laugh, but maybe they think of me as one of the boys not a true girl. In high school which I recently graudated findn me to goody girl, that I lack in being bad. I can be fun-true i play it safe but only because I feel so guilty otherwise. You see i used to be bad-crazy girl and some of the guys always remind me of where and who I have become often say, "Hey you changed." What do guys like in girls. I'm to ugly, not easily prone to sinful actions-what the heck is wrong with me? I'm not a freaken psyhco (spell?) I'm normal girl, who not that bad looking..maybe I'm. I still can't attract a decient (spell?) Guy! Tell me what you think please.

2007-06-23 18:47:41 · 5 answers · asked by mk 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex left me at 7 months pregnant for a 17yr old high school girl. he put me and my family threw hell and i have spent $1000.00's of $ on him to take him to court because he didnt want to pay child support.
Now...everyday i wish for something bad to happen to my ex husband. he is a terrible person and i feel he shouldn't live. i hate his very being. all the love i had for him turned into hate. why cant i just realize what a piece of sh*t he was/is and move on! he really is a pathetic dead beat why cant i keep that in my head!

2007-06-23 18:47:31 · 23 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

For full background, see my previous posting about 3 year old seeing too much - basically she saw her dad try to knock my head off... I've not really dealt with it since it happened 9 mos ago and she keeps bringing it up - THOUGH I DON'T TALK ABOUT IT TO HER UNLESS SHE ASKS AND DON'T TALK BAD OF HER FATHER.

Many people are suggesting in answer to my post to take her to counseling. I love her dearly and would do it if it helped... Any personal experiences / suggestions would be great... Thanks.

Wildflower

2007-06-23 18:45:55 · 9 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-23 18:44:50 · 11 answers · asked by hotty 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-23 18:42:15 · 5 answers · asked by mk 2 in Singles & Dating

LIKE-I'm only 17-and I see girls that are too gorgeous-me and my friends think its a money waster to ask a girl out to a date that knows too many guys or too many guys adore them...LOL
we are just wasting money when you can get married and you know for sure its not a waste and every penny was worth it or every peso-

is this a good way to not date a girl you think-would be just a money waster?

open to ladies and gents-I want as many answers.

2007-06-23 18:41:58 · 6 answers · asked by Count Ez 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 28 years old and have a 25-year-old sister. My parents have always prided themselves in treating my sister and I fairly, including financially. My sister recently had an extravagant wedding that cost my parents around $30,000. Even though I do not want an expensive wedding, my parents have promised me an equal amount of money to do with as I please.
However, they say that since my sister's wedding was so expensive, I may have to wait until they die to get "mine." I don't necessarily have a problem with waiting, but I feel it is unfair for them not to offer to somehow compensate me (with interest, for example) for waiting 25-30 years for what my sister got at the age of 25.
I understand that as an adult, I should not expect anything from them, but it bothers me that I feel I am being treated differently than my sister. Would it be unreasonable and selfish to ask my parents to add interest to the amount or to discuss making the contribution "fair?"

2007-06-23 18:39:24 · 27 answers · asked by Ilikethebeastieboys 1 in Weddings

do most men that pay child support feel that they are being a good father... does paying but barely seeing you child make them feel like there part of your child's life?
or do they secretly hate to pay?

2007-06-23 18:39:19 · 11 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If we were to be together would you be upset by it? would it change your view of me?

2007-06-23 18:37:44 · 14 answers · asked by kells 1 in Singles & Dating

name some stuff you want girls to do more of. ( and i dont mean showing stuff and nudity crap. i mean like, should we give you something? look at you? etc etc )

2007-06-23 18:35:58 · 9 answers · asked by i♥mybichonfrise 3 in Singles & Dating